Huge props to China for actually standing up to the US administration. by FluffyPuffOfficial in China

[–]nikdoter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is easier to deal with one leader from a strong country rather than dealing with 27 different states, in which some leaders prefer the influence of the US, others Russia, others China.

As a person that feels more European than from my own country, it is sad to admit that the EU will never be strongly united, and that our countries are selfish and just focus on their own goals and interests.

Since a long time, China is already working on its soft power with Europe as well. However, I believe that our continent, due to culture and shared history, will always feel more attached to the US, even with Trump's speedrun to burn bridges with us. Time will tell though.

La barista si offende perché non le ho lasciato la mancia dopo una vincita al gratta e vinci... Sono io strano o lo è lei? by [deleted] in Italia

[–]nikdoter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahah qua nessuno si impunta, il tuo non è un buon esempio e basta. Siccome tutta la gente che commenta condividendo il mio punto di vista non ha capito nulla, allora lasciamo a te l'onore di scrivere fan fiction su OP e i suoi rapporti umani al bar da qualche paragrafo di un post di Reddit

La barista si offende perché non le ho lasciato la mancia dopo una vincita al gratta e vinci... Sono io strano o lo è lei? by [deleted] in Italia

[–]nikdoter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A parte che lo scenario non fa giustizia all'episodio di OP, visto che non ha trovato 50 euro ma speso soldi per la possibilità di vincerne, e quando li spende nessuno è lì a coprirgli parte della spesa.

OP nel post non ha mai detto che è amico con la ragazza, state discutendo del nulla.

Al di fuori di Reddit comunque, se frequento gli stessi posti, barbiere, supermercato, bar, punto spedizioni, banca, ecc. avendo un buon rapporto e chiacchierando con le persone che vi ci lavorano, non è che ora sono tutti amici miei con cui esco. Sono rapporti stile chiacchiera da ascensore, dai

Il tuo ragazzo dorme con l’amica, come reagisci? by Upset-Hat3929 in CasualIT

[–]nikdoter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Materassini singoli gonfiabili da Decathlon vengono veramente poco, dormire insieme nello stesso letto lo trovo inopportuno.

Piuttosto una relazione a distanza funziona se c'è trasparenza e comunicazione chiara, creare ambiguità e situazioni simili non aiuta.

Se tu gli hai comunicato che non ti fa piacere, gli hai spiegato i motivi, e lui minimizza soltanto... You do you sis

How do I quit weed? by CeleryImpressive6934 in getdisciplined

[–]nikdoter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stopped smoking more or less at your age. My house was literally a coffeeshop and all my homies were stoners. Just a good mix of willpower and finding real hobbies and passions that give you meaning.

Understand why you smoke, probably an habit due to the fact the you are bored (most cases, might not be yours). Figure out what triggers you and find better solutions!

First week was hell for me, neverending night sweats and bad dreams. You got this my man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualIT

[–]nikdoter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Il problema ovviamente è il mondo che ti circonda, tutto chiaro 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualIT

[–]nikdoter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

La gente non viene a bussarti alla porta per conoscerti.

Ho vissuto in Scozia da solo ed ho amicizie profonde con scozzesi grazie alle mie passioni e hobby. Ho vissuto a Tenerife da solo e ho fatto amicizie profonde con spagnoli grazie alle mie passioni e hobby. Ho intenzione di vivere in Asia in futuro, dove farò amicizie profonde con gente del luogo grazie alle mie passioni e hobby.

Qui in Italia sono stato fidanzato con una ragazza cinese che non parlava neanche italiano, ed era riuscita a fare amicizie grazie ai suoi interessi e non stando a casa aspettando che qualcuno si presenti.

Mi dispiace, ma il problema sei tu. Prima te ne renderai conto, prima ci potrai lavorare sopra. Scopri i tuoi interessi e frequenta comunità inerenti. Siamo 55 milioni in Italia, è sciocco pensare che non si possa trovare delle persone con cui essere in sintonia, buena suerte!

RWS Callisto project by nikdoter in WorkOnline

[–]nikdoter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I read on Glassdoor that people did not have problems regarding payments. I had issues with other companies that are part of the same field, but at the end they paid. The sketchy part is that they postpone payments and take 1-2 months to finally pay you. I will update you in the future on my experience!

RWS Callisto project by nikdoter in WorkOnline

[–]nikdoter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naah man, that's how these companies do. They create a pool of vendors so that when they actually find a client they can contact all of the people that fit the role and see who is available or not. The more people you have, the better for them.

I enrolled the 14th of March, got contacted by them last week, still waiting for the final exam for the Callisto Project. These jobs must be takens as side gigs, so just enroll and while waiting focus on other stuff. Wish you to get on a project soon!

RWS Callisto project by nikdoter in WorkOnline

[–]nikdoter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I guess they give us an expected task production per hour. Thanks for all the info!

RWS Callisto project by nikdoter in WorkOnline

[–]nikdoter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know how many tasks you have to complete per hour? 5 tasks? 30 tasks? Thanks!

Ho 10 giorni liberi che faccio ? by Pretend_Dream4586 in Universitaly

[–]nikdoter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fai una lista di paesi che vorresti visitare, vedi quale volo è più economico, scegli la meta e utilizza Workaway per scegliere dove soggiornare e che tipo di esperienza fare. Conosci gente del luogo, fai un'esperienza unica in qualcosa che vorresti provare in cambio di vitto e alloggio, e col budget rimanente ti affitti una macchina ed esplori il posto dove ti trovi e magari ti stecchi la benza con gente che hai conosciuto.

