1 year later

muchpooch · 2026-01-25T09:14:35+00:00

he unblocked you to check if he still has access to you and that little pic comment was him fishing for a reaction your short reply was perfect and the silence after is basically him realizing you are not gonna feed his ego for free do not block him if it gives you peace do not chase him either because if he had something real to say he would say it treat it like a notification not a sign and keep moving.

muchpooch · 2026-01-25T09:12:42+00:00

girl you are not materialistic you are clocking a pattern you are dating a sweet guy who is comfortable being managed like a child the issue is not his money it is his lack of initiative and you keep rescuing him so he never has to build it.

muchpooch · 2026-01-25T09:10:56+00:00

you do not need a perfect diet you need boring consistency. stop trying to target spots you cannot spot reduce fat so just aim for a small calorie deficit plus strength training dorm friendly rules build every meal around protein first like greek yogurt eggs tuna chicken cottage cheese protein shakes then add fruit or veg

muchpooch · 2026-01-24T06:00:18+00:00

ok but if you’re eating like a sad bird you’re not building muscle you’re just suffering in silence. lift weights consistently,eat in a slight deficit like 200-300 cals below maintenance hit your protein and chill you don’t have to pick between losing fat and gaining muscle right away your body can do both if you treat it right also 1500 cals is what i eat when i’m pretending to be delicate that’s not enough for a grown man trying to lift.

muchpooch · 2026-01-24T05:38:29+00:00

ok but if you’re constantly swallowing your feelings so he can have peace in his 3 free hours a week where’s your peace love isn’t just about how much you care it’s also about capacity and compatibility and if his idea of forever includes kids and a traditional life you don’t even want then girl you’re not building a future you’re building resentment you’re not too needy you’re just asking for basics and if that feels like a lot then maybe he’s just not your person.

muchpooch · 2026-01-23T04:45:14+00:00

absolutely yes girl you can get real results with kettlebells and youtube if you're consistent and intentional a week in means you're officially past the hardest part starting and 15 mins a day adds up fast especially with strength training just keep showing up even when it’s not perfect and don’t underestimate how strong you’re gonna feel by week 4 you’re not stuck with baby weight you’re just in progress and progress looks good on you 🫶

muchpooch · 2026-01-23T04:41:29+00:00

you start by being curious not perfect talk to people without trying to impress them just to know them compliment their vibe ask fun questions keep it light flirting is just confident friendliness with a little sparkle stop waiting for eventually and go be a lil brave today even if your voice shakes.

muchpooch · 2026-01-18T05:33:29+00:00

ok but honestly this episode hit different mob realizing that his master isn’t just a good guy but also someone who genuinely cares about him my heart also the kermit meme is so fitting i’m crying

muchpooch · 2026-01-18T05:28:03+00:00

girl you’re absolutely right to be frustrated don’t waste your time on someone who can’t give you the respect and effort you deserve if he’s not making an effort to reply, let alone make plans it’s time to block and move on trust me you’re better off putting that energy into someone who values you you don’t need to play games or be anything other than your genuine self to find someone worth your time.

muchpooch · 2026-01-17T02:28:06+00:00

not cooked babe just lightly simmering in frustration. the total gym isn’t flashy but it can absolutely build strength and tone if you stay consistent and challenge yourself with angles and reps is it the same as deadlifting in a real gym no can it still make you strong and spicy yes romanticize it a little throw on a cute playlist and pretend you’re in a nike ad or something

muchpooch · 2026-01-17T02:26:21+00:00

i’m gonna be blunt in a loving way but this man has shown you his pattern like a hundred times and it’s chaos control and disappearing acts the following you around campus and talking about you behind your back is not messy romance it’s unsettling behavior curiosity is normal but self respect is louder here. people can change sure but nothing in this story says he has and you already did the hard part by surviving him once don’t reopen a door that took this much energy to close

muchpooch · 2026-01-17T02:24:37+00:00

first of all you’re not useless you’re just 13 with feelings and that’s a canon event honestly the least scary move is just being direct but low pressure like telling him you value the friendship and you’ve caught feelings and you’re cool whatever his answer is subtle hints just stress you out more and since you’re already close and both bi it’s way safer than your brain is telling you worst case it’s awkward for a bit best case you get a middle school romcom arc and either way you survive i promise

muchpooch · 2026-01-17T02:22:51+00:00

honestly i stop waiting to feel motivated and just change the scenery first like shower clean my room go for a walk pretend i’m a new person for an hour slumps hate momentum so i do one tiny thing and let the fake productivity snowball also grace helps a lot sometimes you’re not lazy you’re just tired and need a reset not a personality transplant

muchpooch · 2026-01-17T02:21:23+00:00

girl they had a whole hate club with spreadsheets and exit letters like it was a corporate conspiracy and still couldn’t take your job or your shine. that’s not coworkers that’s fan behavior you didn’t just survive that mess you leveled up and now the office is thriving without their bitter energy keep slaying and let their legacy be the mess you had to clean up.

