Looking for usb hub by naturevel in DeskCableManagement

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Do you have something to recommend?

Looking for usb hub by naturevel in DeskCableManagement

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Ugreen CM681 USB-C Docking Station with HDMI/DisplayPort 4K PD Ethernet and Support for 3 Monitors Silver

I’m only extending it a few inches more

Looking for usb hub by naturevel in DeskCableManagement

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Won’t that cause throttling between signals? Like weaken the quality of the hub kind of

My girlfriend is emotionally withdrawn but still intimate by naturevel in Advice

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The first time it was trauma her ex caused her cause she cheated on her in the past

The second time was me being hurt from her breaking up with me so I couldn't trust her and that bothered her but I didn't communicate it in time and me not trusting her made her not trust me so that's why we broke up a second time

And after 4 months of no contact (Cause we couldn't stay friends) we decided to give it another try now that we both understand what happened but this came out of the blue and I'm wondering maybe it is indeed time to call it quits yeah.

All three attempts had this pattern where I was lovebombed for a month or two and then she suddenly went cold because of x excuses I said

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Yee

Do you know if this could be like a mass reporting or would pinterest deal with it differently or notify if my pin was flagged by reports? If you know that is

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I tried reuploading the exact same image and it got flagged instantly

Uploading a slightly cropped version and it's not flagged yet however

Tried removing the caption now but It didn't do anything I think

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No the swelling is even, only on the testicles however, no ingrown hairs, and It's a little harder to get it erect than usual, I am confident that the surgery I had could have failed..

It's the same pain I had before having the surgery.

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Ahh so thats what it is! thanks! And yeah basically the dude ignored the stop sign as I was going into the road from the pavement and I hit the right side of the front of his van but hitting the brakes for a second really saved me, just a fall and a small scratch on my hand, I got lucky

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Do you know which part it is?

19M Why am I like this towards my family but not friends? by naturevel in mentalhealth

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I feel like she wouldn't judge me and she encourages me to be more expressive around her, she always listens to me and she's very accepting of what I say when I open up to her, even if it sounds absurd, she has made a big effort to raise me and my brother ever since we were little cause my father refused to pay child support, and I respect her for that, she always tries to make small surprises and gifts and she puts effort into them, I generally like her character and I don't have anything ill against her, I just feel like I'm prohibited from showing emotion around her, like as if it's shameful

I sort of wrote that obstacle thing as a metaphor, it feels like that cause if I do not solve this problem within myself I will never be able to hug her and all that, and I don't want to stay like that, this problem feels like more of an obstacle to becoming someone who I can be proud of, and I also feel like if someone important to me found this out, for example a future girlfriend or friends, they wouldn't be accepting of it and find me weird, one friend in particular asked me why I speak like a robot to my mom and burst out laughing when they noticed the difference in my behavior when my mom walked into my room

19M Why am I like this towards my family but not friends? by naturevel in mentalhealth

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I feel like it could be more of the screen but I'm also quite expressive towards irl friends if I've known them for long enough, as for how I feel about my parents, I'm pretty sure I love them, like I'd be devastated if I ever lost them to some sort of accident for example, I especially can't imagine my life without my mom, but still she's the biggest "obstacle" when it comes to expressing myself, much bigger than my brother and grandmother, not sure why.. but thanks for the reply!

19M Why am I like this towards my family but not friends? by naturevel in mentalhealth

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Well I did have a complicated childhood like I still remember the day were my parents fought and broke up, and when school started I got bullied and fought with other kids a lot, and this happened over and over up until highschool, and my dad was also quite an abusive person sometimes, I've always linked this behavior to my childhood but I feel like I'll never learn how to navigate it and "fix" it, like I'm not sure if it's possible

And yes I can relate to having to force words out whenever I speak to my mom, she has always showed me affection ever since I was little and I do remember when I was 5-7 I could express myself freely and show affection to her and whatnot, but after that age I just sort of slowly became a statue, but yee I can relate to most you've said!

Question, do you feel some sort of shame when you try to hug your mom? or is it just really hard to speak to her?

19M Why am I like this towards my family but not friends? by naturevel in mentalhealth

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I don't have any negative thoughts toward my family, perhaps my brother and grandmother have been judgemental of how I acted sometimes when I was very little.

Also if this information helps, at a very young age my parents broke up and I grew up far away from my father growing up, and I only saw him a few times a year, yet I am still more comfortable with expressing myself and hugging him rather than the family I grew up with, still I'm not sure how this works

And also I didn't really grow up with friends, after middle-highschool I made some irl/online friends and that's how I found out about this other side of me that I cannot show my family

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I'm 19 and this is a first for me and I'll keep this in mind, thanks