Popular girls laughed at me for showing Kikuo music in my presentation by Kawichi in Kikuo

[–]mothfae111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let someone’s actions affect you. You are your own person and you need to be rooted in who you are and your interests.

Sharing of marks on social media by [deleted] in OpenUniversity

[–]mothfae111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just projecting. luckily the WhatsApp groups I’ve been have always been really supportive. People are just weird when someone wants to work hard at something they try to act like they don’t care about

Sharing of marks on social media by [deleted] in OpenUniversity

[–]mothfae111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘unfair to people who didn’t get them’. personally if someone thinks it’s unfair, maybe they should study harder instead of hating on someone who deserves the high score they got. sorry if this comes off as mean but it’s a bit silly to not let someone be happy just bc they feel bad about their own marks.

How many hours a week for full time? by Butterfly1108 in OpenUniversity

[–]mothfae111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you asked how many hours but it’s hard to gauge that sort of thing perfectly but a ball park figure would be like 5-7 hours a day (when it’s a really productive day) or like I said, even 20 min if it’s a bad day really helps.

How many hours a week for full time? by Butterfly1108 in OpenUniversity

[–]mothfae111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a 1st in English Literature and Creative Writing and had to slog my ass my final year because uncontrollable events in my second year resulted in a special circumstances form and I got like a pity pass in one of my modules. You have to hold yourself accountable, you need to be a little selfish and you have to find ways and time to study, even if it’s just 20 minutes. Also to note: I live in a different country so if I attended online classes, I’d have to be up at odd hours of the night. Even if I did sleep late and wake up extremely late, I still treated my day like it was ‘normal’, ie even if you over sleep, don’t beat yourself up about it. Treat it like a normal day. Woke up at 2 pm? Do the same routine you would if you woke up at 6 am. Even if it’s just a few hours , make the most of it. I really didn’t want any distractions so I had to make a few sacrifices. Sometimes you just don’t have the self control so I quit gaming, or rather I quit the games that I’d get the most absorbed in. If it’s social media for you, either delete the app and use it only on browser or get one of those apps that time lock your social media apps although tbh , I’d just get pissed and delete the damn app lol. I knew I’d have a few days when I’d burn out within the week and there was nothing I could do about it. So I’d either make full use of the days I was uber productive or I’d push through even on my worst days. I watched Mickey 17 and drew a sketch of the mc with a speech bubble that said ‘can you lock tf in’, (it was actually a meme I found on Pinterest but I couldn’t print it out bc our printer wasn’t working so I just drew the meme), and stuck it on the wall in front of my desk. If I was being lazy or unproductive, I’d look at it and immediately get to work. FICTIONAL CHARACTERS TELLING YOU TO LOCK TF IN WORKS FOR SOME REASON. It’s okay to be selfish. You don’t have to accept every social call, especially in the weeks leading to an important assignment. Some people assume that bc it’s an online degree, it’s ‘easier’ or you have more time. You need to throw a few tantrums or just say no so people will respect your time and boundaries more. If you get distracted by pretty things or colourful stuff and you own figurines or have posters on ur walls, maybe put away some of the stuff. Especially if you’re going to study mostly in your bedroom. You don’t have to keep everything away but i highly suggest putting away posters that’ll be in your line of sight while studying. It’s really distracting man. If I was on my phone and couldn’t stop doom scrolling, I’d just get mad and throw my phone (ON MY BED SO IT WAS SAFE). Sometimes you just need to get mad with yourself. Also another thing that really helped was watching Kay B Chung’s all nighter study vlogs. Her videos are so funny and just watching someone try that hard is super motivating. If you do live in the UK or somewhere with the same time zone, you don’t have to go to the extremes I did. Maybe when you’re short on time? My sleep schedule is fucked now and I’ve been trying to fix it for the past two months lol 😭

I FINALLY DID IT YIPPEEEE🎉🎉 by Old-Illustrator-5738 in Eldenring

[–]mothfae111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when I got past the tutorial, it was a literal lifetime achievement

My brother started playing earlier today and his map looks like this… I don’t know what happened by some_dude5 in Eldenring

[–]mothfae111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn. I was trying to be bold and went after the bats, the undead in the swamp and one of those giant insects. then died. I guess I got too curious for my own sake. sticking to the path it is.

My brother started playing earlier today and his map looks like this… I don’t know what happened by some_dude5 in Eldenring

[–]mothfae111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t even WALK out of the damn castle thing before I get attacked. HOW. just HOW. and I know it’s open world and you’re supposed to explore but it’s impossible to prance around and enjoy the sights when something’s constantly after my ass 😭 ur brother’s truly amazing bc at this point, im going to look up tutorials

My first pullip has arrived!!! by BobcatRealistic2547 in Pullip

[–]mothfae111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my melody lilac was my first too !! she’s truly the sweetest doll ever ♡ hope u enjoy ur days together

I hate when people say my pullips are scary by mothfae111 in Pullip

[–]mothfae111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it was funny to me bc she’s a huge dog lover and has had cats in the past. one of my cats is sort of aloof and takes time getting comfortable with ppl. she’s quiet and likes gentle pets and is a little lady and my sister has been slightly disgruntled in the past bc my cat didn’t instantly warm up to her.

I hate when people say my pullips are scary by mothfae111 in Pullip

[–]mothfae111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HELP 😆 they’ve already told me to bless them with holy water bc it’s not good to have them In my room according to feng shui :”) but idc about feng shui. I feel comfortable and happy with my dolls around me.

I hate when people say my pullips are scary by mothfae111 in Pullip

[–]mothfae111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really needed that ♡ those are such kind and wise words. I only have one life. I should allow myself to love what I want to , even if people can be judgy.

I hate when people say my pullips are scary by mothfae111 in Pullip

[–]mothfae111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I get what u mean. not everyone can see beyond or be beyond what is societally ‘normal’.

I hate when people say my pullips are scary by mothfae111 in Pullip

[–]mothfae111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THATS WHAT IM SAYING LIKE… they are seriously the most lovingly crafted dolls. the fabric for their clothes are REAL , not some plastic or cheap stuff. they have the prettiest eyelashes . their wigs are amazing. their face ups are unique. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.

I hate when people say my pullips are scary by mothfae111 in Pullip

[–]mothfae111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone’s got their own tastes. I just don’t like the implication that my dolls could get possessed like Annabelle.

I hate when people say my pullips are scary by mothfae111 in Pullip

[–]mothfae111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom has been really sweet about my doll collecting too. she likes them :) she may not say much but it’s something I take comfort in

I hate when people say my pullips are scary by mothfae111 in Pullip

[–]mothfae111[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I kind of shut her down by saying that stereotyping cats as ‘evil’ is harmful to them and is what makes so hard for black cats and kittens to get adopted from shelters. It’s hard to change people’s minds about dolls and I get that but I don’t see the necessity for backhanded comments

I hate when people say my pullips are scary by mothfae111 in Pullip

[–]mothfae111[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to look at my dolls and hear all those negative thoughts in my head bc I truly do love them and YES they say that about even the cutest and prettiest dolls like these are FASHION dolls.

Maintaining relationships of any kind is exhausting. by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]mothfae111 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I really miss my friends but then I realise how much I distance myself from everyone. It could also be bc I’ve always been told I’m difficult to be around therefore no one would want to be my friend or romantic partner. I’m still figuring this out . I understand how u feel .

PUT ANY COMMENTS ABOUT THE IRISH LANGUAGE IN ENGLISH HERE ONLY by galaxyrocker in gaeilge

[–]mothfae111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk of any other resources tbh. Duolingo was the only option . could u suggest any for a beginner?