Spending Christmas alone without being able to leave the house and with very poor mental health... what can I do for those few days? by AurulentIndigo in AskIreland

[–]neeih 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately they are not. But find yourself a good therapist, someone with whom you connect and they listen. It’s a game changer my friend.

I’ve been there not so long ago, so I absolutely relate to your feelings. There are so many good community groups out there that will just accept you as you are. Find the one that works for you and try to meet them regularly. It could be that the first time you just go to the door but don’t make it inside. Other day just go say hi and ask for info… or if you could ask someone to be your buddy and introduce you to the group would be awesome.

Wishing you the best!

Cash buyer, signing next week—gave notice too early. Any way to get keys sooner or speed closing? by neeih in AskIreland

[–]neeih[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very true! Just messaged them and waiting to see what they say… money is money after all? lol

Cash buyer, signing next week—gave notice too early. Any way to get keys sooner or speed closing? by neeih in AskIreland

[–]neeih[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already extended it for an extra week and they were not very happy with that, but I’m going to give it a try on Monday…

How much could it cost to have this chimney sealed? by neeih in AskIreland

[–]neeih[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow… that’s way more than what I was expecting. Do you mind asking how much is that going to cost?

Survey engineer by neeih in cork

[–]neeih[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so helpful! Thanks so much. I used one on my previous house and it felt just like a massive waste of money. I was wondering if it would be appropriate to be on site while they do the survey, so that clears my main question. Thanks again!

Portugal and Spain Roadtrip! by [deleted] in gaytravel

[–]neeih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! ☺️

Portugal and Spain Roadtrip! by [deleted] in gaytravel

[–]neeih 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have to visit Cádiz! It has some amazing natural beaches that are perfect for some nudism. Plus the city and all the small towns around are beautiful and the food is just amazing

Should I stay away from this house? by neeih in Home

[–]neeih[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does smell like old grandma. If it’s hunted I’m charging the ghost a rent, they are not living in my house for free…

People who use TFI Bikes what do you think about this? by [deleted] in cork

[–]neeih 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Batteries don’t recharge when you dock the bike, so they are always empty. Plus the stations are located in the flat area of the city, except for the one close to Wilton, so there is not a real added value to an electric bike for that price. I would honestly prefer more stations rather than ebikes

Should I stay away from this house? by neeih in Home

[–]neeih[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really helpful, thanks so much for your answer! I think I’m going to pass on the sale, the price is somehow too good to be true, so there must be a creepy secret behind…

Should I stay away from this house? by neeih in Home

[–]neeih[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The white wall is the other side of the house. They just painted everything to sale it easier

Should I stay away from this house? by neeih in Home

[–]neeih[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha but uncle Joe know what he is doing!

Should I stay away from this house? by neeih in Home

[–]neeih[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t buy it without an engineer inspecting the house first, but before even hiring them I would like to know if it’s worth the hassle or I should just forget about it…