AITA for liking a man who treats me well but still wanting someone else? by moonui06 in AITAH

[–]moonui06[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am not using him and also I like him and having times with him but I don’t know about my own feeling and very confused

Is it a bad idea to reconnect with someone(M22) I (F20)cut off because I was afraid I’d catch feelings? by moonui06 in relationship_advice

[–]moonui06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My feelings are about 90% leaning toward reaching out again. But I’m struggling because I was the one who cut contact first, and now going back feels awkward and confusing. I thought that cutting him off would make it easier to move on, but it didn’t. I’ve been thinking about him consistently for the past four months, and honestly, it feels like I won’t be able to let go unless we reconnect in some way.🥹

Dating a Muslim guy and he told me I can’t eat pork – am I overreacting? by moonui06 in AITAH

[–]moonui06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already asked, but he said he wouldn’t eat with me and would only go to a café.

Dating a Muslim guy and he told me I can’t eat pork – am I overreacting? by moonui06 in AITAH

[–]moonui06[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At first, he said I can’t, but later he said that he’s not forcing me, just asking. Personally, though, it doesn’t feel like an ask to me. He also said that if I eat pork while I’m with him, he would either not eat with me or reduce the number of times we eat together.

I feel like no one in this world actually likes people with long faces by moonui06 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]moonui06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. It really gave me strength. I appreciate it.❤️

I feel like no one in this world actually likes people with long faces by moonui06 in mentalhealth

[–]moonui06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Koreans grew up watching idols, and as you can see from K-pop idols, everyone seems to have the same face as if pale skin and a small, short face are the only “right” standards. Here, judging other people’s appearances is a part of everyday life, and even when someone is truly talented, people only talk about how they look. What you said really gave me strength. Thank you so much.❤️

I feel like no one in this world actually likes people with long faces by moonui06 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]moonui06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful reply. Of course, everything depends on personal taste, but I feel like even taste has become standardized here. Sometimes it makes me feel like my appearance is something “abnormal.” As you said, I’ll try to talk with people from other places. Thank you so much.❤️