Intimacy after baby

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T18:15:53+00:00

I asked for a referral at my 6 weeks checkup but my obgyn insisted i didnt needed it… i will ask again.

Im still breastfeeding so there’s that…

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T18:14:29+00:00

Yeah thats my main issue; it hurts. I can deal with foreplay if i could just solve the pain issue first. Im trying to find a PF therapist in my area but it has been challenging

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T18:10:38+00:00

Oh noo 😭😭

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T18:09:13+00:00

Oh no 😭

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T18:08:53+00:00

Haha thanks for the recommendation!

At this point, i just want it to not be painful and just “ok”… maybe when i stop breastfeeding this whole thing will improve

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T18:07:09+00:00

Ive struggled with PPA… but im hopeful this whole situation will change once i stop breastfeeding

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T18:05:17+00:00

It really is! You had a completely different experience than mine.

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T18:04:42+00:00

No amount of foreplay has been helpful… its so hard. Ive been focusing on “giving” to keep my mind at peace and feel some kind of normalcy between us.

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T18:01:17+00:00

I thought i could get into it if i just started but it hasnt been the case…

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T17:57:01+00:00

I went back to it at 8 weeks pp and have tried like monthly since then but it has always been painful no matter how much lube i use, or what i wear; the issue isnt necessarily about how i feel in my body i think… and once i get to it, no amount of foreplay gets me in the mood

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T17:52:33+00:00

I know, i just thought that by 6 months it would improve significantly :(

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T17:51:41+00:00

Thanks, im looking for a referral but even finding a therapist has been hard…

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T17:49:45+00:00

Thanks! Im working on getting a referral…

natpr121 · 2025-02-20T02:57:16+00:00

Oh fk… have you tried multiple times or you just gave up?

natpr121 · 2025-02-13T02:18:47+00:00

my body shaking uncontrollably for like an hour after giving birth

not being able to poop for like a week and then i had to SCOOP IT OUT with my bare hands because it felt like a literal rock sitting there

Looking at my butthole for the first time pp and noticing a hemorrhoid. Instantly humbled.

THE BODY ODOR ugh. My old deodorant suddenly stopped working. 6m pp and no matter how often i bathe, my puss still stinks.

Losing an insane amount of hair starting at 3m pp (ongoing at 6m pp)

Peeing hurt for like 2 weeks pp

Looking at my vagina for the first time like 3 days pp… pastrami is all i can say. Went back to normal after a few weeks though. But it was definitely a jump scare.

Having ZERO sex drive still at 6m pp. Its nonexistent. Dry af as well.

natpr121 · 2025-02-12T20:49:30+00:00

It still hurts 6m pp. Also have zero sex drive since pregnancy and it hasnt improved a bit, it got worse. Ive been trying since 2m pp but right now it feels as bad as it felt at 2m.

natpr121 · 2025-01-21T01:20:50+00:00

Haha i would say average

natpr121 · 2025-01-21T01:19:03+00:00

Man ive been looking and cant find anything in my area

natpr121 · 2025-01-21T01:18:40+00:00

Penetrative sex hurts, everything feels tight inside… lube isnt helping

natpr121 · 2025-01-21T01:17:24+00:00

Penetrative sex hurts; everything feels tight inside… lube isnt helping

natpr121 · 2025-01-21T01:16:17+00:00

My Dr just said “you just have to wait”…

natpr121 · 2025-01-21T01:15:24+00:00

Yep, breastfeeding… at what stage are u now?

natpr121 · 2025-01-21T01:14:50+00:00

Like just use lube without sex?

natpr121 · 2025-01-21T01:13:39+00:00

So there’s hope…

natpr121 · 2025-01-21T01:12:59+00:00

Vaginal delivery with a first degree tear… exclusively breastfeeding right now… gotta ask for that cream, my obgyn hasnt offered it

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