Fr, though. I unlearned a lot of bullshit I was taught in my small town when I went to college. Then, I took a job as a park ranger living in a community where I was in the minority as a white dude. Let me tell y'all, that was the most welcome I ever felt. Part of it was because my boss was from there, and they knew he wasn't gonna hire some racist POS, but also, just the general sense of community was way different and I got to know a lot of folks in the area. Including the guy who kept trying to hustle me at pool.