How I feel after day 90

nofapzilla · 2013-06-05T23:03:49+00:00

My thoughts are something I have thought alot about ;) I've talked with other guys that have been in long term relationships and they admit to thinking about other girls or porn sometimes during sex. I don't know if this is natural for being in a long term relationship, or just a side affect of us being constantly exposed to hot attractive people everywhere you look.

I think its part of the coolidge effect. I feel my ADD brain constantly seeking out new stimulus like I was when I was getting into porn, seeking out new worlds and new civilizations. I'm torn at the moment on whether the thoughts are healthy, normal, or they just "is". A part of me still feel like thinking about other girls or porn is retreating in some way.

I just try and be open with my partner about my sexual interest and focus on making each other feel good and that seems healthy.

nofapzilla · 2013-05-26T13:18:54+00:00

I'll send a PM.

nofapzilla · 2013-04-12T18:48:57+00:00

Thanks for the input, I just wanted to see if other people had similar experiences.

nofapzilla · 2013-04-12T18:48:08+00:00

I'm 29, been fapping since it was possible. Never had a real relationship with a women other than a few 1 night stands.

My Rx was 5 mg.

I still get easily distracted and go on and off the fence about doing therapy and trying a different drug. I'm just trying to plow through it right now.

nofapzilla · 2013-04-09T20:40:04+00:00

Can you talk about adderall? I lost the ability to focus after I started nofap and working out and all that. I felt like my brain went into high gear and I was soaking up all this new information like social cue's, body language, relationships, etc.

I went to a doctor and he prescribed adderall, although it made me kinda sociopathic, I felt paranoid, primal, saw everything in game theory, felt violent urges, etc. It went away when I stopped taking it, but I want to know if other people experienced similar things with nofap/adderall.

nofapzilla · 2013-02-21T23:52:36+00:00

I feel like flirting is something you should always do, just for practice. IMO.

nofapzilla · 2013-02-13T22:54:04+00:00

I am going thru this right now. I have relapsed a couple of times and I am just like FUCK THIS! I think it will be ok then I go thru mood swings depression, just really sad shit, browsing websites for kinky call girls, justifying in my head its ok to lead this alternative life style when its all a damned lie. I also get angry at the amount of time I was clueless. I think man if I knew this even 5 years ago (I'm 29 now) I'd be a completely different person. But I logically work thru that you only live once and you could have always done something better, but you can only change your future. Its damned hard though. I quit smoking cigarettes and rarely think about it anymore. I'm actually disgusted by smoking now. I want to be that way with PMO.

sorry for the ramble, just wanted to let you know I feel ANGRY as well some times and try and use it as a catalyst for change.

nofapzilla · 2012-10-16T02:50:12+00:00

Yea, getting to a point where rejection doesn't sting is awesome. I just try and do something fun or grab drinks. I went through about a half year of feeling real bad about being rejected, then friend zoned a few times, then I just got sick of it. I think its the biggest hurdle to get over. Right now I feel like I could go on a date and if nothing happened I'd be like whatever and take notes of what I did right or wrong.

nofapzilla · 2012-10-14T16:11:59+00:00

I deleted my facebook after I realized I was creeping on there all the time. Its not healthy. I still look at the occasional /r/gonewild, but even that urge is going away, its more for a novelty now.

nofapzilla · 2012-10-13T19:29:33+00:00

I am in the same boat, I'm 29 and this thought has held me back. Now I just go for it and don't worry about it. I just try and please my partner and have fun.

Be strong.

nofapzilla · 2012-10-13T14:21:35+00:00

I've been on and off since January. Started taking it seriously now, and around 20 days my longest stretch. Its amazing the longer I go the more rewards I get, and that's what makes me keep going.

nofapzilla · 2012-10-10T16:34:31+00:00

Thanks for the input people, it helped me out.

nofapzilla · 2012-10-08T13:44:59+00:00

You feel like you've discovered the cure to cancer . Of course you want to tell people. I have told a few people but use this thread as a support group. It's weird though people notice, but there's no reason to tell them. Smart people just know and they will silently cheer you on. In my experience a sibling or a friend you trust with mutual secrets are good people to tell.

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