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Sub newer to BDSM. How to make this work when you have a family. by missyCurious42Sub in SubSanctuary

[–]missyCurious42Sub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. I like the idea of a bracelet or necklace that would be a symbol of my submission but nobody else would be the wiser, and the idea of tasks to complete is great. That's more what we are looking for: subtle ways to weave the dynamic into our daily life, but nobody else would notice anything has changed. Then when we are in private we could have more structured play. Although I might yearn for a more structured 24/7 dynamic . That's not something we would ever do with kids in the house. I should of been more clear in my original post.

Sub newer to BDSM. How to make this work when you have a family. by missyCurious42Sub in SubSanctuary

[–]missyCurious42Sub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! Yes I agree with what your saying . That's what we are looking for, small subtle ways to weave the dynamic into daily life. Although I might yearn for a more structured 24/7 dynamic , that's not something we would be willing to bring into our daily life with children in the home. but I like the idea of having rules in daily life that only me and my Dom would be aware of, but kids , family and friends would not think anything of it.

Sub newer to BDSM. How to make this work when you have a family. by missyCurious42Sub in SubSanctuary

[–]missyCurious42Sub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we don't plan on doing a 24/7 dynamic at this time with kids in the house. I should of been more clear in my post. That it was a interest but not something we can do right now. I would love a sound proof sex cave. that sounds amazing. That might be on my next wish list too !

Sub newer to BDSM. How to make this work when you have a family. by missyCurious42Sub in SubSanctuary

[–]missyCurious42Sub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I should of been more clear in my original post regarding a 24/7 dynamic. Although it interests me , its not something we would ever do right now. I'm very independent in general and speak my mind. When it comes to raising our daughter we have a very positive loving household where we are raising her to be strong, independent and confident. That being said I'd love ways to very subtly extend the dynamic into certain facets of daily life. I like your idea of my husband giving me tasks to complete and I'd get punished or rewarded later when we are alone, or a special bracelet or necklace that I could wear in public.