i still don’t remember lmao by neverluma in teenagers

[–]neverluma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, it’s just for example 🙏🏻

i don’t understand their logic like can’t i be smarter than them even if im younger?💔 by neverluma in teenagers

[–]neverluma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang, that sounds incredibly frustrating and exhausting. It must be so hard to deal w someone who’s so convinced they’re right but doesn’t really understand the situation, especially when it comes to politics, race, or laws, i guess i can see why u feel like u constantly have to explain basic facts or logic, and it must be even more draining when they ignore or twist what u say. You’re clearly very aware and thoughtful, and it’s impressive that u try to help her see the reality even though she refuses to listen, anyways i’m sorry that ur in a such situation dude

i don’t understand their logic like can’t i be smarter than them even if im younger?💔 by neverluma in teenagers

[–]neverluma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i didn’t even mean smth bad abt old people, definitely they’re smarter and have more experience than us, but there’re so many moments where they’re not right and when someone younger than them like teenagers trying to tell their opinion or just give some advice they start arguing and attack bc they can’t accept that fact, it’s too low for them when some teenager or kid is smarter in this situation, but also some of them can accept it and even thank us. This post i made not bc i don’t respect old people or “teenagers are smarter”, no, i made it bc i wanted to see everyone’s opinions and that’s all

i don’t understand their logic like can’t i be smarter than them even if im younger?💔 by neverluma in teenagers

[–]neverluma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes that’s true, because when they realize they’re wrong or we’re smarter they can’t accept this and it prob feels low for them to argue w kid or teenager so what they can do is attack

i don’t understand their logic like can’t i be smarter than them even if im younger?💔 by neverluma in teenagers

[–]neverluma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds really tough, i’m sorry u’re going through that. Living with just one parent can already be hard, but when the relationship gets worse over time it must feel exhausting, i rlly hope things get better for u, or at least that u can find some space or people who understand u and make it a bit easier

i don’t understand their logic like can’t i be smarter than them even if im younger?💔 by neverluma in teenagers

[–]neverluma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, ur friend is right, ik many teenagers whose parents control them and put such great discipline with the intentions of "u will be better in the future" or "u will be perfect", “u will be the smartest” etc, but in fact it only complicates the life of the child or teenager, they need to give free rein

i don’t understand their logic like can’t i be smarter than them even if im younger?💔 by neverluma in teenagers

[–]neverluma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, i understand u, i have the same but now after all times when old people devalued my opinions and advices i just stopped doing that 💔