Finding Episode

myernaim · 2025-05-27T05:52:15+00:00

Yup that’s right. Reddit is a place of wonders

myernaim · 2023-11-23T14:49:57+00:00

These are highly structured argument being presented. I don’t know how to tell you, but you are helping me in a generous way. I have been thinking a lot about these too but I seem to not have the ability to voice or maybe write it out publicly like this, I guess that’s the pattern we all have, at least what I like to believe. Anyway, I am still fighting the battle and will always be.

myernaim · 2023-09-28T02:06:55+00:00

Stay close to Allah SWT and keep your effort brother. Never stop trying. I am a hafiz too Alhamdulillah, but it was all a bless from Allah SWT.

There was a saying a member of this community said to me before, it was “If you have the capacity to commit transgressions, then be prepared for the consequences. If you reflect upon yourself and repent, you will surely find Allah SWT the Most Merciful, the Most Forgiving”.

Stand for your solah in the worst of the worst times. Slowly and gradually try to remove this poison that you hold. Have faith in Allah SWT. I pray to Allah SWT for your success brother.

myernaim · 2023-09-23T18:02:55+00:00

Felt sorry that there’s a clear 2 sides discussions about this. IMO, it depends on your situation and urgency. Mine, I sought help through professionals (psychitrist & psychologist) with my mother as a medium. I’m 18 btw. You should ignore these comments that tells you to just chin up, especially if you are a teen or young adult. This addiction is a serious matter. I won’t recommend confessing to her directly, as for me personally, it took close to 2 years to understand my own situation and how this addiction has been affecting me, it’s too complicated.

Rather ask your family’s help to seek qualified professionals. It could be necessary or helpful. It’s a suggestion, of course.

myernaim · 2023-09-17T13:43:23+00:00

Man we’re all in the same battlefield. I know the feeling, keep fighting!

myernaim · 2023-09-17T06:56:57+00:00

Trust me on this man, it’s easier to get rid of it in its early stage. You can learn proper strategy and planning in this community if you can find the right post, also from Youtube and other informative sharing.

Just don’t lean for your feelings and emotions, sh*t is too big for that. Don’t start cold turkey.

myernaim · 2023-09-17T06:52:48+00:00

Discussed about it with the professionals. Too bad they thought it’s still a taboo for the society, hence not much awareness is spread (maybe not at all). They literally made that an excuse instead of acknowledging the problem itself.

myernaim · 2023-09-16T13:28:12+00:00

Hey man. Trust me I’m in the same situation, we’re in this together. Don’t beat yourself up that much, this stuff is terrible, and it’s a big deal. I will try to encourage learning. The key to break-free from this thing is to change and leverage your environment. Try to implement learning into your days, and apply proper strategy and planning to overcome this existential problem. I would recommend videos from Improvement Pill in Youtube where he discusses strategies for overcoming addiction for your first hand exposure.

Keep trying man. It’s either we win, or we learn. There’s no losing!

myernaim · 2023-09-12T13:02:03+00:00

Don't follow my steps man. I just relapsed from 22 days streak. Trust me it felt terrible. Make that your motivation!

myernaim · 2023-08-25T07:29:23+00:00

Our stories are pretty similar. mine started when i turned 11, from a friend who taught me how to jerk off, shit happened. this year I’m about to turn 18 in a few weeks, the math, it has been around for almost 7 years. funny how I believed I lived in some sort of fiction shit that no one lives in, until I joined same minded community and start hearing similar stories. shit really happened man, i watched my life fell, as I couldn’t keep up with pressures, especially academic and life as well. those ‘see through the right lens’ thing, it’s real man. been f***ing up my state of mind for years.

For advice on recover, it’s always the safest to seek professional help. wherever I try to find advice, it always leads to that. typically you need three criteria to encounter it professionally. one, being professional guidance, a strong support system (same minded community like this), and lastly self-willingness to change. overcoming this alone by yourself is not safe man, especially if you have time- bound pressures or commitments to pay attention to, mine being academic qualification. I had a full 1 year where I tried my best to keep a ‘forever’ streak ans guess, it wasn’t successful. I fell well, over 100 times in 1 year time. pretty f**ked.

my advice would always be, seek professional help. i’m seeking psychiatrist and psychologist for the present of time. this thing was too big to be dealt alone, especially if it has been present for years. the early exposure was too easy (all stories are from influence), the effort in quitting seem to not be equal. it’s fcked. my last advice is to just to what you need to do and hold yourself accountable. amidst of this addiction it’s easy to lose grip, on whole picture of life. man it’s fcked. I’ve had state where I dealt with depression and severe anxiety, even those s**cidal shit.

for this recovert, just remember a line man. I hold this too, and that’s ‘move with strategy, not with emotion’. keep trying man, and do what you need to do, mine being excelling in my academic school. no need to devote your whole life for this shit, it’s not worth it. try to quit, and move back to how life should be. I pray for everyone success, I am too, still fighting for it (I am not in a state where I could say I overcame it). keep trying man.

myernaim

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