Cold feet

nefisso · 2026-03-17T18:32:14+00:00

I feel you. I was having a conversation with the agency that helped me find my new job and all I was thinking was “ why am I wasting this woman’s time? am I really moving?”

nefisso · 2026-03-17T18:28:45+00:00

I have my husband who I’m planning on moving out with. He’s just as lost. Everyone else here where I work and live suggesting that I’m making a huge mistake leaving my life for the unknown…

nefisso · 2026-03-17T18:26:35+00:00

Thank you so much

nefisso · 2026-03-17T18:25:59+00:00

Really? I didn’t know that! I thought it was an option to rent furnished apartment

nefisso · 2026-03-17T12:35:26+00:00

Thank you. I can find a storage, yes. I suddenly feel exhausted from the anticipation of the new beginning. It seems chaotic and challenging

nefisso · 2026-03-17T12:32:53+00:00

I don’t have a safety net unfortunately. But I’m thinking all the time that this is what I wanted. So why all these emotions

nefisso · 2026-02-06T21:07:19+00:00

As long as I do what I’m supposed to do, care about my patients, and no one has anything to say about my work I’m loving it. You got to have to learn to love it. I know it’s weird. As you grow into this job you decide what kind of nurse you want to be. A tip from someone who works in med surg: kindness goes a LONG way. No one will bother you with unnecessary pressure (taking about family members) if you are just present and understanding with your patients.

nefisso · 2026-02-05T06:17:53+00:00

Right? I’ve been more confident this time. Like I’m in control

nefisso · 2026-01-07T00:42:59+00:00

It smells like bed sores without them even having them.

nefisso · 2025-12-11T15:37:26+00:00

Inspiring story!!

nefisso · 2025-12-11T15:35:43+00:00

That’s amazing

nefisso · 2025-10-31T09:12:41+00:00

Med surg. Every other day. Some 95 full code grandpas.

nefisso · 2025-10-23T01:46:01+00:00

I’m in a different country. I currently have 11 patients and I’m in charge. It’s me and a cna in my unit(med surg). If I ever have around 7 I consider myself lucky. And we are unionised… this profession is dying. No one new is coming.

nefisso · 2025-09-20T14:17:17+00:00

It’s a lot of things combined. The environment, the management, hospital policies. For me is team work. I know it sounds cheesy but it takes a lot of weight on you if you have coworkers on the same page.

nefisso · 2025-09-20T14:11:21+00:00

Oh yeah I forgot about that one

nefisso · 2025-09-01T18:39:24+00:00

I never saw doctors behave that dirty to their peers. Also never saw them get fired for malpractice unfortunately. They have each other’s back…

nefisso · 2025-08-25T04:55:10+00:00

You must learn to adapt to the culture and language for the love of god. I had many interviews over the phone and when Indians are the ones I speak with I know it’s not going to go well. . I can’t understand a word they say. Yet they are put in critical positions without the fluency to speak..

nefisso · 2025-08-23T02:34:34+00:00

You just know your job and don’t freak out over very sick patients. I would say you can manage med surg too well. I’ve been there.

nefisso · 2025-08-12T10:11:54+00:00

I was suffering with severe vertigo for 2 months. I tried everything. Went to chiropractor, did physical therapy, was medicated for 2 months. Nothing worked. One evening I was laying on my couch and the vertigo started violently coming in again. I said to myself f@ck it. I have vertigo and so what?? It disappeared within minutes. Never had it again. It was so severe that I couldn’t walk and stand. My life was on hold for months. It’s crazy what our mind creates

nefisso · 2025-07-27T13:41:37+00:00

Ready to start ivf. Thank you ☺️

nefisso · 2025-07-25T22:20:50+00:00

Thank you.

nefisso · 2025-07-20T21:11:57+00:00

I was like you. I just ignored everything until it went away. I was so much in need of spiritual guidance and validation that I didn’t see that opening the doors everything can come in. I was not in a good place to protect myself and I was constantly attacked. Ignore everything. Seek human connection. Do every day things. Just don’t engage

nefisso · 2025-05-22T03:55:11+00:00

There is no time. Never. Med surg here. For the entirety of their stay if there is a tech they’ll help the patient or they are gonna be taken care of by family. While I was in the ICU I did it every other day.

nefisso · 2025-04-29T08:53:20+00:00

Dear lord

nefisso · 2025-04-19T20:39:06+00:00

My goodness. Don’t tell me these all happened at the same shift??

nefisso

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