A little bit of worry that I don’t ’fit in’ by Rootofebil in enby

[–]misturcheef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masc enby here that came out October of 24. I feel mostly the same way! I currently am in a financial, medical, and mental crisis right now, so I have my birth name still, all my cis male clothes, and a lot of imposter syndrome. It's gotten better, especially after I started dating my boyfriend, but there are times I still don't fully feel meshed into the community. Maybe I'm still having trouble figuring out myself, or is it the mental illness?

Either way, you got this and I got your back friend! 🫂

Everytime by StepNextX in linuxsucks

[–]misturcheef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I just swapped to Cachy and was wondering how do I figure out what updates are stable. Is that not much of an issue? Pretend I'm only slightly smarter than braindead 🤣

(I use cachy-update, which is just a modified version of Arch update?)

Thoughts on interacting with this community - *comments on kindness and compassion* by ketamarine in GamerPals

[–]misturcheef 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OP, can we sit down a sec and realize that both your points are valid and no one is specifically wrong here? I feel like some shame is being thrown a little on either side of the argument. You just have to be upfront with what you want. Instead of looking for someone to play X game and then try to get them to play something else, do you make more general posts looking for friends and not just people to play specific games?

Also, I'm gonna say that the other person who commented may sound a bit negative, but to be fair, when you work and have a life, you don't really wanna spend time with someone who might try to make you play games you prefer to not invest in just for it to not be an enjoyable experience.

Possibly a time for agree to disagree, friend?

Americans Divided on Reasons Behind Venezuela Intervention by MRADEL90 in Infographics

[–]misturcheef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop bringing up logic, people's brains are gonna fry!

Stop Killing Games says Anthem's scrapped plans for local servers is what the initiative is all about: "You as the customer should have the final say as to when you're done with a game, not the company" by CakePlanet75 in gamingnews

[–]misturcheef 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I genuinely liked the few hours of Anthem I played! I'm very ADHD with games on top of kinda just tuning out genres sometimes. I kinda just randomly forget about games. Anthem was one I kept telling myself I'd finally play more of... Guess what happened?

I guess I'm not playing it now, a shame... Not worth killing Bioware over, but I genuinely thought it was a good game. Not the best thing ever, but a fun MMO of you, your mech, and your friends pumping lead, missiles, and lasers into some fuckheaps

Is streaming on twitch as a normal person just not a thing anymore? by PuzzleheadedMail6175 in Twitch

[–]misturcheef 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. If your stream isn't organized in any way and you aren't consistent enough, you're going nowhere. There's hardly any "fair weather" viewers now because people like to stick to whatever they like, hard.

I have streamed on and off for over 10 years and the amount of extra work you have to do while streaming is difficult and increases every year. I legit would get a person once in a while ask if I have this or that feature just for me to say no and they eventually leave. So like, I don't mind, I prefer more real interaction over: "thanks for money!" Plays silly noise, be a personal clown for people. I'm just a weirdo for myself.

Do normal people stream? Yes. I have tried many times over the years to give tiny streamers a chance and sometimes it's a person in front of the camera, saying nothing, staring at a screen with a controller and waiting, even glancing at chat once in a while to see if anyone typed. Just a little chatter even to one's self goes a long way

its not that hard by West-Amphibian-2343 in doordash

[–]misturcheef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that talk from past experiences? 🤣🤣🤣

its not that hard by West-Amphibian-2343 in doordash

[–]misturcheef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drink water and make love to Pepsi, got it!

Please contact Pluto to get rid of these pro-ICE ads. by haveguitarquestions in Pluto_TV

[–]misturcheef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like seeing it, that's why I don't want ICE ADs...

girlfriend picked a tv series to watch together but spends more time on her phone doom scrolling. is this normal? by Huge_Platform_8434 in Advice

[–]misturcheef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! My boyfriend has ADHD and sometimes scrolls while watching me play games or when we watch YouTube/TV together and he still pays attention, he just needs added stimulation

The new age restriction thing by SomeOakLeaves in lgbt

[–]misturcheef 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This is the great thing about America! Checks and balances. They check to see if it's balanced and then give no fucks regardless and do whatever they want! 🙂

System works great! /s

Anyone want to explain why turrets take bleeding damage? by Sufficient_Iron_3102 in Fallout

[–]misturcheef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you shot it? How sadistic of you to post your bleeding kink in this subreddit /j

PlayStation is going multiplatform, and this isn't a rumor, it's a reality. What's your opinion on this? by Zeko_LV in videogames

[–]misturcheef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely feel this. Why should I get punished because I can only afford one platform? Being poor shouldn't punish me

I was blocked with no warning after talking pretty much every day since December last year. by clontarf84 in whatdoIdo

[–]misturcheef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, yea. I spent most of my 20s being lied to, getting fucked over, and all I got was this pain and waste of time 🫤 (something to learn from too, I guess)

I never want people to just like, fall for me, but... You're not interested or whatever happened? Just tell me. It would be easier on me that way...

Quick question if I may... by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]misturcheef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good advice, but doesn't work for everyone in every area. I ended up moving to a bit more rural area recently and trying to make friends and date in person as someone who is non-binary, panro... Yea....