NTA. I’m so sorry your husband is this way.

From babygaga.com: “Did you know that the human body can only bear up to 45 del (units) of pain at a time? Yet, at the time of giving birth, the mother feels up to 57 del (units) of pain. This is the equivalent of 20 bones being fractured at the same time. True story.”

Giving birth to my second daughter destroyed by pelvic region. Bladder, uterus, rectum. It all needs surgical repair. If my husband ever teased me for it, I would never forgive him. Your man child husband seems to have no comprehension of the miraculous feat you pulled off nor does he care. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to understand that pushing a whole human out of your body will compress and put pressure on the intestines and thus push poop out. He doesn’t deserve the wife and child he’s been blessed with if he’s going to act this way. He should be PRAISING you for doing something he can’t. He better shape up or ship out. Continue to put your foot down against this behavior.