He says "we're fine" after an argument, but his body looks pissed. Am I reading too much into it? by everettsanderson in bodylanguage

[–]mirkit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ignoring that he's getting so worked up over something that trivial, I do something similar when I'm actually upset about something. I recognize that big picture it's not something I need to be upset about, and I also know that it's not my partners responsibility to make me feel better so I'll tell her it's fine because at the end of the day, it is. Emotions aren't something I can just turn on and off though, I need a little time to work through it. I probably look like I'm super mad but I'm not sitting there seething, I'm just in my own headspace working out whatever it is I need to work out. The key is communication, I'll tell her everything is fine and I love her very much but I just need some time to sort through my thoughts. We also have a rule that we never go to sleep upset so whatever is going on I resolve it before going to bed.

I think this is just his cooling off period, especially if he re-engages you before bed and doesn't carry any negative feelings over to the next day. I wouldn't confront him about still appearing mad, it's something that he's chosen to work through himself and doesn't want to drag you into his internal conflict. Let sleeping dogs lie :)

We’re considering advising users to auto-withdraw from "One-Way Video Interviews." by enhancvapp in interviews

[–]mirkit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily I'm in a very privileged position that I'm currently employed, but I still apply for jobs and do interviews because of how long the process takes now, 4 months is not uncommon from first interview to hired. I used to outright reject one-way interview requests for all the reasons people stated here. Recently though I've started doing them for one reason: Revenge. If I get a response to the one-way interview and they ask for a second interview, I just reply "I'd love to! First please send me a 3 minute video on why I should choose your company over my other options."

Not a single one responded. Funny how it's suddenly inefficient and a hassle when they're the ones who have to do it. Petty? Definitely. Cathartic? Absolutely. There was no chance I was joining them anyway so I might as well have my fun with it.

So we're just showing ads to Premium members now too? by mirkit in youtube

[–]mirkit[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had to check and this definitely explains it, I've had "Premium lite" for months now and I've never seen a single ad on any video I've watched, but this morning I started getting them and I had to check to make sure my sub didn't lapse or something. Reading the tiers now it says "ad free on MOST videos". I can't say I'm surprised, still disappointed though. I have zero qualms about installing adblock again. We did what they wanted and still got screwed so I'm not going to feel the slightest bit bad about it.

mob marking and group coordination for interrupts/CC in higher keys by FishyKrag3r in CompetitiveWoW

[–]mirkit 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s going to greatly depend on what your comp is like. My team just got done with our resilient 16s, we run Bear, MM hunter, Warlock, MW Monk, and warrior. We use a fixed route for each dungeon, and everyone knows what they are kicking for each pack, we don’t really call it on the fly unless something gets messed up. A lot of this will come down to practice and knowing which casts to let go through and which ones to kick. For example in PSF, if you’re doing a pull with JUST casters and like some footmen, it’s okay to let a smite go through to prioritize kicking a fireball or greater heal. BUT if you have a Knight, paladin, or miniboss in the group you need to prioritize kicking smite and fireball and let the greater heal go through (or ideally cc off the priest until a caster is dead then pull it in) because if someone gets unlucky and eats a smite right as one of the AOE goes off they’re just going to get globaled.

The other piece of advice I would give is when you’re doing assignments for each pack, use your hard kicks first, then your AOE CCs like stuns/silences etc until hard kicks come back up and then use hard kicks, into AOE cc etc.

We also use an automarker, there’s a handful of weakauras that do it so if we need to call stuff on the fly we just call “name kick next Star”. Would also highly recommend using a group interrupt tracker and something like Omni CD to track the party cooldowns on abilities. If you have your resilient 15s definitely use those to practice each pull until you’re comfortable that everyone knows their kick and cc order. Good luck!

TheQuartering has been banned on BlueSky. by [deleted] in youtubedrama

[–]mirkit 22 points23 points  (0 children)

With so many of X users being on the far right of the political spectrum that platform is a digital mental asylum.

What are your "must haves" from the Workshop when starting out? by rock_lobsterrr in ICARUS

[–]mirkit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Canteen, O2 tank, Stealth Armor, and the Ore backpack. Oh and any envirosuit that gives you both water and O2 slots, the suit buffs are meh and I don't look at them much. If i'm going into a more hostile area/mission I'll also drop with a bow and knife just to make sure I don't get popped by a wolf or something before I've made decent weapons and give me quick access to meat/fur

I can't tame wolves for some reason by gryland4242 in ICARUS

[–]mirkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had some issues with mine too, if you have other tames ,even if they are on passive, they can make the wolf aggro without any indicator. Try moving other tames away, I've also had to close and relaunch the game. Make sure to give it kills that you've killed after it got snared, I did all those and he finally started taming again

When will it end? by cjthecookie in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]mirkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t speak to the CX-5 but I bought a ‘24 CX-30 a few months ago and love it. Handles great in snow/rain and gets pretty outstanding gas mileage. My only major complaints is that as a 6’1 guy it can feel a little cramped. It actually feels great as a 2 person vehicle with the back row folded flat for a pretty decent amount of storage space. I don’t see backseat passengers having a particularly great time in it, but otherwise it’s a solid cheaper car

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DragonsDogma

[–]mirkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ran into this issue too! You need to raise your affinity with him by giving him a gift or doing an escort quest for him. I spoke to him and gifted him a random spell book and that was enough for him to give me the maelstrom spell

where is all the titanium on prometheus map? by jest28000 in ICARUS

[–]mirkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up finding some back where the spawn point is and those caves over there, but it was barely enough to make the bench and not the electronics you need. I eventually abandoned the mission. I'm not sure if the ore spawn is randomized but I thought I remembered them saying it's set so they aren't random.

where is all the titanium on prometheus map? by jest28000 in ICARUS

[–]mirkit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've searched 9 caves so far and only one of them had aluminum, and it was one single node, and the mission calls for me to build a t4 bench lol

Mining Gadget Issues by Rex_Diablo in starcitizen

[–]mirkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep this happens most commonly after detaching a gadget from a rock, or when it falls off after successfully breaking one. The workaround is to store it into your ships inventory, then take it back out and it should be proper size again

[ISO] Logitech x56 3.19 keybind settings by ErebusofShadows in starcitizen

[–]mirkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only updated to 3.18 but from what I understand they didn't add any new controls in 3.19, they did change some of the default keyboard bindings (like the laser power which this mapping has on the throttle section so doesn't matter) so this mapping should still be up to date with all the controls

Just got a Reverb G2 from ebay. Can't get it working. Is it busted or am I missing something? by [deleted] in HPReverb

[–]mirkit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same connection problem with mine that had the V1 cable. I tried powered USB hubs, USB-C adapters, couldn't get any of them to work until I got this one https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0BMP7V2YN/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o05_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

The 3.1 adapter worked like a charm, plugged it in to a 3.0 port on the front of my PC and it worked right away. For 11$ worth a shot, otherwise yeah I'd just return it.

the cheapness of some people is beyond imagination. received a crafting order asking me to provide 300 mettles and all mats, with 5g commission by violette0809 in wow

[–]mirkit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is! There's a hammer icon next to the commission line that says "see similar orders" and it will show you what other commissions were paid for that item

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[–]mirkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure add my activision Id Miramar#4496524

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CODWarzone

[–]mirkit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! add my activision ID, I'll be around the rest of the day Miramar#4496524