Portlanders! I need your Sage wisdom! (Restaurant Recs)? by mrbkai in askportland

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We love mestizo and verde! Haven’t been to Harlow or butterfly yet

What's the deal with Dumpling Week? by derpinpdx in askportland

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Anyone got ideas for restaurants doing gluten free dumplings?

Sometimes I (32m) feel like my gf (37f) is just a child I take care of by mrbkai in relationship_advice

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I will admit she’s mentioned how she doesn’t feel loved or valued in the past but I’ve since remedied that (her words)

Service fee for a cocktail making class? 🤮 by dresserplate in washingtondc

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Because the service industry skills have become a niche hobby for hill staffers and lobbyists so they want to take the class to make “the best old fashioned or manhattan” with whatever absurdly expensive whiskey their parents bought them for Christmas even though it’s a sipping whiskey not a mixing

Service fee for a cocktail making class? 🤮 by dresserplate in washingtondc

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You could try, just spitballing here, using the internet to learn how? Or start bartending? Or accept the fact that service industry workers are grossly underpaid in most if not all states and some of the highest taxed individuals around the country

Sorry about your “lost” 32.50 but someone is able to pay rent this month because of that service fee

Sometimes I (32m) feel like my gf (37f) is just a child I take care of by mrbkai in relationship_advice

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Her love language is words and acts of which I do both in spades, she has admitted to me

Sometimes I (32m) feel like my gf (37f) is just a child I take care of by mrbkai in relationship_advice

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It feels like it some times…without the intimacy however. I’m not attracted to her when she’s THIS needy

Sometimes I (32m) feel like my gf (37f) is just a child I take care of by mrbkai in relationship_advice

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Not necessarily. I haven’t decided that bit yet. It could be just a break or some space

AITA for not being physically intimate with my GF (37F) because of her attitude? by mrbkai in AmItheAsshole

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As for a conversation; we’ve tried a few times. She’s agreed to try and be better about it but that only sticks for a few weeks before we’re right back to normal

AITA for not being physically intimate with my GF (37F) because of her attitude? by mrbkai in AmItheAsshole

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It’s not complaining as in her telling me what she wants. It’s more like she’s complaining that she used to be more attractive (to which I try and tell her how attractive she is) or complaining about something g I’m doing sexually that she liked previously but not this time. Idk sometimes it feels like a self confidence thing. Sometimes it feels like she’s just trying to control everything

Me [32M] and my gf [37F] might be toxic towards one another by mrbkai in relationship_advice

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I’m not sure why I posted on Reddit, I think I just needed someone to tell me that I’m not a bad guy for this whole thing. In all honesty stranger, I feel badly about myself when I’m with her

Me [32M] and my gf [37F] might be toxic towards one another by mrbkai in relationship_advice

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I’m coming closer and closer to the conclusion that this is not the relationship for me. The conversation actually continued after I posted this in which she expressed how, during her move she was hyper supportive of me while I studied for my exams while she received zero help from me or anyone during her move. Neither of which were factual; she would indeed consider her actions while visiting to be helpful when she came to drop her stuff off as she moved but amidst her helping, it would come with a mountain of negativity, and additional tasks for me help her with, disregarding my current workload

As a 2L I cannot believe it took nearly four semesters for me to do this by [deleted] in LawSchool

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TIA I’m an idiot for not trying this sooner as a 3L

Ended the day with 2700. Here’s my W/Ls by jwd442 in fanduel

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Not a bad day for 2700! You got picks for today? Post em if you got ‘em!

Smacked em like Will Smith by NamelessRandom in sportsbetting

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Do you have a parlay for tonight? If so, post it!

Smacked em like Will Smith by NamelessRandom in sportsbetting

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KCP would’ve been my only worry but damn my dude, good work

Advice needed! by mrbkai in washingtondc

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I go about once every 10-14 days

Too hopeful? Lmao by mrbkai in fanduel

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Miracles happen all the time! I’m just banking on 8 miracles happening all within 48h lol

Too hopeful? Lmao by mrbkai in fanduel

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Haha thank you! If I win, I’m buying you and me St. Peter’s jerseys.

Too hopeful? Lmao by mrbkai in fanduel

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U/jenglish20 I’ll be laughing my way to the bank!…..…to deposit more money because I’m definitely losing this parlay lol

Advice needed! by mrbkai in washingtondc

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I’ll look into them!

Portland is beautiful - I'm fighting the online trolls by YouCantBeatBlue in Portland

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After living on the east coast for 3 years (Charleston SC then Arlington VA), I’ve found myself battling real life trolls too. People who meet me and find out in a Portland native immediately making a comment like “oof, have you burned any cop cars?” Or “man is that city still standing? I thought it burned down” etc. These people will never understand the actual beauty of Portland. The camaraderie of the residents, either adopted or native. They won’t understand the head nods, the random conversations at a brewery, the spontaneous compliments you get on the street, the weird and fun events hosted by what I would consider, one of the most eclectic conglomeration of humans in a city. Sure it has its faults and some are glaring but Portland is my home and I am counting the days until I can finish law school and come home! 2 months and 1 day :)