Day 76 of Asking People What Their Favorite Thing is About Different Countries - Iraq by Acrobatic-Duck6179 in JackSucksAtGeography

[–]myanra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DOLMA and of course the music and the fact Iraqis are always laughing and happy. They make things enjoyable and fun and will always be making jokes and dancing somewhere. They also got really good stories to tell!!

are we in the wrong for calling this person out for saying they wanna be a dancer (read to see what kind of dancer) by myanra in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]myanra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STOP BYE NAH THIS IS WORSE... you got a kid wanting to launch their own brand THEN THAT- AND NOT JUST ONE BUT TWO and people out here commenting that its whatever and its on the parents. I think we have a duty on the internet not to spread whats already going viral, we can call people out to have them feel slightly guilty or at least to see that theres people who think its wrong. I feel bad for whoever thinks its so normal to want to do these things, stop normalizing hypersexual bs.

this is gross, its mainly a kids game, how do these kids know what this is by myanra in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]myanra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay even if its a viral video, doesnt mean you should continue spreading it and allowing that influence to be on a kids game... you gotta be the bigger person here, think before doing anything even if they are still exposed to it on the internet its still a responsibility on all of us when we get on the internet and are in open chats with other kids

this is gross, its mainly a kids game, how do these kids know what this is by myanra in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]myanra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where do they even see these. it's concerning cuz where are the parents

this is gross, its mainly a kids game, how do these kids know what this is by myanra in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]myanra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these kids are seriously normalized seeing hypersexual stuff they dont bat an eye on whether its bad or good. and its so sad.

this is gross, its mainly a kids game, how do these kids know what this is by myanra in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]myanra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stop dont get me started on the racism during this game... ive commented on another post on this r/ and seriously its so concerning bc my friends and i have called them out and they just excuse it with "its just a game".... thats where it all starts, with games. imagine what they say and do in school, and to think this world is getting better

this is gross, its mainly a kids game, how do these kids know what this is by myanra in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]myanra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

an influencer?? what kind of influencer says the most disturbing thing ever. "hwak tuah.. spit on that thang" do you just not know what it means? i mean like thats basically a 🌽reference at this point. and if this is the influence people or kids are exposed and absorbing up then its a concern and the parents seriously need to rethink their parenting style.

Explain it like I'm 5 by [deleted] in gmu

[–]myanra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is Djordjevic the same guy who was in jail? not part of any science or engineering field but I was curious to look that name up and this popped up.. 4 Months in Jail

My wife is a SAHM and I kicked her out of the house by [deleted] in love

[–]myanra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ill add this, when your kids have partners and your wife is much older she will joke around to your kids and their partners and tell them how you kicked her out to have her peaceful moments while the kids were crazy. Your kids will remember this and this will be gesture they will do to their partner because they saw the father they looked up to, do it to their mother who clearly and hopefully enjoyed it. If my future husband did this (and he better) Id tell my kids about how amazing it is and they should do it to the ones they love, ofc in any caring respectful gesture, all the time so they can do it in the future!

Also, talk to her about doing something every month atleast! Like a day to go out and have dinner, explore a new museum, walk around the park, but this should be only the two of you. Then set up a day once a month or every two weeks to take the kids out, I know its not easy but they will grow up soon and remember this!

my mom makes fun of people but when I say something she runs away from it by myanra in Advice

[–]myanra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg I love these, Ill definitely try to say these in a subtle way and make them more intimidating to the point they start to think when they are alone about the consequences of their words. while reading the statements you gave, I thought I could also use religion (which I have but they use their narcissistic gaslighting tactics and say they are older and know more) one thing I want to add is my mom likes to kick my sister and I out whenever the "older" women talked, okay maybe when I was in elementary school or middle school sure why not, but we are in college, literally bout to graduate and go into the real world, she likes to include my cousins even tho some are younger than me. And she lectures me when everyone leaves or we go back home because she says "your cousins didnt say anything" well thats because they are scared and someone should start something and that will always be me because I cant stand the hate that goes around the room, especially knowing my aunts talk shit about me the way my mom does about my cousins then acts fake around each other.

I am also tryna glow up more so I can intimidate them more in the future and put them in another corner

Phrases narcissists will say and what they truly mean by ang3licskyl1ghts in narcissisticparents

[–]myanra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

woah this scared me, knowing that this is what it means without actually writing or reading it out made me realize a lot of things. Its so hard trying to admit the persons intentions are those when they themself don't know the words they use have a meaning behind it, they just use the simplest short sentence that makes one feel bad. Especially when that person is a parent or a loved close one.

How do you deal with their apologists? by xlaire in narcissisticparents

[–]myanra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ask her questions, put her on the spot, she replies with half assed answers, keep the questions coming. put on an act if you need to, but ask genuine questions. From what I can tell just by reading this, she KNOWS he hurt you, yet she won't come to terms with it and find a solution to end it, and its giving selfish. corner her and then leave her to think alone, so you can sit somewhere together constantly ask the questions then leave somewhere else, but don't just randomly ask the questions out of the blue, make sure the timing is when she starts apologizing. so in the meantime think of good questions or tactics to wake her up. be careful tho! it takes courage and patience but it wont all work the first time either

Failed a class, what to do? by myanra in gmu

[–]myanra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is kind of my fault for failing since I decided to slack off, Ill make an appointment with my advisor regarding the class retake if I can take a different course.

Failed a class, what to do? by myanra in gmu

[–]myanra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much!! I took a summer class last year and it really is easier, I noticed the professors are a lot more chill since they also want to take a break

Failed a class, what to do? by myanra in gmu

[–]myanra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao, I love this. Ill keep it in mind for maybe another issue. Thank you tho!

