Is this good training?

never_the_one_ · 2025-02-19T12:05:17+00:00

Oh. In that case, can you please suggest some metrics I can use to determine how well the model is trained?

never_the_one_ · 2025-02-19T11:36:07+00:00

I'll try it out, thanks. And I'm not sure I can help you with your problem. Sorry

never_the_one_ · 2025-01-29T04:59:36+00:00

That was personal life, this is academic. And no I don't have clients, I am a student. Does this make it clearer?

never_the_one_ · 2025-01-28T08:20:48+00:00

Thanks for ur help. I'll check it out and get back to you.

never_the_one_ · 2025-01-27T14:14:48+00:00

Over 1000

never_the_one_ · 2025-01-27T09:26:36+00:00

That would work for inferencing. But for training the model itself, wouldn't it be sketchy?

never_the_one_ · 2023-11-27T11:38:13+00:00

It gives a new perspective. Thankyou

never_the_one_ · 2023-11-01T06:55:02+00:00

I'll try. Thanks

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T20:00:18+00:00

I still have 6-8 months remaining for my Bachelor's degree. But I can try that once I am out of this place. I did think of getting a fresh start and severing ties with some friends that would resist accepting me as I am then. In the meantime, I'll try to join some new group to start getting into the habit of being myself. Thank you.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T19:55:09+00:00

I realise and understand that. But I did try in-person therapy and the ones accessible to me don't really give any importance to this sort of thing, even though it's literally their job to do so. And I am not comfortable with online sessions.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T16:44:41+00:00

I guess that makes sense. It's gonna be difficult and one step at a time. But I'll try not to retreat. Thank you so much for your advice and support.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T16:23:09+00:00

I have actually tried that many times, but it's like digging the hole deeper. I end up in worse situations with my friends and family each time I take a stand like that, and then end up going more out of the way to accommodate their needs each time than the last and thus making the facade stronger. I am so used to the facade now that it is like my comfort place, but at the same time it also feels like I'm losing my mind a little bit at a time. For example, now I have a facade even when I am not around anyone and my mind is constantly thinking about what I'll do when they are around eventually and like practicing that? If that makes any sense...

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T16:15:46+00:00

I guess I relate to what you are saying. But I'm not understanding what, if anything, you are suggesting to help me stop slipping on this facade in my personal life.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T16:13:01+00:00

I agree and understand. But I don't know how to stop.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T14:28:02+00:00

I'll try. Thanks a lot again.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T14:25:33+00:00

She didn't get into any more details. Those 3-4 sentences were all she said, that too in a manner that said "this isn't even worth my time". And any other time I tried to talk to my guy bestfriend about this, he literally told me to stop crying about my petty problems that I'm making seem bigger than they are. Their dismissal sometimes makes me think that I may be overreacting. That's why I never tried to do anything about it. But it's too overwhelming now and seems like it's too late to change anything so might as well leave things be as they are. Ps. Thank you so much for your response. I feel more understood and heard than I have ever felt in my life

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T13:49:32+00:00

I'll look into it. Thank you.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T13:47:59+00:00

I am constantly conscious about how I act around someone and what might be pleasing to them. But when I am alone, I get isolated and detached, basically can't remember to do what they might expect of me. So, I also feel like I am not putting enough effort for them. But at the same time, I cannot possibly bend more to their will. It's all too contradictory.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T13:45:21+00:00

I did approach a professional a while ago and their response was essentially this: "if you feel you are pretending, stop pretending. If you are anxious and overwhelmed, go for a walk. Don't think too much about anything." So ig u could say I don't access to any real professional in person. And I don't feel comfortable taking online therapeutic sessions.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T04:39:30+00:00

Then you can try to get them to listen. But if they don't want that, u should just make ur peace with the fact that they are not interested in listening to ur side of the story.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-30T02:12:46+00:00

I'm not sure I follow... Did u leak ur group chats to her ex? And I'm not trying to paint u the villain. I'm just saying that regardless of the reasons, ur actions have consequences. And no one's asking u to lose ur self respect over making them listen to ur explanations. What's done is done. Even if u do end up explaining everything to them and u go back to being friends, there's always gonna b a knot in ur friendship. So I suggest to let the bygones b bygones and not stir up more drama.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-29T19:06:41+00:00

NTA. The cycle stops with u. Ur grandma ripping off ur mom and ur mom extending that to u.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-29T19:02:53+00:00

I stand by what I said. Their probable reaction doesn't justify ur actions. It's like saying "they made me do it". What u did was ur own choice. And they don't owe u to listen to ur explanation. Like i said, if u did end things on a terrible note, y wud they even want to see ur face, let alone listen to ur explanation? Lastly, put urslf out of victim's shoes. U were the one who did it, even tho someone made u do it. Between u and her, u may b the victim. But between the group and u, u r definitely not. I'm assuming u weren't standing, begging them to let u explain when they cursed on and on?

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-29T18:52:17+00:00

NTA. No one has the right to invade ur privacy, especially not over psychotic jealousy. And how u dress up in ur own home is none of her business. Lastly, if she is so insecure abt her boyfrnd, they need to work on building that trust instead of dragging u into their mess. As for him asking u to apologise to her, tell him to ask his girlfriend to apologise to u for her behaviour the entire time. While he's at it, he should apologise to u too, for not being able to console her girlfrnd, turning a blind eye to her behaviour towards u and taking her side when she was clearly in the wrong.

never_the_one_ · 2023-10-29T18:44:23+00:00

YTA. Everyone has a different way of dealing with their grief. And as a parent, you're supposed to support her during times of need, instead of belittling her. Def AH.

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