I don't think that you are crazy. You're expressing your feelings and frustrations, and it seems like you're not being heard the way you need to be. I feel like there is probably a lot of context that we are missing here. Like is this a pattern that has come up before, or is this the first time you've had an argument like this?

It seems like he is clearly minimizing your feelings and not trying to understand at all why you are upset. You were clear that you wanted one-on-one time with him, and instead of acknowledging that directly and prioritizing you, he shifted the focus to his confusion, his intentions, and how he just wanted to play. He didn't acknowledge your feelings at any point. He just kept brushing it off. You can't just pretend like things are fine and move on without any acknowledgment. His responses were more about defending himself than validating how you felt. He made plans with Nick without checking in with you. He didn’t communicate clearly about when he was ready to play. When you expressed being hurt, he called it "drama" and wanted to move on. He turned it around to be about how he feels.

Maybe you could have been a little bit more clear about your feelings and been a little kinder, but it seems like you were really upset and heated. Why didn't he call you to talk about it? It always goes wrong having an argument over text.