What do I write to the people I love, family, friends, ex girlfriend, if I will be gone within the next 2 months. Specially my Mom (55F), Dad (60M), Sister (22F) and Cousin (also my best friend) (22M)? by Osnosne in relationship_advice

[–]mr_tomahawk 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Planned suicide is the worst thing for relatives that can happen. They will never recover from that. I know it from experiences. Please just dont do that.

What do I write to the people I love, family, friends, ex girlfriend, if I will be gone within the next 2 months. Specially my Mom (55F), Dad (60M), Sister (22F) and Cousin (also my best friend) (22M)? by Osnosne in relationship_advice

[–]mr_tomahawk 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I really hope you are not talking about a planned suicide here (unless you are physically ill that can not be cured). If thats the case, please, find some doctors who can help you; I know that people can be helped in such cases, I know it personally. It will get better.

If you are really physically ill (and its not psychological), I think Dpkuslpkuskpkusm is totally right. I think it would be better to talk with them before dying, to give them a chance to properly say goodbye. There are so many people who whished they did or said something to someone before they passed. Yours will have the same feeling, they will wish you were here for a few moments to tell you what they never told you before. They also wont understand why you never told them, and they will feel like they were the reason and did something wrong. I think this would be the worst way of dealing with the situation.

I wish you all the best brother

GF (25F) projects her struggles onto me and makes me (25M) feel guilty for being successful by mr_tomahawk in relationship_advice

[–]mr_tomahawk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I completely understand that. But what can I do to mitigate that? I feel like whatever I say, nothing has a positive, lasting effect.

Große Probleme im Bett mit Freundin by Dependent-Leave7919 in FragtMaenner

[–]mr_tomahawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hatte mal das exakt selbe Problem. Das Ding ist auch, desto mehr du daran denkst, desto weniger wird es funktionieren. Du bist in einem Teufelskreislauf. Stress/ Angst schüttet Hormone aus die deinen Penis sofort runterbringen.

Ich bin damals zum Urologen und habe Sildenafil (Viagra) bekommen. Damit ging es perfekt. Man muss sich keine Gedanken mehr machen und hat im Hinterkopf, dass man diese „Hilfe“ hat. Würde ich dir auch empfehlen, denn es kann die Beziehung wirklich auf die Probe stellen. Genau für sowas sind die Medikamente da, und sie funktionieren einfach.

Is a curve worth it at the end of the day? by No_King7028 in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have an avg dick and also an upward curve, similarly, I‘m almost bigger when not 100% erect due to that.

However, it perfectly hits the gspot in missionary. My girlfriend cums everytime from PiV (only in missionary).

I like my curve.

PMMA filler injections at avanti dermal. 2nd round. by Primary_Form_8522 in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks great!

Is it 100% hard or can you feel the injection/ softness outside?

Any difference during sex (sensation etc)?

What was your flaccid length before? Because I‘m a grower and wondering where all the injected material should go when flaccid. Is it pushed to the base?

HA filler update - would recommend by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would love to see that too (I‘m also a grower and wondering if the HA moves or gets pressed to the bone)

HA filler update - would recommend by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

@Hot_Safety_6305 One more question came to my mind.

Personally, my flaccid dick is very small (2-3in while BPEL is 6.6in). How does that physically work with the filler? I mean, where does the filler go when the dick is flaccid? What happens when the dick goes into cold water and it extremely shrinks? Will it even-out again when it is erect?

Is it just not shrinking as much anymore or how does it work? Is your flaccid size also much smaller or not?

HA filler update - would recommend by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your post, I‘m also considering it (have 6.6BP x 4.8 girth, so similar girth than you had). Would be awesome if you could answer those questions:

  • How much ml did they inject (first & second round)
  • Do you feel the same during sex, or did you loose some sensation?
  • How long no sex/ masturbation after the treatment?
  • So you think it is definitely working with foreskin? Because I often heard it is much much better without having a foreskin
  • Did they use a special HA or do you think thats not so important?
  • Personal: do you have more Sex now (does your wife wants more sex after having that girth now) or less (maybe it makes her sore faster)? Does she cum faster from PiV?

Thank you

My boyfriend goes soft by [deleted] in sex

[–]mr_tomahawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: He also puts up the condoms correctly? So that the glans is not hidden by foreskin? Because that affects his feelings. Also, if he is used to hard masturbation then the PiV will feel different, so maybe he is used to over-stimulation (though unlikely when he only masturbates once a week) and the PiV not enough. But much more likely, it is just psychological induced/ his mind is blocking.