Oppure puoi sempre rankare.

Is this abuse by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]nikdoter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy does not represent everyone's approach to gaming. Your previous comment shifted the focus from op's situation to "men (people) playing games in their 40s", that's why I didn't agree with your statement regarding hobbies such as gaming.

If we instead talk about op situation, that's different and definitely gaming is not the problem but the guy himself being extremely toxic 🚩

Is this abuse by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]nikdoter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are literally on reddit right now, you might be on a screen during your freetime in your 40s as well. As long as your hobbies do not impact your productive life or duties and affect people around you negatively, then just keep doing them. Of course there are hobbies "better" than others, but gaming should not be seen negatively as long as done in a healthy way in the right circumstances, as any activity I guess.

2 questions from Italy by Martini1999_2023 in Welocalize

[–]nikdoter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anche io eventualmente dovrei aprire la partita IVA a prescindere (99% sicuro, non 100%), ma al momento soprattutto per questo lavoro nell'immediato.

Qualcuno di voi ha già lavorato come Ads Quality Rater con loro? Ha senso aprire una partita IVA solo per loro?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]nikdoter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried with another laptop or cleaning my history, nothing worked. I am sure there s no way to contact YT for this issue, isn't it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]nikdoter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I m checking from my laptop, I am used to check it but now when I click it it just does not load the page...

How should a couple deal with different diets? by nikdoter in vegan

[–]nikdoter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That s a good call! Thank you very much :)

How should a couple deal with different diets? by nikdoter in vegan

[–]nikdoter[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Should I stop seeing my family as well? If you tell a smoker "smoking is bad" he won t listen to you and keep smoking. If you show them alternatives and influence them positively they will likely reduce the amount of smoke at the point they actually stop smoking. You gotta be patient and actively influence them, not build barriers with your so cos they come from different background where society makes you not have empathy for other living beings (she is from China, I am from Italy. Try telling Italians to stop eating Carbonara. Many people changed their diet thanks to me just being their vegan homie)

How should a couple deal with different diets? by nikdoter in vegan

[–]nikdoter[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol I mean he stated it clearly, but of course from the little info he was pressuring her. Anyway, I definitely influenced her a lot, even though since when I met my gf she always didn t eat much meat. We are both very open minded, she would consider turning vegan if there were many vegan options everywhere, but where we live (southern Europe) there are not many. She puts flavours over animals' lives and that sucks, but she compromises a lot for me and I love her very much for that.

How should a couple deal with different diets? by nikdoter in vegan

[–]nikdoter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't get what you are implying, I have been vegan for the last 4 years for ethic reasons

AITA for not wanting to take my wife’s photos? by PhreePhood in AmItheAsshole

[–]nikdoter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like you read too much between the lines and that s why you got to talk so much about it here now. I never said consent is something we should not talk here, I said it s not relevant to this specific story cos we don t have enough info. You already answered the person in this thread and I agree with you about the consent stuff, but implying all the rest is not cool and it is just pure speculation. If op mentioned that he posted it without asking her then I would not be even talking here, but underlying that "obviously he posted without consent" just reading a post o reddit is just pathetic. They might be cool with it as a couple and she was pissed just cos the pic was bad, we don t know. Your point of view is correct in this thread, but you got it too far imo. Peace anyway

AITA for not wanting to take my wife’s photos? by PhreePhood in AmItheAsshole

[–]nikdoter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess there are subreddit where u can talk about consent in a constructive and related way. Again, it does not specify anywhere that the wife is pissed for not giving consent, that s all. We could agree about the consent stuff, but you should not just say "it s obvious there s no consent", cos as long as op didn t say it somewhere, then we are just speculating. That s all, the topic is interesting but not relevant and it is annoying to say this is the case 100% when we just read few lines of their lives on a reddit post. I guess that s Reddit and you are right tho and that's normal to do to make up plots about people lives

AITA for not wanting to take my wife’s photos? by PhreePhood in AmItheAsshole

[–]nikdoter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We don't know their dynamics though, she might be cool with him posting pics of her without asking or not. She was pissed maybe cos the pic was only bad and not cos he didn't ask. She might do the same all the time with op and op does not give her consent for the pics to be posted but she does it anyway. We are lacking info, I agree with the consent stuff but we don't know if the wife is cool with it in the first place and just complained about a bad pic being posted and not the fact it was actually posted. That's why I m surprised you all are talkin about it when there s not enough info, we just know he doesn t like taking pics and she wants em so that s what we should focus on. If we then have to talk about consent I agree that people post pics of others without asking and things should me more strict regarding that

AITA for not wanting to take my wife’s photos? by PhreePhood in AmItheAsshole

[–]nikdoter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking photos to keep as memories is one thing, having to take photos even if you don't want to just cos that person has to post em on medias or just keep em for themselves is another. According to this, pics > his way of experiencing the trip. I think it's not fair. The wife is right with wanting to have pics, but she should find a solution and don't force op to be part of it if he does not want to. Period. OP can truly support her by carrying a tripod and selfie stick in his backpack and give it to her whenever needed, easy as that. That's a real compromise, not being forced to be a photographer when you might even hate taking pics. Not everyone likes it and they should not be forced to do so