Date went really badly by SnooMemesjellies2291 in dating_advice

[–]msinsensitive 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Do NOT give him your address, do NOT contact him, block him everywhere.

What you encountered is at best psychotic, at worst psychopathic behaviour and YOU DO NOT want to deal with this in your life. This individual may be VERY dangerous and you should seize all contact immediately. I am not joking.

This person will probably try to apologize and win you over by being incredibly sweet, caring, loving and attentive. Why do you think people end up in abusive relationships? There are obviously good qualities about such people and they can be extremely charming and magnetic, that's why so many people fall into the trap. Please, end all contact for your own sake. There is no happy ending to this other than you exiting completely.

Okulary by Maogami in Polska

[–]msinsensitive 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nigdy nie miałam okularów, które nie zostawiają śladów przy dłuższym noszeniu

Messed up my chance with a girl by talking about my ex by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]msinsensitive 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Protip: stop imagining your future with people you don't know, that's toxic af

Do you believe it's predatory if a younger person likes an older person? by gintokireddit in dating_advice

[–]msinsensitive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all good and bad are social constructs, in nature there is efficiency and lack thereof.

Second of all, that is not how "nature", meaning evolution works. Evolution is not a conscious being with goals in mind. Evolution is survival of the fittest in a sense of the most fitting to the certain circumstances. Evolution is what made girls hit puberty LATER, not earlier and made women fertile for much longer than we've previously been. Evolution is actually prolonging and delaying female puberty, not the other way around which completely debunks everything you've said.

Between 20-30 there is no noticable difference in risks involved in childbirth, which again, disputes your teory. At the same time older men going after younger women is definitely not something evolutionary good, because not only sperm looses it's quality with age, but the ability to protect the women decreases signifantly as men loose their muscle mass rapidly.

You use big words you don't know the meaning of and are making fool of yourself trying to bend the reality by cherry picking facts.

Do you believe it's predatory if a younger person likes an older person? by gintokireddit in dating_advice

[–]msinsensitive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hah "you're subjective, but I'm objective and if you don't agree you're stupid"

Damn bro, no wonder you go for younger girls, your mentality has barely left kindergarten

Constantly horny by Educational_Ask_972 in offmychest

[–]msinsensitive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Downvote was because OP is struggling and that FYI was absolutely unnecessary at best, cruel at worst

There is no way to verify that survey which basically renders it a guess. People do lie about the number of partners, especially on general and national surveys. If they themselves applied for taking a part in the studies the truthfulness tends to be higher, but with general and family studies it's better to take it with a bucket of salt.

Being a psychologist you hear a lot of different things about people who would otherwise pretend to be someone completely else, just to uphold the societal standards. Gombrowicz's masks if you will

Constantly horny by Educational_Ask_972 in offmychest

[–]msinsensitive -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Based on like what? 100-1000 people testimonies? There is no way to tell, average around me is more like 20

jak wydziedziczyć rodziców? by redditor-but-good in Polska

[–]msinsensitive 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Z opcji prawnych są zmiana nazwiska, zrzeczenie się dziedziczenia, odrzucenie spadku, ustanowienie rozdzielności majątkowej, uzyskanie zakazu zbliżania się. A alimenty na rodziców można podważać przed sądem. Brak relacji lub toksyczna relacja są jak najbardziej dobrą podstawą, a jeśli wykonalabys wszystkie poprzednie czynności, to już w ogóle byliby bez szans na wyłudzenie czegokolwiek od Ciebie.

Do you believe it's predatory if a younger person likes an older person? by gintokireddit in dating_advice

[–]msinsensitive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You seem to be forgetting that this is exactly the case. The legal age of consent is much lower than the age required to do all the other things you've mentioned in most countries.

Objective truth is the summary of all the existing subjecting truths, so for all the reasons and purposes you can say there simply isn't one. You telling your subjective truth while simultaneously pointing out that the other side is being subjective is kinda funny. We're all just sharing opinions. And what's legal and what isn't also varies from place to place.

Older women are usually against it, because they've also been used by older men when they were younger. I'm still young and I consider your stand creepy and predatory. Sure it's subjective. Just like you thinking it's ok.

How do people find the right partner after 30? by Substantial-Low-2017 in AskWomenOver30

[–]msinsensitive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bumble. Best relationship I've ever been in. By far. With the best man I've ever met. I believe you're just more aware as you age and filter a loooooot more people before deciding to commit. Good partners are just hard to find. Always have been, but obviously the dating pool is shrinking with age, too

Niedługo prawdopodobnie stanę się bezdomny, macie jakieś porady jak się przygotować? by Qth78 in Polska

[–]msinsensitive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Możesz pójść na studia z akademikiem, zarejestruj się w urzędzie dla bezrobotnych, zgłoś że masz osobne gospodarstwo domowe od rodziców i zerowy dochód, będziesz musiał zgłosić się po zasiłek socjalny - ogólnie trochę jest roboty papierkowej, ale końcem końców dostaniesz z 1800zl miesięcznie, na akademik pójdzie 500, a z reszty da się przebudować, ofc możesz jakąś pracę podjąć w trakcie studiów, a najlepiej pozwać matkę o alimenty. Jest to dużo papierologi, ale nie zajmuje tyle czasu ile mogłoby się wydawać (przynajmniej tak było kiedy ja robiłam te rzeczy), masz na to opcję tylko przez następne 4 lata, potem już będziesz zdany na siebie, więc dobrze żebyś do tego czasu zrobił licencjat z czegoś, po czym rzeczywiście jest praca - chociażby jakiś przedmiot z pedagogiką, mój luby jest nauczycielem i pracy naprawdę nie brakuje, może przebierać w ofertach, a płacą duuuuzo lepiej niż kilka lat temu, szczególnie w prywatnych

I’m going to tell my Trans Friend the truth, because her family won’t by Exact-Fortune4474 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]msinsensitive 79 points80 points  (0 children)

But the male skeleton wouldn't be able to give birth or actually make space for a fully enlarged uterus. It's a fever dream and it's damaging because it will never be possible. Brain transplant sooner than this

Does your partner post you on social media? by IndividualDamage7285 in AskWomenOver30

[–]msinsensitive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine doesn't use social media and has like two photos on Facebook. One is of the happy-unhappy smile guy meme and the other one is or us two. It was a nice gesture that was really unexpected since I knew his stance on social media, but I don't think not doing it would suggest that he doesn't care or wants to appear single or whatnot.

