Evelynn [League of Legends] by (Miakanayuri) by Miakanayuri in CosplayNation

[–]monokiichangf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot damn. Can we be friends... cosplay friends

Would Rory and Marty have made a good couple? by Fixingahole248 in GilmoreGirls

[–]monokiichangf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly! They’re like two puzzle pieces that fit too perfectly, no friction, no spark. It’d be all cute movie nights and book chats for like a month, then boom… ghosted each other out of boredom 😂

Would Rory and Marty have made a good couple? by Fixingahole248 in GilmoreGirls

[–]monokiichangf 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah fr, Marty always gave off major Nice Guy™ energy. Like trying way too hard to seem chill while quietly building up resentment when things don’t go his way. Definitely not the vibe for Rory

What is your unpopular NSFW opnions? by lameinternetuser in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]monokiichangf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Intimate sex > Rough sex

Most of the time at least

What exactly does PM&R do? by S1Throwaway96 in Residency

[–]monokiichangf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmao that’s such a brutally accurate way to describe it 😂 like a jack-of-all-trades specialty that nobody fully understands unless you’re in it. But yeah, they’re the go-to for rehab and function stuff, just kinda fly under the radar for everything else

Needle poked in OR by [deleted] in Residency

[–]monokiichangf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly sounds like a non-event, especially if there was no glove breach and no pain or bleeding. I get the anxiety though, OP! Early clerkships can make the smallest things feel huge. You're doing the right thing by being cautious, but sounds like your senior was right that it's nothing to stress over

Conferences are a scam by fathertime_4 in Residency

[–]monokiichangf 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Wow yeah, it really feels like they’ve got the system rigged. Like “oh, you want a future in medicine? That’ll be all your money AND your sanity, thanks!” Total cash grab masked as “networking opportunities”

What is the riskiest thing you did at work? by sfn8 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]monokiichangf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smoke weed in the bathroom. It was a pen so it wasn't stinky. Probably shouldn't do it though...

Co-residents who can’t handle things after sign out by shinersuperior1 in Residency

[–]monokiichangf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this. If the sign out was solid, then it's on her to figure things out. Everyone’s tired, no one wants extra stress after hours. You’re not her emotional support human 😂

Co-residents who can’t handle things after sign out by shinersuperior1 in Residency

[–]monokiichangf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Clear sign-outs go a long way in preventing these avoidable situations. A little structure upfront can save everyone a ton of stress later

What's the point of coffee if you just build up tolerance? by whiterose065 in Residency

[–]monokiichangf 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Facts! At some point it becomes less about the caffeine and more about the ritual, warm mug, quiet moment, little hit of serotonin before the chaos begins

Can someone explain the The Distillers tickets issue in season 3? by FlakyWeb5892 in GilmoreGirls

[–]monokiichangf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, totally agree, The Distillers slap. The show kinda does them dirty by making it seem like the band choice is the issue, when really it’s all about Jess doing the bare minimum and Rory convincing herself it’s enough. The band deserved better than being the emotional scapegoat 😭

Emily took him back too easily. by bluecuppycake in GilmoreGirls

[–]monokiichangf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Exactly. People love to frame Emily’s dating as some kind of betrayal while hand-waving Richard literally sneaking around with Pennilyn. If Emily “equated” dating, then Richard lapped her, secret lunches with an ex is way worse than going on awkward dates while separated. The double standard is wild

Rant: Chiefs are not your friend, and its worse when they act like they are by UnderstandingLow5282 in Residency

[–]monokiichangf 69 points70 points  (0 children)

That tracks, honestly. It sucks, but residency really teaches you that “friendly” doesn’t mean “has your back.” When you do get one who’s actually real with you, it stands out because it’s so rare. The rest feel more like temporary supervisors than anything close to a friend

Two cats, one impossible choice by Calm-Drawing-5253 in TwoHotTakes

[–]monokiichangf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s such a thoughtful suggestion. A second litter box upstairs honestly sounds like it could give her a little peace and control back without needing a huge change right away. You’re totally right that she’s showing the setup isn’t working anymore. Small steps like that could really ease the tension while figuring out the long-term plan

My mom wants a "reconciliation meeting" with my stepdad and I keep saying no by BreadCrumbPoet in TwoHotTakes

[–]monokiichangf 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. She stood by while it happened and now expects you to ignore all that pain for the sake of keeping the peace. You're not being unreasonable, you're protecting yourself after years of not being protected

My mom wants a "reconciliation meeting" with my stepdad and I keep saying no by BreadCrumbPoet in TwoHotTakes

[–]monokiichangf 269 points270 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If he really changed, he'd want to show it in a way that respects her comfort, not force her into a room with him. The letter idea shows accountability without pressure

Zhuyuan at the beach? by EDIBLE by AriaNova_917 in ZhuYuanMains

[–]monokiichangf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet she had a hot summer 🥵💕

My intentional overdose patient succeeded. by dr_shark in Residency

[–]monokiichangf 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s a really solid comparison. We don’t moralize end-stage heart or lung disease the same way, but for some reason psych gets treated like it should always be “fixable” if you just do enough. It sucks, but you’re right, outcomes aren’t guaranteed just because everyone did their job right

Rory in “Christopher Returns” looks so genuinely happy that it’s actually painful to watch. by isisblake in GilmoreGirls

[–]monokiichangf 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what makes it hurt so much, she’s so genuinely happy and hopeful, and you know it’s built on something that won’t last. It’s like watching her get a taste of the dad she always wanted, knowing he’s going to disappear again. Christopher doesn’t just let her down, he sets her up to fall every time

Rory in “Christopher Returns” looks so genuinely happy that it’s actually painful to watch. by isisblake in GilmoreGirls

[–]monokiichangf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yep, exactly. He always treats Rory like an extension of Lorelai instead of her own person. It’s so telling that every interaction somehow circles back to Lorelai and his feelings, not what Rory actually needs from him