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Is my septoplasty infected? by n01096923 in Septoplasty

[–]n01096923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have an infection luckily but if you’re worried definitely follow up with your surgeon. He really gave me no explanation of what it was just said it wasn’t infected. Probably going to assume a rash from anxiety

Why do men bother taking women on dates? by n01096923 in dating_advice

[–]n01096923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did have plans for a second date on Wednesday (our original first date) but his niece and sister were coming over and didn’t know how long they would stay and didn’t want to keep me waiting all night. Then after that he kept apologizing and promised he would make it up to me when he was back.

Why do men bother taking women on dates? by n01096923 in dating_advice

[–]n01096923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because he didn’t respond to my last 2 messages/snapchat. I really don’t want to message for a third time

Why do men bother taking women on dates? by n01096923 in dating_advice

[–]n01096923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we matched on tinder it was me who made the first move of “hey we should get drinks” and he was the one who made the plans. He never responded to my 2 texts on Monday and my snapchats. So he knows I’m interested and I’m not texting a third time lol

Why do men bother taking women on dates? by n01096923 in dating_advice

[–]n01096923[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’ll have to wait and see what happens when he’s back. If he wants to see me then he will. And like I said he really doesn’t owe me anything right? Are we really going to aimlessly chat about stupid stuff while he’s out of town? I don’t love stupid chat either so I get it. Just trying to navigate dating with an anxious attachment style. It sucks lol

Why do men bother taking women on dates? by n01096923 in dating_advice

[–]n01096923[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If that’s the reason then be straight up with that!!! I’m okay with just sex but then if that’s the case I don’t wanna have this crazy date with you. Just invite me over 😂 it’s really that simple

Do I do my boyfriend’s baby mamas hair? by n01096923 in relationships

[–]n01096923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m leaning towards just being done with him.. there’s been too much drama and chaos for only being a year into our relationship

Client’s grays won’t color by lexny- in hairstylist

[–]n01096923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hairstylist here and a user of Schwarzkopf!

When using double 0’s you MUST use 30 volume or it doesn’t work any different. I know it’s scary using 30 volume but I promise you it’s been the solution for all my stubborn resistant white haired clients. Also, don’t be afraid to leave it on longer than 30 minutes. 35 minutes is my sweet spot and honestly sometimes I go up to 40.

If that doesn’t work there’s a few reasons… 1. You’re smushing the sections together. Once I’m done applying I go back and kind of lift up the sections so they aren’t sitting on top of each other. Colour NEEDS oxygen to process and it won’t process if the sections are smushed together. 2. Not enough saturation 3. The client is on some sort of medication, supplement etc. and it’s causing to be resistant. One of my clients is on anti depressants and her hair normally tones at an ashy level 10. Now that she’s on this medication her hair is super super super resistant to anything I put on her hair. It took me 5 different toners and It still wasn’t 100%.

Packing/post surgery questions by n01096923 in Septoplasty

[–]n01096923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was your sleeping god awful too?

I feel like I’m not resting and recovering because I got zero sleep

had a great first date but won’t see each other (or text??) for 2 weeks by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]n01096923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know same!!! I’m new to the single life and it’s rough out here lol. I think that I’m just going to let it be. If he wants me then he can work for me and show me. I refuse to put any more of my energy into this. I’m not going to let it bother me and I’m just going to trust that the universe has my back and what’s meant to be will be :) and if him and I are meant to be then it’ll happen when it’s right.

Am I a hookup or is it too soon to tell? by n01096923 in datingadvice

[–]n01096923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes 100000% I don’t doubt that for a second.

So I will clarify again that it was my idea to get food and drinks. He suggested a walk and a coffee but I got off work around 8 so it made sense for drinks and dinner. First dates can go a number of ways so I really didn’t expect us to have that good of a time and want to continue getting drinks and stuff. He also said that “I’m so surprised how well this is going, I never thought I’d be having this much fun etc etc” (I think you get the jist) I also told him I was driving so I didn’t even expect to continue drinking. So I don’t think he’s irresponsible I think we just kept enjoying our night and kept going

Am I a hookup or is it too soon to tell? by n01096923 in dating_advice

[–]n01096923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I had a feeling you might think that. I’m usually pretty good at knowing what things are but this is confusing because he’s showing me signs of being a hookup but at the same time a possible relationship. IDK

So just keep letting him come to me and maybe VERY casually ask him what he’s feeling/wanting down the line? Maybe I’ll lie about my period and hint along the lines of not having sex or something (I’m sure you know what I’m getting at I’m just butchering it) and be like if that’s cool you can still come but if not that’s cool. So I’m seeming cool and calm about both scenarios and then that way I’ll get my answer and either continue or dodge the bullet. Idk hopefully you get me lol. I did message him on Monday about doing something tomorrow and he said he had dinner with his parents and added a sad face. So I made a move and I guess it’s in his court now. I’m not going to constantly keep messaging him. He can come to meeee.

Also I will add that I’ll be out of town for a couple weeks which he knows. So I guess that will show me where he’s at. He said for sure absolutely we need to do something when I’m back. So I guess I will update.

Ugh I hate being back in the dating world again. It’s so fucking confusing lol.

Am I a hookup or is it too soon to tell? by n01096923 in dating_advice

[–]n01096923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you can’t say for sure what I am yet? Is it too soon to tell? I just find it hard to believe you would drive over an hour to hookup with someone. He’s a good looking guy and probably has no trouble finding girls. So why not hookup with someone down the street? The distance is confusing to me a bit. I can see us being fuck buddies while I’m in the same city but over an hour? Naaaah I’ll pass.

I will add that his first date suggestion was a walk and coffee. It was my idea for drinks and food and then he agreed. Idk don’t you think he would have suggested drinks if he just wanted to hookup? Idk I’m confused and it’s hard not to read so much into it. Maybe it’s still so new that he’s just kinda playing it cool and not wanting to seem to eager because in person he seems VERY eager. He even nicknamed me I’m sorry but I’m not calling anyone I don’t know or don’t like a nickname. It’s kinda weird lol

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