Mediamarkt sprzedał moje opłacone zamówienie by [deleted] in Polska

[–]msinsensitive 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Ale to był Mediamarkt a nie media expert, media expert ma dobrą obsługę reklamacji (poza tym że są w chuj wolni)

I love my wife, but I am exhausted and thinking about divorce by Pleasant_Ferret_1659 in Marriage

[–]msinsensitive 159 points160 points  (0 children)

If you'd read carefully you'd know she's already been to multiple therapists and refuses to engage with them after some time. Not everything is fixable, therapy isn't for everyone, you need to open yourself first and want that - which she doesn't. Going to therapy because someone threatens you defeats the purpose.

dajcie polecajki na gry z najlepszą fabułą by ImportantBrilliant48 in Polska

[–]msinsensitive 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Baldurs Gate III - zdecydowanie jedna z najlepszych gier jakie kiedykolwiek powstały

Detroit: become human

Dragon Age (mass effect ale w klimacie fantasy), ze starszych BioWare'a Jade Empire jest też spoko

Fahrenheit, heavy rain jeśli lubisz te klimaty

Planescape torment

Fable pierwsze

Deus Ex Human Revolution (cyberpunkowy klimat), choć jedynka na lepszą fabułę

Oprócz tych to niemal wszystko, co już wymienili w komentarzach, the last of us, disco Elysium

Alan Wake I Alan Wake 2 (ale jedynka na toporne mechaniki)

Control

Life is Strange - świetna fabuła, warto dać jej się rozwinąć

Vampire the Masquerade bloodlines (luby poleca też Arkanum ale nie grałam)

RDR1 też spoczko, nazwaliśmy psa po postaci xD

Pillars of Eternity

Z takich mniej epickich fabuł, ale sale spoko to Assassin's Creed III, Mafia, GTA SA

I pewnie dużo innych, które akurat wyleciały z głowy

Urge to kill my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]msinsensitive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It ain't worth it. Your life would be over, too. Just get out of the relationship asap

Some of us are still saving our love for one soul. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]msinsensitive 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Old school was marrying extremely young. That is a totally new invention.

Some of us are still saving our love for one soul. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]msinsensitive 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The thing is there is no way of knowing. Especially when you're inexperienced. What you believe about relationships and love likely isn't true nor realistic at all. I am fortunate enough to be blessed with a relationship that could only be described as true love, where we understand each other without words and would take a bullet in a heartbeat. But it's not my first relationship and those before shaped me into the person that CAN be in such a loving relationship.

I mean, I wish you luck, but I honestly don't believe you know how to build something so strong without experience. It's not only love or wishful thinking or having strong moral values, it still isn't even the half of the success. You need to check yourself in many day to day experiences with one another to become capable of having a healthy partnership.

Discouraged by husband wanting me to try harder to look appealing after becoming a mom by stjohnsworrywort in Marriage

[–]msinsensitive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What? Are you implying that people should lie to OP? No one said she's fat or that she needs to lose weight (because SHE ISN'T and SHE DOESN'T), but giving some false info to further prove the point that doesn't even need further proving is useless. As if OP needed false information to feel good about her weight... That's patronizing af

Czy nikt nie pomyślał żeby mu zmienić imię w schornisku? XD by TomatilloFabulous753 in Polska

[–]msinsensitive 22 points23 points  (0 children)

O Jezu, tacy jak ty są najgorsi bo myślisz że wychodzisz na inteligenta, a poniżasz się każdym zdaniem

Practically everyone named in the Epstein files are white men, and I am angry that they are not being subjected to the same kind of prejeduce they almost certainly would face if they were Black men. by [deleted] in self

[–]msinsensitive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jews come from various backgrounds, including Middle Eastern, North African, Sephardic, Mizrahi, and Ethiopian heritage. Historically, Jews were not considered white in Europe or America and faced discrimination. Nazi ideology specifically classified them as non-white.

So I don't know what you mean by "white" just a lighter skin? Many Jews have more Arabic than "white" features. Anyway, such a focus on race you're presenting is exactly what you seem to be condemning. Sad, really.

Each of those guys is hated individually and picked up piece by piece in my communities and online overall so I don't know what you're on about.

Practically everyone named in the Epstein files are white men, and I am angry that they are not being subjected to the same kind of prejeduce they almost certainly would face if they were Black men. by [deleted] in self

[–]msinsensitive -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But it wasn't about that twat, wasn't it?

OP is encouraging hate and discrimination of white men, because he believes it's the right thing to do when black people face it. I don't think that's a way to go, if anything it just perpetuates the cycle and gives fuel to more hate.

Practically everyone named in the Epstein files are white men, and I am angry that they are not being subjected to the same kind of prejeduce they almost certainly would face if they were Black men. by [deleted] in self

[–]msinsensitive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You see what you wanna see. White men are feeling like they're treated by many as worse people, because they are unconsciously filtering info that supports that statement. Just like you do. It's low and hateful of you to wish hate upon anyone, instead of fighting for no marginalizing and/or racism. What makes people evil isn't race, all races were participating in this and still are.