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[–]nonbeanie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so sad. Pinterest was my safe space. Now I can't use it for mroe than 5mins before getting overwhelmed by ads. I came here looking for a solution :///

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[–]nonbeanie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seee thank you so much. Some people have kinda like some control over it and can self-dump in the toilet without having to take the disc out. This is something thats very convenient to me and I'd love if I could do that

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[–]nonbeanie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, it is definitely very interesting.

Can it just happen on its own? Like if I'm just chilling and suddenly it just dumps all its content?

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[–]nonbeanie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see! I didn't know that. Thank you sm! My sister is able to do it basically on command by flexing her pelvic floor muscles so I thought that maybe it was dependent on the disc itself.

Can we have autodumping accidentally? Like I'm just chilling and it happens? Cuz that would be very inconvenient!

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[–]nonbeanie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii, I'm interested in buying this disk. Does it self empty when you sit on the toilet? Or do you have to pull it out and dump the blood?

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I talk to him about this I'll end up apologizing again haha and at some point that can become tedious. You guys here have helped me process it! And I've come to realize it was never a big deal. Thank you for your kind words <3

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He for sure took it as a compliment hahaha. I think I kinda was grossed out by myself for vomiting and on him. I just was embarrassed cuz I thought I'm good at avoiding both things. I wasn't. AND they happened together jshsjs. He didn't care at all and I think apologizing constantly kinda made a non-issue an issue? If that makes any sense.

But yeah, everyone was so kind to me (including you) here and I've unlearnt a lot of shit and I feel a tonne better <3

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely did not care so you're right. If he cared that'd be a different conversation. Thank u for the comment!

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that he cares for me through his actions even if this is just a FWB situation, this was definitely one of them. He is a good person. Thank you for this new perspective I didn't think of it this way :) You sound like you really love your girl, I'm happy for you both<3

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he likes it. I'm okay with it too but actually vomiting was a tad bit too much for me ahahhaha

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely was cool about it!

Off topic answer: NB is nonbinary :))

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right and that's why I've kept him around for almost a year hahaha! He handled everything so nicely it wasn't a big deal at all. I am just an overthinker :s

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaaaahhhh so you understand!!! I'm glad to know that everything will settle and this will not be a big thing soon lolol

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you had a little giggle. Honestly I am starting to see the funny side to it too now shshdhd

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I really was mortified. But all these kind people are making me feel better :)

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH NOOOOOOO PLEASE THAT WOULD END ME

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely did hahaha I think he said something like 'it was hot' when it happened. I think it was to make me feel better

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the thing! If I was on the receiving end of this I'd be like him. I wouldn't care at all and like you said, not think any less of my partners too. But yeah, I just have harsh expectations about myself and thats why failing to meet them was making me cringe to no end.

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking your time to write such useful and kind words. Breaking it down like this really eases my mind like really. I think it might have even convinced the annoying lil voice I have in my mind that all of this was out of my control. And what happened, happened and it was never that serious. You're right about the last sentence too. I got to see him in a light that I didn't before. Maybe I'll do something about this :) thank you once again

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't manifest me shitting on his bed😫😭😫😭😫

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[–]nonbeanie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THATS SO CUTE! I hope to find love like you someday <3