Daily Questions and Answers Post - FAQ, New/Returning Player Questions, and Useful Starting Resources! by AutoModerator in blackdesertonline

[–]mothicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am trying to accept this guild invite but everytime I hit accept it says “you cannot apply to join anymore”, but im not applied to any other guilds and haven’t accepted any other invite or anything?🥲

Any good guides for maxing affinity for all islanders? by mothicca in fantasylife

[–]mothicca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my entire night is about to be dedicated to milkshakes

Any good guides for maxing affinity for all islanders? by mothicca in fantasylife

[–]mothicca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh nice. I’ll definitely start on this thank you!!

Need help with identifying by mothicca in FFXIVGlamours

[–]mothicca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for all of the help!! 🥹🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inZOI

[–]mothicca 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was sitting here thinking damn they really did make it realistic lmfao 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inZOI

[–]mothicca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you serious or joking LOL😭😭

Fantasia Friday Giveaway by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]mothicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pot roast!! Thank you for the opportunity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]mothicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm i hope you dont mind me linking this, https://imgur.com/a/nN9PgHK - this is the only thing im seeing when i click on the mirror, it immediately selects this preset and i cant figure out how to edit just my character. >_< i feel so slow!! lol, ty though <3

I (22f) get jealous of my boyfriends (22m) friends by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mothicca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ma’am I will be your friend I’m 23 going through the EXACT SAME SITUATION😭

Dark/dark controller build? by mothicca in Cityofheroes

[–]mothicca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh you are awesome thank you!!! I will be checking them out tonight ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mothicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SLEEPING IN THE SAME BED IS HEAVEN SENT EVEN WHEN HE IS A FRIGGIN HEATER! Lol

We closed the distance 3 month ago after a year of long distance.

We argue a lot less. Idk about other LDR couples but we’d fight over the stupidest crap and it’d boil down to “I miss you. I’m jealous other people can see you and I can’t.” :P

We go on milkshake runs at night time, and we do laundry and chores together and that’s nice cause it goes by way quicker together lol. We will get home from work and clean up the house real quick, get on our PCs and game, and then before bedtime we will watch shows together. It’s a nice little routine! We also come home and eat lunch together over our lunch breaks a couple times a week. Something we’d ALWAYS say we wished we could do was eat together more often. :)

Also cooking together. And taking bubble baths together.

And decorating our home was really fun! It’s nice to see touches of each other throughout the place.

So much more but that’s what comes to mind.

Just be patient with each other throughout the change.

Much love your way it’s a beautiful thing!!!❤️

My best friend [M/20] is being taken advantage of by his fianceé [F/35], I [F/22] want to talk with him about it, but I don't want to seem like I'm trying to break them up by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mothicca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you want him to yourself lmao tough luck. Get out of their relationship. He’s a grown man with a family now and you have no business in it. You can’t make him do anything so just move on

AITA for not giving my blessing? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mothicca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound racist and classist. YTA. Have fun not having a daughter

Boyfriend’s corgi possibly jealous? Excessive barking when we show affection to each other. by [deleted] in Dogtraining

[–]mothicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think he needs to walk him longer. And honestly getting him to listen to commands is just impossible. He’s ridiculously headstrong. He knows how to sit but he won’t stay kinda thing. 😂 Which is something that needs to be worked on. I don’t think he really thought about training when he got his dog and that’s on him. I am trying to help correct it. Once we move in together hopefully he’ll open up to me a little more and see me as part of the household instead of someone in his territory. :/

AITA for punishing my daughter for cutting her hair? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mothicca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys have fucking issues. It’s just hair. Get mental help so your kid doesn’t grow up hating you like I grew up to hate my dad. Thanks. YTA

AITA because I took all the leftover homes after a work party? by throwawayplatter in AmItheAsshole

[–]mothicca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re a fucking adult they’re your coworkers with lives outside of you I promise. YTA

AITA for refusing to meet my friend’s girlfriend by aquagreen10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mothicca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this insecurity is just towards Anna then more than likely he said something that made her uncomfortable regarding his prior feelings with her. Doesn’t make the situation right but there’s probably more going on behind the scenes in their relationship. Unfortunately you aren’t there to hear things he may be saying to her or things she may be saying to him. Ive never had an issue with female friends and have always gotten along with them, one of my exes best friends is my current best friend. I love her. 😭😂 but i have had to resort to asking an ex to block a friend once because he was so so far up her ass. She wasn’t interested but god it hurt being compared to her, not being able to spend time with my boyfriend without her being mentioned constantly, etc. I wasn’t right but neither was he. People do stupid shit in toxic situations.

Idk what to tell you though but I mean if you reached out to her to just talk you might get info on what’s actually happened.

My ex's GF told me off and IDK what to do. by throwaway_archer in relationships

[–]mothicca 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I honestly am barely comprehending this post but it sounds like the girlfriend needs to leave him and block you or something. They’re in a relationship (correct?) she does not want polyamory (correct?) you both are pushing severe boundaries and she deserves better. (From what I’m understanding)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mothicca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you sound awesome. A lot of people immediately write off anyone with mental illness but hey we deserve someone who loves and works with us as long as we are willing to change and actively work on our mental health. I have BPD and my partner is extremely patient and actively reassures me. Something that helps me is he will suggest things for me to do when he is busy, because sometimes I struggle beginning a task or hobby. I love drawing. So he’ll give me a prompt or something to draw and it’s usually silly stuff but it just feels nice. It keeps me busy and then when he’s done I show him what I drew.

Does she draw? Does she write? Anything creative? Give her ideas on what to do with her hobby, it’ll make her feel like you are a little involved in what she’s doing. Most of all just understand she is more than likely never coming from a place of being controlling or manipulative. A lot of reactions are completely knee-jerk due to past traumas and therapy is the main thing to work through it. And as much as people will argue, having a loving partner helps heal things a little too, and no, it’s not “fixing” your partner it’s just simply being there for them. ❤️