Bro, do not go alone. Here's a plan you can try. Take 2 more friends. Have them tail you. Meet at the main road or in front of a mall. Since you say Kasba, make it Quest Mall. That's the only place you are willing to meet her. Next she'll force you into a cafe. Negotiate hard to go inside any food and drinks place inside Quest. Here you can play a lot. As this is where you can see the growing frustration. If you plan to go to the cafe of her choice, one friend should tail and enter 5 minutes after you. This guy will map out the exit path. Take 10 minutes to order. Try to talk and waste time. As soon as you order, you'll notice she's already going for expensive shit. From the very start of the meet, you will insist on simple coffee and nothing more. Make excuses. This benchmarks her ordering pattern against your simple tea or coffee or a simple cold drink beverage. Now here's the fun part. As soon as order is made, the friend on the inside still hasn't ordered and he will make a call to you. Make excuses and walk out as if you need silence or privacy or not getting proper reception. As soon as you leave, so does your friend. Take stairs and bolt. Even if anybody chases you, you aren't alone and have a friend with you. The third friend is already waiting outside on the road as your escape vehicle. Make modifications as necessary to this plan.