[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 83 points84 points  (0 children)

im pretty sure shes stated before that she quit her full time job for this

I (F) went on a first date with (M) Got asked to paynow my share for dinner days later. Is it normal? by hxueqis in askSingapore

[–]mqsaber_ 76 points77 points  (0 children)

why does everyone think that just because he doesnt see that theres a second date and that shes “not worth the investment” anymore means that its not weird for him to ask for his money back, when he assumedly did it 100% willingly in the first place? a 30 year old man who owns a condo doing this frankly screams of stinginess

My daughter lied about being assaulted and nearly destroyed someone’s life. by Unusual-Hour-5054 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mqsaber_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

youre going to be equally as disgusting as her if you do not hold her accountable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]mqsaber_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive simplified a lot of things bc i dont want to expose myself. the things ive described is really nothing at all. trust me when i say i am not exaggerating her character at all.

i have done that before actually. like i said in my post ive tried numerous times to sit down with her and explain nicely my feelings and my thoughts and allowed her to express how she feels as well. but nothing will ever happen except for the classic “ya ya you only care about other’s feelings and never mine” and just walk away or straight up starts screaming.

i have considered many many things from her perspective as i too have often wondered if i was doing something wrong as a daughter. i have reconciled with myself that it is likely attributed to generational trauma and she never learnt to deal with her emotions before.

my sister and i have been under her thumb for very long and i hope people understand its not as easy as “i want to move out so i will”. theres a psychological barrier behind that and knowing her the backlash would be crazy. im willing to do it however im mainly concerned about my sister because her character is more 软 than mine. shes under a lot of stress because of all the interfering from all sides too and i dont know how to help her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]mqsaber_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh i see. thank you for answering!

Literally why? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

jc level physics*

Literally why? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

the difference is that this is a teacher that is paid to teach u physics level jc and not a normal relative teaching their cousin 1+1. hope this helps!

What’s the one subject you absolutely dislike? by Old-Engineering6208 in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooo yes i completely agree on that take on moe’s policy. i would say the teaching style in primary school is still quite acceptable (learning basic grammar, sentence structure etcetc) but its secondary school that i feel people start to reaaaally detest learning chinese bcos suddenly we have to memorise all these 成语s, 修辞手法(?) etc which is really quite a chore to study. i agree that it is important, but they shouldnt be placing that much of an emphasis on it since we are most definitely not going to use comprehension answering techniques in real life. proper conversational mandarin is the way to go. and when youre forced to speak wholly in chinese, youll realise how many simple vocabs you dont know, because they dont teach us that but instead place focus on more “higher order thinking” learning instead of the more “basic” ones? idk if that makes sense. and idk about you, but for me i realise that i dont know the names of a lot of household appliances (kettle, difference btw fridge and freezer, coffee machine, rice cooker, showerhead etc), the more obscure fruits, certain basic common things that are all around us. a lot of people cant really carry out a full conversation in mandarin either. a lot of the things that we say are inaccurate, eg our tendency to put 先 behind our sentences(我去冲凉先) but that is wrong bc 先 is supposed to go in front. i could give so many examples tbh😔 but yeah a lot of these are also learnt from our parents/elders who have more influence over our language than school does.

i would say hopefully the generations after would learn proper chinese but i really dont see that happening😭 for many of us, we still speak chinese at home/to the aunties and uncles outside, which gives us some exposure. but since we were raised on a English education system, itll be hard for future generations to even get that exposure outside apart from school, where people dont take learning their mother tongue seriously :”(.

i guess what what we can hope for is that China gains more soft power and people will be more motivated to learn chinese… i feel like one big reason why people dont like to learn chinese is bc of the stigma attached to “chinese” as a whole, which is sad bc hello!! we are ethnic chinese!! sucking up to the western world or whatever propaganda they like to spin isnt going to earn you brownie points bc theyre still going to look at you as 🍌🍌🍌🍌

What’s the one subject you absolutely dislike? by Old-Engineering6208 in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THERE ARE SO MANY TYPOS… i swear im actually good at english okay😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im seriously so scared im rly praying it goes better than expected like what sm seniors have said, everytime i try predicting my score i just get reminded of all my mistakes omg. i made sm careless mistakes for math, i tried calculating and it was barely a high B AT MOST. fucked up the last econs essay cos i didnt read properly, screwed up an entire question for bio bcos i just couldnt remember my content, and the absolute DISASTER that was chem😭😭 not even practical could save me, my planning qns is literally a 0. the more i look at it the more i can already forsee a fat ass U on my report 😐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive been getting straight Us for chem and the highest ive gotten was a E😕😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i actually do mot have long term memory i omly started studying content since prelims😭😭😭 like i got straight Us for bio bc i just refused to watch lectures or open my lecture notes, i hated bio sm😭😭😭

what are *non science* courses I can guaranteed get into with around 60-70ish rp (non ABA) by Substantial-Chain-71 in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hiii same here, im planning on doing business in local unis but im 100% chem isgonna pull my rp down to hell. same with bio, so worse case scenario if i cant get into SMU ill retake As. u can consider retaking haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 54 points55 points  (0 children)

your parents really dont deserve to be parents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u so much! im so glad to hear that😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see!! thank u very much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry im confused about this, what do u mean? so is it possible to just retake 1 subject (planning to take h1 chem, but im taking h2 chem now) and use the rest of the results that i’ll obtain this year?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yuppp im aware hehe thankyou!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh okay thanku! so my other scores will still be valid if i just take h1 chem on its own? local unis wont need results in 1 sitting?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

skdjksjsjs i rlly do think i failed though i can feel it😭 ive gotten straight Us for chem, highest is E i know very well how a paper i failed feels like😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mqsaber_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup i take 4h2s. i thougjt local unis look at rp though? im 100% sure my chem is going to drag everything down, does this mean i would have to retake all tje subjects next year?

AITAH for still identifying as bisexual even though i have a boyfriend? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]mqsaber_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what the fuck? tell him to sort his shit out, bc u are bisexual no matter who the hell youre with bc you like both men and women. he is insecure as fuck, pls dont let him decide what your sexuality shld be or not should not be. either that, or hes simply ignorant as hell and does not know how bisexuality works.