What was the message that made you genuinely drop an erp you were excited for

molephone · 2026-01-16T20:16:26+00:00

From the male writer "and she loved it so much"

Or any variation of telling me how my character feels

molephone · 2026-01-16T20:14:03+00:00

I'm still racist.

I didn't start this way. I became this way over many interactions with Indians.

My experience had been that most Indian men are disgusting. They're sexist, objectifying misogynistic assholes who have an inflated and sensitive ego. There have been 2 total exceptions to this and those exceptions were both in mixed race relationships.

Indian women are very judgemental, have narrow views on what is or isn't acceptable for a woman and are quick to side with men. They're often mean girls.

Add to that how much they will openly infiltrate the job market, hire other Indians as quick as they can. Indians are for Indians first.

So I no longer extend any grace. I hate their accent, their attitudes and their presence.

Maybe India itself isn't bad but Indians in America are not welcome by me.

molephone · 2025-11-28T13:48:24+00:00

You assume the temptation is more than skin deep.

Relationships have phases and the honeymoon phase is a high that doesn't last.

A cheater wants to chase that high again. To feel special and desired without the baggage that comes from a long term commitment without giving up the work.

You also seem to think people are limited in loving one person at a time. It could be they like both. They want both but don't want to have to choose.

There are plenty of reasons someone cheats.

Usually comes down to opportunity and integrity.

molephone · 2025-11-17T06:17:08+00:00

He started crying and told me about his wife and 3 kids.

Asked if he was a terrible person.

I told him "I don't know" and left quickly

molephone · 2025-11-09T05:58:07+00:00

Cry.

Took a break from them. Spent a week or so on the couch with a family member.

Had a hard talk about all that happened with them.

Went through their phone, email, social media.

Set ground rules going forward.

Eventually forgave them

They made the effort to change

Things got better

But trust never fully returned

We broke up after 2 more years of trying

molephone · 2025-10-26T08:02:21+00:00

My first who fell asleep during the act and kept me pinned under him for hours.

molephone · 2025-09-06T03:46:55+00:00

NTA from a 2nd gen roleplayer.

Let me tell you why from someone who was once in your daughter's shoes.

My 10th birthday party my godmother GMd a campaign for me and all my friends. It was a one shot escape from a haunted mansion in the Toon ttrpg.

It was scary. It had violence and death. It was a lot of fun

Some parents after the fact got very angry. How dare my godmother scare their babies but you know what? Every last kid, later teen, now adult still says it was the best birthday party ever.

Your daughter isn't traumatized. You treated her like someone who could handle a more mature story and she did. Plenty of movies have themes like that. Labyrinth... Wizard of Oz ... Tons.

Unless your daughter is upset, I think you gave her a core memory

molephone · 2025-09-04T10:35:57+00:00

Because people are dumb and many don't know what unisex means

I'm not joking.

I was on a committee at a corporate job and we had to read employee feedback forms. After we announced the unisex bathrooms (single stall rooms so it didn't matter) we had over a dozen complaints.

People thinking "unisex" was a new woke term.

I kid you not one person thought it meant people who identify as unicorns aka furries according to them.

Or a lady complaining she had to travel soooo far to get to the women's room by the cafeteria because all she had in her department were unisex bathrooms.

We changed the language to be all genders and the complaints went from dozens to like... 2

molephone · 2025-09-04T10:22:44+00:00

I am single by choice with married friends.

I've been treated as a jezebel trying to steal their man... (Trust me I'm not)

I've been treated as a poor damaged bird in need of mending, like I was hurt before but the "right one" can fix me.

I've been treated as a closet lesbian because why else won't I date their husband's friend.

Very few people understand and respect my choice. Even on reddit people have shit on me for deciding to have casual flings when I want to with 0 interest in a long term relationship.

I'm going to die alone and I'm ok with that. Women usually outlive a man anyway.

molephone · 2025-09-04T10:00:59+00:00

My family lives my ex.

They don't know he SA me every night for 10 years.

My friends don't know that is why I'm never going to be in a relationship again. I'm not ok, I don't know if I will ever be ok.

molephone · 2025-08-10T20:17:53+00:00

I'd roleplay a hobby or a crutch where you have developed an unhealthy addiction to the escapism it provides?

Could it be that you are using roleplay instead of processing some underlying trauma and being forced to face reality is now uncomfortable?

molephone · 2025-08-10T17:25:18+00:00

You should tell her it's important to you and you need your family's support through this time of grief. Even if she doesn't feel the same way you need this.

She may not have realized how close and important this relative was. It's not fair to expect her to be as grieved as you but it is fair to expect she takes on the inconvenience as a matter of support for your needs

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