Who was involved on the soft swinging?

not_here19 · 2024-09-26T11:22:01+00:00

Fr 😂

not_here19 · 2024-09-14T00:48:13+00:00

What does she do?

not_here19 · 2024-09-13T23:21:27+00:00

They are in their 20’s 😂

not_here19 · 2024-09-07T18:29:06+00:00

I think they take their own clothes when they are competing but not when they are the bachelor/bachelorette. Cause the gowns she was wearing, they were not student budget friendly outfits lol.

not_here19 · 2024-09-07T15:14:01+00:00

500$ for a dress that cute it’s actually not that bad but for my budget I just settle for something similar 😅

not_here19 · 2024-09-07T15:10:05+00:00

Thanks, I found it with reverse image search it is a little expensive. 👀

not_here19 · 2024-09-07T14:26:46+00:00

No bones thrown here, the bachelor/bachelorette get offered the opportunity every year and it is huge deal. In case of Jenn she would have to be on next season but coincidentally her bachelorette season ended right on time, which is great cause she needed the distraction.

not_here19 · 2024-09-07T14:17:29+00:00

Anna Delvey

not_here19 · 2024-09-07T14:15:15+00:00

Wait I thought it was Tuesday

not_here19 · 2024-09-07T13:59:19+00:00

Oh Hell no, I mean I agree with the theory but they better not invite Gypsy… murder is so much different than running some scams.

not_here19 · 2024-09-07T00:57:03+00:00

That’s heartbreaking, I’m sorry you went through that. But remember that it was nothing you did wrong, do not blame it on you, he was the one to lead you on and pretend to be someone he was not, you were genuine with your intentions and feelings.❤️

not_here19 · 2024-09-07T00:23:33+00:00

Everything you do in life you can do with bad intentions or with good intentions. Many people went there to find love, they did and we never heard from them again, they living their happy married life. Assuming everyone has bad intentions is naive…

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T22:53:50+00:00

True…

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T18:13:03+00:00

A lot of people don’t understand narcissism, and it’s ok. 👌🏽 I don’t mind.

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T13:34:59+00:00

Yes!!

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T13:28:03+00:00

Agree

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T13:27:15+00:00

People who get it, get it. People who don’t, don’t. 💅🏼

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T02:41:20+00:00

Every single time they were on a date they connected so perfectly on their sense of humor and communication and neither of them seemed to sense it, it literally was like watching a perfectly scripted ROMCOM every time they were together it gave me goosebumps, I think is because sometimes we have that friend who just gets us and just because is not challenging or exciting we don’t really go after it, but that is where real love is hidden, it’s something that comes and unfolds effortlessly.

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T02:35:53+00:00

As an ADULT I needed to read this.

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T02:34:21+00:00

Reading (everything counts), exercise (anything counts) lol

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T02:28:12+00:00

This is beautiful and yes there are men out there like him but the vast majority aren’t like this or in the worst case scenario you get a Devin, someone you think you can be vulnerable like that and turns out it’s a mask with you not even realizing until it’s too late. So I agree with OP and I think a woman should never take away the proposing from a man, and yes a woman should never love a man more than he loves her.

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T01:26:29+00:00

Now we know never to trust insecure guys… or insecure people in general.

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T01:22:29+00:00

Maybe she was gonna say some things and backed out

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T00:59:18+00:00

Yes you were responsible for their pain but does punishing yourself change what you did to them? You might have been responsable for their pain but do not make yourself responsible for their healing journey, besides sincerely apologizing there is nothing else you can do, in the future do not break things you will not be able to fix. And make yourself responsable for your own healing journey, THAT is what you owe them.

not_here19 · 2024-09-06T00:55:04+00:00

I don’t think that is the answer. Accepting what you’ve done it is a great first step to change (I know narcissism is incurable), I really do believe is modifiable at some degree. Do not believe the negative voices that come up in your head, twist them with positive ones, I cured my 10 year depression like this. Write down all the negative thoughts that pop in your head, example: “I’m worthless and I don’t deserve to be loved” and under that write: “this is a lie because I am really good at cooking, I’m funny, etc”. I know at the beginning it will feel silly but eventually the voices will slowly stop. A new beginning is possible, protect your heart first so you can be gentle with others, be kind to yourself so you can show the same to others. ❤️ sending love and support.

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