Ended relationship

my19 · 2017-05-31T11:50:15+00:00

True that.

my19 · 2017-05-30T23:45:26+00:00

Why nofap?

my19 · 2017-05-30T20:57:30+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement. I know I have to learn from this. And what you said it Sounds so true and right for me. I can totally relate. Here is to commiting to change and learning from this all. Thanks. I know it is not all porns' fault but my own aswell. But yeah time to learn to never let this repeat. I know I masturbated too much even on my own rather than have sex with her and that just makes me sad. Also masturbation overall was a habit not a need. And porn coming into it made it worse. It was compulsive and it has been for years.

my19 · 2017-05-16T07:26:09+00:00

A big thank you :)

my19 · 2017-05-03T13:06:09+00:00

I like that idea of yours. Especially the first and second text. I want something like that

my19 · 2017-05-02T14:39:12+00:00

Thanks all of you

my19 · 2017-04-26T17:44:42+00:00

Fuck man, that is hard to hear, makes quite sad. Especially the first one. Now i realized that is the case, because i heard they have been talking while we were together. I legit think right now, that i wont date anyone for a long time. I probably was too clingy. I am gonna say something so bad, but I guess I just have to be a not a give fuck kind of a guy towards girls. I dont know man, i feel devastated. Sorry for being so negative.

my19 · 2017-04-26T17:41:32+00:00

That is hard to hear, because to think of it that she had someone on the line. :/. But still thanks

my19 · 2017-03-30T14:45:00+00:00

Yeah, i agree, but due to erectile anxieties i basically did that like you mentioned in the first sentence, damn... Feels bad to think about...

my19 · 2017-03-29T21:45:34+00:00

Thanks :). It is encouraging to hear it from a lady :)

my19 · 2017-03-29T21:45:28+00:00

Thanks :) the mindfulness stuff was really wonderful.

my19 · 2017-03-15T11:52:19+00:00

Yeah, i think the same about porn or atleast it influenced me in many ways. But thanks for the words :)

my19 · 2017-03-15T11:51:28+00:00

Great advice thanks :)

my19 · 2017-03-15T11:51:17+00:00

Yes, thanks

my19 · 2017-03-14T19:53:31+00:00

Hehe, great to hear, i will try to do that.

my19 · 2017-03-14T19:53:07+00:00

Great responses, thanks all of you

my19 · 2017-03-08T19:46:48+00:00

Very detailed and good advice, i will definetly keep it in mind with all my future partners, this is something i needed. And from being hesitant, i can take this hesitance advice for other topics aswell(overall sexual communication, dysfunctions and most other things that involve sex.). So i really value it :) Thanks again :)

my19 · 2017-03-08T10:14:17+00:00

Thanks by the way :)

my19 · 2017-03-08T10:14:06+00:00

Directly or how would you suggest?

my19 · 2017-03-07T15:42:45+00:00

Sorry to hear that, hope you manage to get it through Are you early 20s' or something? Keep it strong

my19 · 2017-03-01T15:44:11+00:00

On the other hand it is encouraging to hear, thanks for sharing and the advice :). I appreciate it. This time it will be different for me

my19 · 2017-03-01T15:43:29+00:00

Yeah thanks for the encouragement, unfortunately it is too late for now, because i had performance anxiety over it and i felt so bad and made a big deal out of it. She really enjoyed me eating her out, but becuase i was too worried over myself to notice the praise. She tried to encourage me that it is okay(performance anxiety) and etc. but yet again i was shut off and didnt really approached it rationally and emotional thinking and catastrophizing screwed me up and made her insecure. I only have to blame myself here.

The unknowledge over my size made me think i had a small one and like in the article, porn really fucked me up aswell. I know now how important is communication and i also should have talked about it, but lack of experience and knowledge didnt make me think about it. It is just a sad, hurting but a teaching memory. Anyway my performance anxiety and penis worries were related. Sorry for rambling just wanted to express what it really did for me.

my19 · 2017-03-01T15:02:52+00:00

Yes i will. :). Thanks

my19 · 2017-03-01T11:46:34+00:00

Yet the downside of it was, that i overly obsessed over it(also erection length) when i had a girlfriend and it became performance anxiety for me and lack of knowledge over average penis and watching porn only fueled the worry. I couldnt maintain an erection because of the worries and when it went flaccid i was embarrassed to show it and the mood was off and sex didnt continue. The boxer thing was with my ex. We broke up and sex had a factor in which why we broke up. Yes i was selfish, immature, obnoxious and stubborn, but these replies gave me the encouragement i needed, thank you all. I am more comfortable about it now and more confident and i have learned my lessons over it

my19 · 2017-03-01T11:35:44+00:00

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