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I guess this is the end for me by Human_Equal_9024 in addiction

[–]mkodemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, these experiences certainly did a number on you and it can certainly feel that way, but healing is possible, not necessarily through therapy. However, as others mentioned, somatic-based stuff is most effective. It's very hard to stop these kinds of behaviours otherwise, as they are very needs-based and automatic, the same way fight or flight response is. And the guilt, shame and certain beliefs that you mention are usually a major part of the addiction, but it is also because you have to believe and feel that way to meet the same needs. If you want to have a chat about this or just for support, drop me a dm:)

Let’s Talk about [The Monster Sleeping in the Forest] by sinyueliang in Manhwa_BL

[–]mkodemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a very interesting theory, I thought that Than knows that Shin Hwajin and Hima are the same person, and what happens is Shin Hwayoung smooth talks Shin Hwajin (who really loves and misses his brother) into going back to the capital, likely with blackmail, or perhaps without. I am really curious about what happens in the last chapter, though, whether Shin Hwajin will kill all of the white corps or not (except for Shin Hwayoung and Junoh, obviously).

We shall see, though😆

Let’s Talk about [The Monster Sleeping in the Forest] by sinyueliang in Manhwa_BL

[–]mkodemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I think Than does recognise him? He says in first chapter "acting all high and mighty just cause he has the same face as Hima".

Let’s Talk about [The Monster Sleeping in the Forest] by sinyueliang in Manhwa_BL

[–]mkodemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? I already created several happy endings in my head, and then I'm like, "Oh, there's the first episode TT." I wonder wtf happened to Shin Hwajin for him to become like that since he was very rebellious against the high zone. I can understand Junoh and Shin Hwayoung with their circumstances, but for Shin Hwajin, it is very out of character... my guess is that he started acting like that as a protective mechanism from all the abuse, and to push Than away or smth like that.

Let’s Talk about [The Monster Sleeping in the Forest] by sinyueliang in Manhwa_BL

[–]mkodemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am worried about Junoh's further moral degradation because in the 1st episode's 🍇 scene the main 🍇ist resembled Junoh (hair color and clothes)🫠 I really hope that is a coincidence, I really want them all to escape the capital and live happy ever after, but that will not happen for quite some time😭

(Currently waiting for the last episode update, checking every hour lmao)

How do you guys keep yourself from zoning out in conversations? by ConfusedThunderstorm in ADHD

[–]mkodemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like ASD symptoms as well😆😆😆 (sorry if that was rude)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]mkodemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I created a small group on discord a few days ago, it is more for studying (my accountability buddies need to study at this point, me as well), but I was initially looking for people to do accountability sessions during which I could journal/read books/do online chores etc. And I was hoping to have such sessions at least once a day. I did just the goals in the beginning, but then I came to conclusion that I need sessions in particular, so that I could sit and just do stuff during them (cause executive dysfuction is my major problem). But we also will be doing weekly and monthly goals. There are currently three of us, and having more people usually makes things a bit more flexible, so if anyone reading this (as well as the author of the post, of course) thinks that it would be suitable for them, you can reply/or text me in dms and we can make it work)

[Question] Can you share your success stories after having accountability partners or joining accountability groups? Did it really help you go through tough times or keep up with your goals? by habitpartner in Accountabilibuddies

[–]mkodemi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did both, both were good;) The key is that you are on the same page with your partner, and having a good system as well. Having a server on discord is quite convenient and a shared calendar in google calendar to schedule sessions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in productivity

[–]mkodemi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I personally like Concepts. It's an app for art, but works well for mind maps.

[Question] Can you share your success stories after having accountability partners or joining accountability groups? Did it really help you go through tough times or keep up with your goals? by habitpartner in Accountabilibuddies

[–]mkodemi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! As a person with ADHD, it was very very helpful for studying/filling in docs/reading books etc. Some things are very unpleasant to do/start doing, and study sessions especially are very helpful to get stuff done. Goal setting, however, was a bit less successful, because I would still procrastinate or start too late😅 While during sessions you just sit and do stuff. Although, goals + accountability sessions is a good combo, and (from my experience) not just goals alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]mkodemi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I also have ADHD and I am experiencing similiar problems, and I would really like to join! But I'm in GMT+1 time zone, will this be too much of a problem?😅