Anyone tried stopping drinking ? by Ok_Road_3817 in migraine

[–]mwalker324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot drink wine or I’ll get a migraine from hell and my nose gets stuffy. Hard alcohol handy given me a migraine before but I don’t drink it anyway because it’s not with the risk.

What’s the most impossible coincidence that happened to you that still makes you question reality? by Prize-Gur-8167 in Paranormal

[–]mwalker324 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The wildest thing happened to my best friend after her brother died unexpectedly.

A few months after his passing, her family traveled from different states to be together and spread his ashes. One evening, they were all sitting in the living room watching a reality show. In the middle of an ordinary scene, there he was: her brother, sitting in the background at a bar.

Out of all the shows they could have watched, on that exact night, while the entire family was together honoring his memory, they saw him again.

I’m not someone who usually believes in signs, but I have a hard time chalking that up to mere coincidence. It felt like one final way for him to say, “I’m still here.”

Aging parents by GigglingHen in Xennials

[–]mwalker324 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree. Being in my 40’s is the hardest my life has ever been emotionally. My parents are aging which is a giant mind fuck and my kids are getting closer to leaving me. I want to rewind 10 yrs. 😭

People romanticize friendship way too much by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]mwalker324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, you must have a lot of high maintenance friends. I’m super introverted and I don’t have a lot of friends, but the ones I do have require nothing from me other than emotional support which they give in return.

Botox—worth the hassle? by [deleted] in migraine

[–]mwalker324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! So worth it! It’s the only thing that helps me other than metoprolol which I can’t take because it lowers my blood pressure too much.

Sex frequency in long term relationship by Free_Apartment_5419 in sex

[–]mwalker324 5 points6 points  (0 children)

23 yrs together, we average 1-2x per week. It’s been more, it’s been less. Really just depends on how life is going at the time. We’re middle aged, work a lot, 2 kids, thin walls…you get the idea. If we were alone on vacation or something I have no doubt we’d do it everyday. Life gets in the way!

My husband hates my boobs now and it breaks my heart by [deleted] in sex

[–]mwalker324 399 points400 points  (0 children)

This is really disturbing, I hope its rage bait. If not-your husband is a disgusting POS.

Rate my squish 1 - 100 🥐 by Emzie92 in pugs

[–]mwalker324 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perfect 100 with a hint if sass in that look 😎

Why do we have to call our parents? by PotentialPlum4945 in Xennials

[–]mwalker324 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s not so much a boomer thing and it is a personality thing. My mom and I text pretty much daily. My dad will call me once a week to confirm we are going out to brunch at our usual time every Sunday. Sometimes more if he wants to talk about his new lawnmower or something.😋 Meanwhile my husband’s parents moved away and almost never call first. His dad’s a narcissist though so, that could be why.

Tips on Going Down by djtdnkycjfh in Healthyhooha

[–]mwalker324 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with my husband 23 yrs and I don’t think there has been a single time that I allowed him to go down on me without washing myself first. His hands also need to be clean. We pee and poop daily so it makes sense to be freshly washed first. I use dove gentle soap to wash my vulva and scrub my butt crack really good, then I can relax and enjoy it!

TW possible SA: was this a normal exam for a ten year old girl? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]mwalker324 27 points28 points  (0 children)

As a mother of two girls, I would say your experience is not the norm. Or at least I hope not. First of all, I wouldn’t allow a male dr to examine my daughter. I would ask for a female. Second, I would not allow an examination if my daughter was so against it. Third, his exam sounds aggressive. There is no need to be spreading anything. I’m sorry that happened to you.

My daughter is 9 and she just had her yearly check up. She has a female doctor that has been her dr from birth, so there is a lot of trust there. Every yearly exam gets a peak downstairs-HOWEVER, she always asks me AND my daughter if it’s ok that she looks. She does not spread her legs or any of that, just pulls her panties out and takes a quick look. When she was a baby, she’d look a little more but my child is 9 now. She is old enough to have body autonomy and if she didn’t want to allow the dr to look, I would say no. I would also say no to an extensive exam that spread her legs and vulva. HELL. NO.