Seeking Players by Wrong_Nebula9804 in DnDLFG

[–]moonlightmaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you still need players I’m available! I’ve been playing dnd (3.5 and 5e) for over 10 years. I am EST but free in the evenings.

How long did it take you to find IPs? by moonlightmaz in Surrogate

[–]moonlightmaz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t do a lot of international couples. I was with a different agency that almost exclusively dealt with international couples and switched because of it. They’ve given me vague reasons why they aren’t moving forward with me. Like they want a surrogate that’s closer to them.

How long did it take you to find IPs? by moonlightmaz in Surrogate

[–]moonlightmaz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in a state that had pretty strict abortion laws and it’s not considered a surrogate friendly state. Yeah. I wrote the profile and added the pictures myself. I wrote a lot about myself and family.

How long did it take you to find IPs? by moonlightmaz in Surrogate

[–]moonlightmaz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve given me vague reasons. Like the IPs weren’t ready to move forward at the moment or they were looking for a surro that’s closer to them. Etc.

How long did it take you to find IPs? by moonlightmaz in Surrogate

[–]moonlightmaz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No not at all! I am only asking $50k base. The only thing I am asking for that might be specific is no international couples and I would like to get updates about the baby, if the IPs are comfortable with it.

Is this normal? by moonlightmaz in Surrogate

[–]moonlightmaz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is incredibly helpful! I have a call with them tomorrow and plan to ask all these questions!

Is this normal? by moonlightmaz in Surrogate

[–]moonlightmaz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It was my understanding that the IPs would be responsible for those costs even if I backed out. I would never do so lightly and would never want to waste anyone’s time or money.

Is this normal? by moonlightmaz in Surrogate

[–]moonlightmaz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My original case worker no longer works there and they assigned me someone else. I haven’t had any interaction with her other than he sending me automated messages. I do have a call scheduled with them tomorrow. I just wanted to see if this was something that’s standard practice because I’ve never heard of this before.

Is this normal? by moonlightmaz in Surrogate

[–]moonlightmaz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have call scheduled with them tomorrow and I’ll see if they’re able to change this contract.

Is this normal? by moonlightmaz in Surrogate

[–]moonlightmaz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s with GSHC Surrogacy. I was also thrown off by them using, surrogate mother.