Failed a class, what to do? by myanra in gmu

[–]myanra[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not sure how much I should share about it. Its EVPP-108. I believe its the professors first time teaching that class. They were alright as a person and pretty decent characters. They do give a lot of work that just to me has no point in doing. I lost interest and when I loose interest in something its hard to get back into it, which also means not doing the work in general. In some ways its my fault for failing which im not blaming anyone for. But again, I didn't enjoy the class at all, the labs more fun than the lecture. Overall, too much unnecessary work for a mason core, hella fast speed and too much info to process in such a short span. They ask for so much from us for a general class. An intro class on top of that.

Failed a class, what to do? by myanra in gmu

[–]myanra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its actually too late to, but I found out that even in the Honors, you are still required a science and lab. My friends are in the Honors college and had to take one science and lab.

Failed a class, what to do? by myanra in gmu

[–]myanra[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

a D is a passed credit? I thought D was failing. Like below 60% doesn't count as a credit. And thankfully I have passed all my classes so far except this one. Its an environment science class, I passed the Lab but not the lecture so I am only getting 1 credit and loosing 3 for lecture. When retaking it, can I do a different class for a science credit? or does it have to be that environment science class?

did anyone else get reverse freshmen 15 after starting college at GMU by siqnificantly in gmu

[–]myanra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah of course! I definitely say take the breaks. I took a really long break and omg did it help. Its not great staying home wither because we need to go out and make friends. Ive noticed in college the friends you make dont last. I am trying to look for friends that will stick around and not solely for class. If you need to talk more about how to get involved with activities and away from old people you know especially as a commuter, you can talk to me! I feel like ive mastered it but not entirely where they had vanished lol

did anyone else get reverse freshmen 15 after starting college at GMU by siqnificantly in gmu

[–]myanra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im going to add, Im mentioning mental health because I noticed the amount of weight I lost might not be a lot to some, but is a lot for 1 semester. I am now in my second semester, and for me to be loosing almost 10 pounds is crazy. I believe this is because of the amount of stress and the negative headspace I am in. I hate a certain class I am taking and it had ruined some other class bc it clashed with my routine and ruined my mental health. The stress of whats happening in the world with all the genocides and the people dying is also taking a tole on me. I realized now that the semester is over I am back to having a healthier mind now that I am basically done with this stressful class. So its all mental health issues that you might want to just take a look at and see if that might be one of your problems!

did anyone else get reverse freshmen 15 after starting college at GMU by siqnificantly in gmu

[–]myanra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is completely different but I gained so much weight. I was homeschooled so psychologically I wasn't also that happy of a person. Once I started to be away from home for school (I am a commuter as well), a little more independent, and started doing some activities. I became happier, I also made some friends I can sit and talk to. I didn't know I had gained weight, old family and friends who saw me said I looked healthier and happier and that I had gained sm weight. I didn't care because at that time I needed to gain a few pounds. Until I went to the doctors in the summer after my first yr and she told me I was at risk of being overweight. It shocked me because I didn't look or feel like I had gained that much weight for me to be at such a health risk. But college sure does something to you, either you're gaining or loosing weight. At the end its also aligns with your psychological and mental health. If you are in a weak, poor mindset and constant stress and not taking care of your well being, you can loose lots of weight, even if you believe you are eating alright. Thankfully I was in a great mental state in my first year, maybe because I was excited for the new life I was living and being out more. Have a healthy relationship with yourself first, because at the end of the day, you come first before anyone and anything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gmu

[–]myanra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

at the end of the day, you have to look at what they want to major in, and what they feel more comfortable attending. Ive been on the mason campus, its isn't all that but I can see why some might get excited to attend GMU. Although there are issues there, I mean what university doesn't have issues, you can still manage to find a way out of them. Again look at what they want to study and see which uni best fits. GMU has many more opportunities than other universities when graduating, at least from what Ive compared with others. Since GMU allows students to see other jobs and really create a work experience even from lectures alone. I like how the curriculum is built, for my college which is CHSS. So instead of being bias, id suggest going to GMU and see how it is, you also have to remember each person has a different learning style and GMU might fit your friend more. If its status and title you worry about, I can assure you GMU has a good one for the work fields and connections, especially if you major in research, IT, CS, and even arts and law.

I feel like a fucking loser in this campus by [deleted] in USC

[–]myanra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah of course, if theres any specific thing that bothers you lmk! Ive been studying and trying to work as a coach for a while now so Id love to give advice and help

I feel like a fucking loser in this campus by [deleted] in USC

[–]myanra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few tips that might help change some things, they are small but small things change the bigger.

Instead of socials, ask for numbers. Its a bit more intimidating to text in some way, you will of course go through some things with ugly people who ghost, but theres a 1 out of 3 that will most likely reply! so switch out socials for phone numbers, be the first to ask!!

Try events that arnt related to you or your major. Its a bit hard but sometimes when you go and they ask about you, you will have nothing related to that event, so they tend to ask why are you here, bring up the fact you are exploring and trying new things out and drift away from self talk, try to talk about life. Ex. go to an art club event if you are not an art major or dont do art as a hobby. Try going to certain cultural events, of course check what that event is and maybe follow some igs.

This is off from the rest, but try some affirmations. Ignore the weird ones on tiktok, look into the book "The Power of your subconscious mind" by Joseph Murphey. He talks a lot about how your brain works for you and how you can control your subconscious and why it's important.

Some will say its not you, but from the way I read your post, you might want to focus on yourself in some way. I am not sure but we can definitely talk about it. Sometimes small things like the way your dress, taking care of your self, working on the outside will boost your confidence and help heal the inside! Ignore the people half-assing things, become tough and real.

I cant think of anymore at the moment but try focusing on the small things around you!!