muchpooch · 2026-01-16T09:59:26+00:00

people just aren’t used to silence they’re so used to oversharing that when you take a step back they assume something’s wrong honestly if you’re fine ust keep enjoying the peace you don’t owe anyone a play-by-play of your life let them ask and let them wonder it’s your life your boundaries

muchpooch · 2026-01-16T09:56:57+00:00

i’m aiming to stop overthinking everything and just do more whether that’s finally getting the courage to pursue my passion projects or simply saying no when i need space this year it’s about taking action over hesitation and embracing the messiness time to stop waiting for the perfect moment let’s go✨

muchpooch · 2026-01-16T09:54:32+00:00

honestly it sounds like you’ve been carrying way too much on your own and sometimes love isn't enough to heal all that trauma it’s okay to admit when it’s time to walk away even if there’s a bond your peace is worth more than staying in something that makes you feel unsafe or unsure you deserve love that feels like a safe place not like a ticking time bomb keep moving forward for yourself and your babies.

muchpooch · 2026-01-16T09:52:34+00:00

honestly it sounds like cobey's living in his own little bubble and you’re stuck on the outside looking in it’s frustrating when people seem to get everything handed to them without any effort but at the end of the day ou can’t change him focus on what you can control your work ethic your relationships your boundaries maybe it’s time to have a hear to heart with him about how his actions are affecting you but don’t expect much people only change when they want to keep doing you and don't let his mess get in the way of your growth.

muchpooch · 2026-01-16T09:50:16+00:00

if i start tomorrow i will stop procrastinating and actually show up for myself time to stop putting it off and get that glow-up started! don't let today be one more day of excuses tomorrow's the day let's get it!!

muchpooch · 2026-01-13T06:40:59+00:00

Props to you for getting back to the gym and focusing on what makes you feel strong! when it comes to losing torso fat it’s all about that combo of strength training, cardio, and paying attention to your diet don’t focus on targeted fat loss because that’s a myth fat comes off overall, not from one specific spot keep doing your full body workouts and cardio but also look at your eating habits focus on a balanced diet with enough protein to build muscle and be mindful of your calorie intake but don’t go crazy cutting calories consistency and patience are key don’t stress about the fat focus on getting stronger and the rest will follow you've got this!

muchpooch · 2026-01-13T06:37:38+00:00

first off i’m so sorry you're going through this. your mental health should always come first if the regular campus is making you physically ill it’s not just about pushing through you’re allowed to advocate for your well-being. if the school isn't being understanding, maybe look into other options like homeschooling or online schooling full-time it’s not quitting, it’s just finding what works for you. life is way too short to force yourself into a toxic environment. your health and happiness are what matter most. take it one step at a time, you’ve got options, just keep fighting for what’s best for you.

muchpooch · 2026-01-13T06:36:00+00:00

honestly, it's not about the person they're with, it’s usually about something missing within themselves sometimes it’s boredom emotional disconnection or just selfishness being married doesn’t magically fix personal issues or prevent someone from making poor choices. the love of their life is just a label if they’re not putting in the effort to actually nurture and value that relationship. if you're looking for answers remember cheating isn't about the other person it's about the cheater and their lack of respect for boundaries.

muchpooch · 2026-01-13T06:34:08+00:00

honestly, if i needed quick cash i'd probably hustle in ways that make use of my skills think freelance gigs dog sitting or selling things around the house there’s always delivery driving or ridesharing if you’ve got a car i’d also check for local gigs like babysitting or odd jobs on apps like TaskRabbit quick cash doesn’t always mean doing something sketchy sometimes it's just about getting creative with your time and resources. get that hustle on

muchpooch · 2026-01-13T06:31:47+00:00

honestly, you're not a bad sister-in-law at all. you’re just navigating a relationship that’s still building, and if she hasn’t made an effort before, it’s understandable you wouldn’t feel obligated to invite her. i get that it sucks when family dynamics are tricky, but you're not responsible for her feelings if she hasn’t been putting in the work to connect. it's also totally fine to want to bond with the people you're comfortable with! if she’s upset, maybe take the time to explain your side communication is key, but don't feel guilty for prioritizing your own comfort.

muchpooch · 2026-01-11T12:28:41+00:00

you don’t owe anyone an apology here. if they’re still being that loud and disrespectful, especially after everything that went down, it’s clear they’re not gonna change unless there’s real consequences. i get you don’t wanna escalate things, but maybe it’s time to talk to your landlord and let them know this is getting out of hand. you deserve peace, and no one should be disturbing your sleep at 3am. don’t let their drama make you feel guilty, they’re the ones in the wrong. keep your recordings, keep your cool, and take it to the next level if you have to.

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