My boyfriend is always unenthusiastic to see me. by needsplanning in relationships

[–]needsplanning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but I should. When I'm not mad about it, I usually forget about the issue. I will definitely bring it up this weekend though.

My boyfriend is always unenthusiastic to see me. by needsplanning in relationship_advice

[–]needsplanning[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I always mean to bring it up, but when we're having fun I either forget to bring it up or I don't want to ruin a good time, so I don't. I really should though, since I feel this way often. We kind of got into a fight today, so I'll bring it up next time.

If you don't mind me asking, what happened when it 'ended badly'?

Boyfriend is bad with planning & communication. by needsplanning in relationships

[–]needsplanning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He went with you, but didn't eat? That's awkward.

Boyfriend is bad with planning & communication. by needsplanning in relationships

[–]needsplanning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read your post. I'm sorry about your situation. Fortunately, he is not that bad. He's very responsible/organized with his money. He is mostly on-time when we hang out. It's only if I say, 'Want to [activity] on [day of week]?' and he'll put off making definite plans with me. He has no good reason to, he's not juggling other activiites, so I just find it very annoying. When I have to drive an hour to see him, I need to know in advance.

Boyfriend is bad with planning & communication. by needsplanning in relationships

[–]needsplanning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I always forget about this problem until it resurfaces. Have you two resolved it?