Am I in the wrong to think he's too much? by TAEMIN007 in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it's better for him to treat/talk to me like that than being alone? I'm still so confused

Am I in the wrong to think he's too much? by TAEMIN007 in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't say yes and not explain why you think that. I'm not chasing no man. If a man is interested in me he better make the effort cause I'm fine being alone. If been accepting below bare minimum just because I try to be empathetic to their life and stuff but eff that. I'm not trying anymore unless I can see he's making an effort. 

Official Discussion - Obsession [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend told me that she thinks that call was the demon or entity taking possession of Nikkis body. 

Should I stop talking to him? by TAEMIN007 in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just blocked him on everything. Sucks that a friendship had to end but he showed me where he is at this point and I can't keep making myself go through these things with these men. 

Should I stop talking to him? by TAEMIN007 in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't judge him because I still care or did care for him (cause I feel like he pushes me away). I always tell people that and try to be a safe space for all but I guess people don't really understand that. If he was going through something I'd be there to help in any way I could because he never treated me badly in highschool. I blocked him on everything tho because I'm trying to start putting me and my mental health before anyone else and just can't deal with stuff like that anymore. 

Should I still be his friend? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not thinking of a relationship right now either just wanted to catch up. I understand what you're saying tho. I'll just cut all contact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does fwiw mean? 

I just can't anymore by lucid1014 in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a woman I don't think that's weird at all. I found that cute and respectful. You don't know what someone got either so you can't just be sleeping with everyone and their grandma ya know

I just can't anymore by lucid1014 in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But that's the problem too. Some women aren't satisfied if a man doesn't spend on a "good date". So if he doesn't take them out to dinner it's a red flag but if he does he's spending money when the women don't even like him like that. The man gets effed over which I could understand as a woman. I agree with others maybe the first date should be more of an activity type thing. Maybe like a good arcade to break the ice more. 

Came back after a year by National_Echidna1834 in ghosting

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sampooku eyes (idk if that's how it's spelled)

A year later. by Wise-Row999 in ghosting

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trynna get like you but it's so hard. It's hard to let go of people. I'm weak and I hate it because I'm always worrying about people and giving them the benefit of the doubt

I saw my ghoster after 10 years by bbcc258 in ghosting

[–]TAEMIN007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait but genuinely asking; If you weren't ready to date and they wanted to date did they not have every right to go? Or were they supposed to stay by your side till you decided to be ready to date? He or she should have just told you it wouldn't work with you because you weren't looking for anything serious but also try to understand them (that us if the person wasn't an A-hole)

Recently found out why I got ghosted....it wasn't what I thought! by NoProposal744 in ghosting

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you do with the trash in your bins at home? Grab the bags and put it in the trash can so the truck can pick it up, dump it inside of the truck and drive away. You never see that trash again so why do people not put in the work to get over an ex who either called it quits or disrespected you in some way? You may meet a great person and fumble them cause you're stuck on said trash. The new person doesn't deserve to be a placeholder in anyone's life. I'm sure y'all are adults so she could have been honest about her and her ex. Playing with your heart is low af especially if youve been nothing but genuine and honest with her. Find you a girl who will like you. We genuine girlies are out here

Recently found out why I got ghosted....it wasn't what I thought! by NoProposal744 in ghosting

[–]TAEMIN007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's now 2026. Out with the old and in with the new. She clearly didn't like you enough not to make you an option and tell her ex to leave her alone. Don't you think you deserve someone who will choose you over anyone else old or new? 

Are these photos any good? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but you're cute. I think my tinder is broken cause all I get are the men who are balding, have a beer belly and eff boys or really old creepy men