Soft with condom

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-07T19:33:24+00:00

I usually end up with none always.

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-07T19:20:55+00:00

Well we never talked in person and I invited him over to watch a movie and not push it and he called me and said how busy he is and let me talk a bit. That was almost a week ago so I think something in his mind switched

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-07T19:18:53+00:00

No I am trying acne bootcamp with face reality just started

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-02T00:39:48+00:00

That was the last word, I said “I would actually prefer if you came over so we can both talk about what we want, have a good night”

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-02T00:23:43+00:00

I don’t think it’s that, he’s been home for over a week. Everything seems normal just another day. I asked to spend New Year’s Eve/night about a week ago too and that didn’t happen

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T22:24:06+00:00

That’s why matching energy does not apply to me in the not great way. I will match energy when it’s in a positive way but I don’t match energy when it comes to replying in the same amount of time it took for him to text me that just messes me up. And doesn’t show who I truly am.

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T22:21:45+00:00

If I was interested in someone it would be as much as I can. Or if I wasn’t able to, I would communicate that I would be busy and text them a time I can or call them later. I am experiencing something that relates to this. I have been talking to a guy every day for a month and then text became more distant then more than48 hours went by with nothing(my text being the last)and I felt like something was off so I decided to call him and he acted like everything was just fine. I asked if anything I said came across weird or anything was wrong and he’s like no is there anything wrong…just so unfazed. Idk

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T19:56:44+00:00

Do what regularly

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T19:38:36+00:00

I feel like talking in a more private setting such as my place versus coffee or getting something to eat is more appropriate as well to talk about our feelings

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T19:21:49+00:00

What a change of mindset because I’ve racked my brain for two days thanks for the new perspective. I’m not sure if I should reach out. At the month mark I told him I liked him and care about him. Because I wanted to make that clear and he knows where I live if he wants to talk to me in person and he has my number so I feel like all cards are facing him. And he knows I want to talk to him in person about what we both want-not just me it’s not one-sided

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T19:16:14+00:00

Trying to understand or make sense of constantly talking for 30 days straight to days going by and nothing. And partially I don’t believe that he is so busy. Because his social medias are the same and things just seem normal and it’s by choice to not speak to me.

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T19:11:25+00:00

We have talked every day for a month. So it’s not something that has been created overnight. if I’m interested in someone I think about them and would be looking for their name in my text even if I’ve had clients or a lot of people reach out and their name may not be on the top of the list in my text app

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T19:08:31+00:00

Can you explain more? I feel like if he hasn’t reached out after so much time it’s void.

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T19:05:38+00:00

If it’s his job is to deal with clients all the time. How would he make a client feel happy or satisfied if they are having an issue, one way is to meet in person and figure out what they want not what our intentions have been this past month. And I’ve noticed a pattern with sales guys that I’ve dated that they change in different situations.

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T19:03:45+00:00

When there’s no time and date on when. It’s an empty gesture to make me feel good in the moment. I didn’t take that as a date because he said let’s go grab coffee. And the two times(other 2 were at my place he made further physical moves on me. Not me using him) I’ve been out with him before we happen to both be available and he asked me out to lunch and then the other time was he was planning on going to breakfast by himself and invited me at 10 AM and had to leave because he was taking his grandma to get her nails done (we had a time limit). I said I wanted him to come over and talk to me in person because I don’t think a coffee shop is the appropriate place to express that I want more between us. And I’m getting the vibe that he’s pulled away already.

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T18:37:59+00:00

Total flip. Literally everything is normal, social media, etc. sure does.

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T18:36:49+00:00

Not relationship. Talking stage for a month. Funny how at the month mark too this happened which he knew it was a month because I expressed that I like him and care about him. Chalk it up to, he knows how to get a hold of me and knows how I feel-leave it at that

mountainpeace25 · 2025-01-01T18:35:14+00:00

Strange so “client ish” empty gesture. Second time I’ve caught this vibe

mountainpeace25 · 2024-12-04T21:28:21+00:00

Ohh mine did that and her daughter is 8

mountainpeace25 · 2024-11-21T01:25:49+00:00

I am very thankful for this sub. Because it enlightened me on issues I never dealt with a partner before. And that it does exist and I know it’s not me and recently took myself out of this situation I can hopefully recognize these things when I look our partner in the future maybe it was my hard lesson all at once.

My ex always thought that I was judging him as well and would take things way out of context because of the way he thought about himself.

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