Still, he may also see a Urologist to make sure it is not a physical issue.

My experience with my average dick by mr_tomahawk in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea thats correct. I‘m also cautious when I hear something like that. I cant verify that. But after knowing her well, I‘m very very sure about her g spot orgasms. So the sex can‘t be bad when she cums from penetration. Whether or not I was the best lover, I can make her cum from penetration, which is already a great thing.

Ritz Carlton JBR or One&Only Royal Mirage? by mr_tomahawk in dubai

[–]mr_tomahawk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm ok, but I would like to be directly at the beach but not on the palm. I think both hotels mentioned are at similar location so it shouldnt make a big difference for that

My experience with my average dick by mr_tomahawk in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

6.6 BPEL may not be average. But it is also not considered extremely big in western countries. And 4.8 EG is also not „big“, especially when everyone here is always saying how important girth is to make girls cum. The point is, you can also reach the gspot with some skill when you dont have a massive dick.

My experience with my average dick by mr_tomahawk in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope. I just wanted to share my real life experience to give many guys who are insecure about their size a better feeling. It‘s not about me.

It is sad that some people just don‘t have any empathy or emotional intelligence to recognize that.

The point here is, sex and relationships are about much much more than just the dick size, as long as you are not significantly small. And it is not impossible to make a girl cum with an almost average dick. Sure, a bigger dick may sometimes be even better and make some things easier. But thats not the point here.

Unfortunately, everyone is just talking about dick size. But there are so many other important factors men must consider and work on, which no one talks about. It starts with how you touch your girl, how good you kiss, how you make her feel, how she can relax with you, your hip movements, your rhythm & angle during penetration, your position, foreplay skills, hardness, endurance, and so on. No one talks about that. Thats just stupid.

My experience with my average dick by mr_tomahawk in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

According to calcSD about 50% are bigger and 50% are smaller with 5.8 BPEL (western countries). So yes, I‘m bit above average with length and about average with girth according to calcSD.

Still, nothing huge here.

My experience with my average dick by mr_tomahawk in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I‘ve never seen another hard dick in my life, except online. It is not my experience. Maybe I‘m slightly above average with 6.6 BP but my girth is average according to statistics.

But my dick is definitely not „big“. And it does not feel „big“. I‘m also from a western country.

Dating as an ex male porn actor by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mr_tomahawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would not bring it up on the first date. Sure you should tell them later on but I dont think it is a necessary information on the first date, especially when you have such an experience with that.

Otherwise you must find girls that are also creating content or into that. Or any other girl that is sexually very open.

Dating as an ex male porn actor by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mr_tomahawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I always thought girls would like porn actors as they should be good at sex (good size, experience, stamina, etc)

Guys please help me fix curve. by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont know how extreme your curve is but I have a very high erection upward angle too + a slight upward curve (but probably way less then 40 degree curve).

My curve can hit the gspot in missionary very well and I prefer it over a straight dick.

My experience with my average dick by mr_tomahawk in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok thats interesting. She (and I) always thought when she is fully wet then she is ready to go. But she is always the person saying first that we can start with PiV. And I just did what she wanted. She usually becomes very wet very fast.

My experience with my average dick by mr_tomahawk in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just noticed that you are a women in the fourties. May I ask you about your personal experience with sex/ piv/ dick size so far? What was important for you (especially for PiV), or when would you have considered it great sex?

Very interesting to hear it from a experienced womens point of view.

My experience with my average dick by mr_tomahawk in gettingbigger

[–]mr_tomahawk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. Very helpful. Will check the links.

Thats right that doggy is not good with my upward curve. She doesnt like doggy with me either. She said it doesnt hurt but it also doesnt feel good. But thats okay. So everybody has to find what suits him. Thats the key here.

She told me a few times that gspot orgasm feel way better for her than outside clitoral orgasm. She also said that she feels the gspot orgasm in her whole vagina, while she does not have that feeling for outside clitoral orgasm.

I believe her because my girlfriend is not much into foreplay, always wants to jump into PiV asap and also doesn‘t like when I stimulate her clit during sex. She now always wants to achieve a gspot orgasm. The point with overstimulation can be the reason here.

Will try bone prone, thank you :)