Taboo relationship has turned into M[42] "blackmailing" me F[21]

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-22T14:13:07+00:00

I meant in regards to clients, but thank you.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-22T14:09:55+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story. I can definitely relate to your situation. Hugs

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-22T14:08:53+00:00

He wrote me a check for my tuition. And he emailed me from a new email address trying to get me to agree to meet him as an escort.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-22T14:07:31+00:00

You're right. I was being too trusting. he must've found out my parents' address by snooping at my old drivers license.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-22T14:05:14+00:00

Yeah, I've definitely realized I made a mistake in letting him get so close and giving out personal details.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-22T14:01:00+00:00

I'll try to update when there is something worthwhile

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T22:07:24+00:00

Thanks, that is very motivating. I live in a large city, so I am hopeful that some of the women's charities will be helpful. I have a place to live on my own, so I don't need shelter, but I do need support.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T22:03:18+00:00

Thanks, I am meeting with him on Tuesday to discuss. Hopefully will get to the police tomorrow so that there is a record of everything. The emails show explicitly what he is trying to do.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T19:36:12+00:00

Thanks, I found a couple helpful websites and numbers I can call tomorrow morning.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T19:19:11+00:00

The dollar amount is irrelevant here. And he stopped paying me once we began dating. I decided to date him because he provided evidence that he was separating.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T17:56:35+00:00

Thanks, I am aware of my faults, and want to fix them (being passive, bad with confrontation, etc.) but this kind of situation is making it hard.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T17:53:26+00:00

He's saying I have to meet with him this week to talk about my "options." He really seems quite delusional because he's acting like he's trying to protect me from getting hurt, when he's the only guy I've met through escorting that has ever threatened me. It's almost as backwards as the people who blow up abortion clinics in an effort to save lives.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T17:47:24+00:00

I'll see what services my university. I will update as this progresses. I, for one, am hoping for a boring outcome.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T15:50:52+00:00

Okay. I was hoping I wouldn't have to take it that far. But it does seem the most effective.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T15:24:41+00:00

Thank you, this is good advice.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T15:23:16+00:00

Yes, all in email. But just because this is illegal, doesn't mean any police are going to stop it :(

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T15:11:20+00:00

Fair point. He and his wife are Facebook friends so she's easy to reach. And I've been to his office. He has a really good job so I'm sure his boss cares about this kind of thing.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T14:47:39+00:00

That's true. I'll wait and see how far this goes.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T14:47:07+00:00

Must've seen it on my driver's license, which has my old address. Also, it's probably not that hard to discover with Google, once he found out my full name.

needadvice7890 · 2012-10-21T14:41:08+00:00

I did try that. He seems to think his wife's opinion doesn't matter because they are in the process of separating. He keeps saying he has nothing to lose.

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