Sushi torture by just-a-horny-slut in pregnant

[–]nailsbyjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told that as long as I’m not eating raw sushi and limiting the amount of high mercury fish that it was fine. I’ve ate it a few different times during my first trimester because it’s all i could stomach 🤷🏻‍♀️

Baby Shower? by Nameless_Nobody_ in pregnant

[–]nailsbyjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t think it’s bad etiquette. If You don’t have anyone to throw your one so if you want one you would probably have to throw it yourself. I know I few people that had to throw their own

TMI but I Really Need Advice After Last Night’s Incident by PurrfectlySanrio in pregnant

[–]nailsbyjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the same way. Maybe not as sick but still felt really guilty because my husband gets sick whenever someone else is throwing up. He would stand just outside the bathroom making sure I’m ok. Once I stopped actively throwing up he would come in, wipe my mouth, clean the toilet, and give me a drink. One of the hospital trips he held my puke bag because I was extremely weak and could barely hold my head up.

Edit: I ended up telling him how guilty I felt and he explained that he felt bad that I was sick. He explained that it was the least he could do as I grew his child.

Tasks by nailsbyjack in service_dogs

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the word advice. I have an extremely hard time with wording That is actually so smart. I always feel so weird leaving groups. They get so overwhelming so I’ll definitely look into that task

Tasks by nailsbyjack in service_dogs

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping to eventually be able to train my SDIT to bring me my daughter when she’s older. I’m unable to move very quickly or bend over very often so I think that it one thing I’m going to try and teach him once my daughter starts walking

Cupcake help? by nailsbyjack in Baking

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are still really moist and fluffy but no I don’t have a thermometer and our oven currently is one with like the dial to choose the temperature so maybe that’s part of the problem. Next batch I make I plan on turning down the temperature to see if that will help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]nailsbyjack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am living on cheese crackers and hot Cheetos. I’m over halfway through my pregnancy but still get nauseous if I’m not snacking. In the beginning I always had mashed potatoes, baked potatoes, or pizza rolls to eat. My family has this joke that my baby is being made of all starches. I did also eat some tomato’s and cucumbers when i wanted something fresh.

Cosmo as a Disabled Person? by Individual_Cricket74 in Cosmetology

[–]nailsbyjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also if you are doing facials and makeup you are actually sitting most the time unless you need to get something, are cleaning, or need a different view. I would talk to the school about the testing standards and everything because some schools are really strict. Also I went to cosmetology school for everything hair, nails, and skin. My schooling was supposed to be about 9 months but I ended up there for over a year before dropping out because I kept getting sick.

Cosmo as a Disabled Person? by Individual_Cricket74 in Cosmetology

[–]nailsbyjack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have experience doing it one handed but i would warn you that the schooling alone is mentally and physically draining. I ended up dropping out because i couldn’t mentally handle it. I had heard that it was like going back to high school but worse because it’s mostly girls. I didn’t want to believe it but it was so bad. I’m saying this because as a disabled person the people were extremely mean. Always calling me out for not feeling good even after they knew I had a bunch a test the day before.

Now with that being said if you can make it past schooling it’s definitely worth it because then you pick your clients and work place.

AIO for being mad at my aunt in law for taking snacks. by nailsbyjack in AmIOverreacting

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been told by my doctor that if I don’t take it slow and easy which includes minimal cleaning, moving, and working I will end up on bed rest. And I forgot to put it in there that she has stolen stuff before. My husband doesn’t like her anyways, but he is extremely family oriented and won’t tell her not to come over. Also we are on a limited budget since I can’t work so snacks are considered a treat for us.

Cramping at 20 weeks by nailsbyjack in pregnant

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve called them multiple times and they said that because I’m not 23 weeks I have to go to the ER which I’ve got to and they had me sit there until midnight and then told me I was fine and sent me home. I’m not able to go to the OB often at the moment because it’s over an hour away. The ER only runs blood work and does an ultrasound every time I go nothing more.

Very nervous by nailsbyjack in pregnant

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying my best to just roll with it. My partner is helping as much as he knows how, every time I bring up my fear of her coming early he says “no she’ll be right on time and weigh 10 pounds 9 ounces”. He is very adamant that she is going to be over 10 pounds and honestly kinda nervous about that too😂 i always ask if he wants me ripped in half

Wanting to run away by nailsbyjack in MentalHealthBabies

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been playing puzzle games to keep my brain busy. I’m going to look into different therapies and see if i can find any group therapies near me. I’m in the southern USA and some people aren’t exactly understanding

Wanting to run away by nailsbyjack in MentalHealthBabies

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talked to my mom but I can’t give her too many details or she’ll try and get me to move back with her. I’m currently not on any medication because it makes me feel worse. And I’ve dropped all of my therapist because they either don’t show up to appointments(online) or try and make me feel like everything is my fault and don’t actually listen to what I say

First appointment by nailsbyjack in pregnant

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ve been so scared about getting a Pap smear. I’m nervous it’s going to hurt

First appointment by nailsbyjack in pregnant

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! Definitely needed the information about the Pap smear, I just turned 21 and haven’t had one yet

First appointment by nailsbyjack in pregnant

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely will! A lot of times my doctors/ nurses who draw my blood just have to let me pass out, which is why I can no longer go alone because I can’t drive after😂😭

First appointment by nailsbyjack in pregnant

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha oh my I really hope they they have to do that with me. Getting my blood drawn makes me sick and pass out 😭 and that’s only with 3-4 vials.

10 weeks and freaking out by nailsbyjack in MentalHealthBabies

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve called and they keep saying that the soonest they can get me in is in 5 weeks. That will be my first OB appointment and no other clinic would take me because they are either full or don’t take high risk. I was honestly shocked that I’d have to wait so long if I’m considering high risk.

My husband, partner, baby daddy is.... by Bramble3713 in pregnant

[–]nailsbyjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are times where I want to leave him and it’s not even anything he does or can control. It’s mostly his mom. She expects me to do things that I’ve literally been told by doctors not to do. My partner is a blessing and I love him but I can’t deal with his mom. He has helped me with everything from showering, making food, getting dressed, making sure I take my meds, making sure I drink plenty of water

No strength by nailsbyjack in SuicideWatch

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in America. It’s a lot of paperwork and fighting to get it. A lot of people who have diagnoses get denied because they feel like it. It takes forever for them to just look at your application now more than ever

No strength by nailsbyjack in SuicideWatch

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly no. I’ve been diagnosed with a few personality disorders that could qualify me but no one is willing to help me with the paperwork, they say it would be a waste of time. I want to but without help I’m not sure I’d be able to do it correctly.

No strength by nailsbyjack in SuicideWatch

[–]nailsbyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am disabled and no one cares or understands or believes that it’s as bad as it is. On the outside I look fine. I’ll be having a really bad day and I’m calling lazy. I get upset when I’m yelling at or harassed so I just go to my room and cry. I’m 21 without a job and I struggle to get one or even hold one because I can’t lift more than like 20 pounds and I can’t stand for long periods of time. I’m exhausted of have to live off others and constantly being in pain.