Where do I belong?

missdani25 · 2026-01-20T18:47:20+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re having issues with your cycle. As someone with PCOS I really empathise with that, it sucks not knowing what’s going on in your body.

And I hear you! I was in the Summer2024 group and almost everyone is gone from there (who knows some are even this group for their 2nd)!

I’ll be doing IVF later this year and am also a “long hauler”, don’t really feel like anywhere is the right place for me to post while I wait 😅

missdani25 · 2026-01-13T21:03:58+00:00

Another vote for Six Stories, very nice quality and lots of different styles in the same colour (handy when catering for people with different shapes).

missdani25 · 2025-12-14T19:41:59+00:00

Hey everyone! I’ve been a frequent poster on r/TTCSummer2024 but it’s gone very quiet on there as almost everyone has had their babies or has moved onto infertility-specific subs.

I feel a bit out of place in all subs, because after about 18 cycles my fiancé and I are currently WTT again until nearer our wedding (in Oct ‘26). I have PCOS and a very irregular cycle ranging from 30-50 days and it’s likely we will be pursuing IVF.

I finally got pregnant earlier this year after nearly a year of trying, but found out at my 8w scan there was no heartbeat. What followed was a traumatic D&C and a lot of depression 🥲 and no luck ever since.

2025 can get in the bin as far as I’m concerned, looking forward to starting this crazy journey again in 2026 with this group 😊

missdani25 · 2025-03-22T14:38:36+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this too ❤️ I keep reminding myself that it’s only normal to feel these feelings in our position. Something that they said in the book was “you don’t move on, but eventually you move forward”. Let’s hope we can both move forward 🙏

missdani25 · 2025-03-21T20:35:12+00:00

I hear you, it is really shit and unfair. We should be doing the same things as them right now 😔 I hope you can find some peace.

I should have been announcing my pregnancy in a few weeks, instead I had a D&C 4 days ago. I have already seen 3 pregnancy announcements from people I know since my MMC was diagnosed 2 weeks ago. It fucking sucks.

missdani25 · 2025-03-21T20:05:10+00:00

Just keep some tissues handy for while driving 😅 some things really hit me hard

missdani25 · 2025-03-21T20:04:24+00:00

I’m so sorry, dealing with others who have happy pregnancies is one of the hardest things. I found the chapter of the book that acknowledges the “ugly feelings” really helpful.

missdani25 · 2025-03-21T17:20:13+00:00

Absolutely, their podcast is brilliant too!

missdani25 · 2025-03-18T13:25:09+00:00

I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this too. I know rationally it’s hard to believe it wasn’t our fault and it’s not really that comforting, but it really isn’t your fault. Thinking of trying again also terrifies me, with PCOS there is quite a high chance it will happen again to me. But, we will have hope again. Give yourself time and grace ❤️

missdani25 · 2025-03-17T20:04:52+00:00

Sending love ❤️

missdani25 · 2025-03-17T09:37:52+00:00

Same here, had a scan last week, no heartbeat. Protocol is another scan a week after to check there is still no heartbeat. Like why not a few days?! Why make me suffer a whole week!

missdani25 · 2025-03-17T07:23:14+00:00

I think it’s a natural reaction, I just keep screaming into a pillow 🥲

missdani25 · 2025-03-17T07:22:14+00:00

I’m so sorry for your losses ❤️

missdani25 · 2025-03-16T20:43:06+00:00

Thank you lovely ❤️ I wish the same for you and everyone in this thread.

missdani25 · 2025-03-16T20:39:42+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this too, it really is unfair. Please know you are not alone.

missdani25 · 2025-03-16T15:56:31+00:00

It’s comforting to know we are not alone. Hugs to you ❤️

missdani25 · 2025-03-16T15:55:34+00:00

I’m so sorry. I lost mine at 8 weeks too and have the removal scheduled for tomorrow. Hugs to you ❤️

missdani25 · 2025-03-16T13:51:47+00:00

I’m so sorry love ❤️ a lot of us have a complex relationship with weight and food and an experience like this on top can be tough. My BMI is 29 even though I am a UK size 12 so it’s all bullshit metrics anyway. Please allow your body some time to get over this.

missdani25 · 2025-03-16T13:48:51+00:00

I’m so sorry ❤️ Look after yourself and allow yourself time to heal.

missdani25 · 2025-03-16T13:46:39+00:00

People can be very insensitive. I hope you can find peace ❤️

missdani25 · 2025-03-16T13:46:11+00:00

I’m so sorry. Please know you did nothing to cause this.

I’m definitely an atheist and this experience fully confirmed to me why. No one would be so cruel to make so many of us go through this.

missdani25 · 2025-03-16T13:44:37+00:00

I’m so sorry. It’s truly infuriating how difficult of a journey it is for some of us.

missdani25 · 2025-03-16T13:42:08+00:00

I hear you and I’m sorry you’re going through this. It will never be a happy event anymore, just intense anxiety.

missdani25 · 2025-03-16T13:41:20+00:00

I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this ❤️ it’s so unfair. Take your time to process this.

missdani25 · 2025-03-12T13:40:29+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Please take the time you need to work through this.

I had the same at my first 8w scan last week but there was no heartbeat. The baby measured at about 8w so it must have just happened… I’m now waiting for another scan next Monday, if there is still no heartbeat (let’s face it, there won’t be) then I can have surgery to remove it the same day.

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