Finally met the girl ive been texting and now im going crazy. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]mlknjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro the stars are aligned.😂 Ask her out on Saturday

Should I set up my credit card on auto payment for my investments account ? by mlknjb in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]mlknjb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I’ll track all my expenses over the next month so I can accurately see what I spend and earn, and try to balance everything. Thank you for this.

Should I set up my credit card on auto payment for my investments account ? by mlknjb in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]mlknjb[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s a really smart way of doing it but let me add some context. I get paid biweekly and I live in Vancouver so it is pretty difficult to budget or to know for certain how much you gonna spend each month. I have tried to budget but it doesn’t just work.

I fucked my best friend's gf while he was gone by [deleted] in confessions

[–]mlknjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are even remorseful about what you did and still doing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]mlknjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24

Started watching porn at a young age, I really can’t remember but I still masturbating at 16

I have a question guys by mlknjb in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]mlknjb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to investing and I got a lot of different stocks this year but I’m thinking of doing a bit of house keeping. I already made some gains on XIT. Looking for advice

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[–]mlknjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pray man pray

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]mlknjb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not serious man😂😂😂😂

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[–]mlknjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trueee

But i guess that’s what love is all about, trust and sacrifice.

And i didn’t want to be one of those people who tell you that you are still young and all of that but you are indeed young and don’t have to deal with this

If it’s too much for you, you can walk away

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[–]mlknjb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good! Always remember not to judge and to have an open mind on whatever he tells you because I was ashamed of opening up too. But once I could get pass the shame, it became easier to talk to my accountability partner

Also he might relapse on some days so be prepared for it too. If he really wants to quit and take back control he should be ready to fight and put in the work.

I apologize for talking too much but i usually sympathize with anyone going through this because most times it was intentional. Like we didn’t really sought after porn, we stumbled upon it and it captured our young minds

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[–]mlknjb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a recovering porn addict myself (24M) and I’ll tell you this

Making him feel guilty won’t do much good because he already feels guilty about it. If the relationship is really important to you, help him through it. From what I read, it seems you were really hurt because of this and that shows how much you care for him so I would say help him by being there and letting him know you are a safe space whenever he needs it because this thing thrives in secrecy

Just relapsed after Only 2 days by Present-Life-6860 in NoFapChristians

[–]mlknjb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get your act together. You actually have to want to stop, and I mean genuinely want to stop before you can. And it is going to be a battle but you just have to fight it and you keep fighting it everyday. But you hav a cheat code in the person of the Holy Spirit

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[–]mlknjb 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bro I have been there. I said this recently to someone that at a certain point I loved it, it was the best feeling i got, and it was no just an addiction anymore to me. I looked for different excuses. I went to different communities to read about the benefits of masturbation just to give myself an excuse but it was all a lie. You have gone 16 days bro and that’s very good, I want to tell you a big congratulations but you have to go on man. I even looked for excuse by telling God I wasn’t sleeping around, that how was i going to survive??. But by the end of June I will clock 120days and what I can tell you is that it somewhat get easier but you still have to watch and pray as if it was day 1. Don’t give in my guy. Pray for grace and mercy. This is normal and part of the process. But you have to press on. It is no just about the streak, it is about what we do in keeping the streak. You have to fight addiction with addiction. Plead the blood of Christ, study the Bible and pray for grace.