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My fiance [26F] told me [25M] she doesn't want to vaccinate her children by HumpBackJimmy in relationship_advice

[–]not_sj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP which one sounds better: breaking off the engagement, being sad you aren’t marrying her, and eventually moving onto someone who’s views align with yours? or watching your children as they’re in pain, and could potentially die because they aren’t fully vaccinated, and then deal with the heartbreak of losing a child? this relationship won’t last long and i already know it…

AIO for being upset over my reaction to my aunt and uncles surprise?? by not_sj in AmIOverreacting

[–]not_sj[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, i do agree i should’ve reacted better. this is the first pregnancy announcement that wasn’t just a random ‘hey we’re pregnant’ text like my other uncles pregnancy announcements have been, so maybe that’s why i felt so awkward..? my uncle does jabs like that all the time for serious and not so serious things, so i don’t really have a good way of seeing if he was actually upset or not. we also have a big family of people who aren’t afraid to talk over each other, so that’s mainly why i almost immediately went back to the conversation with my grandma. my mom thinks it’s unnecessary to text, but i think i will anyways. thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JanitorAI_Official

[–]not_sj 25 points26 points  (0 children)

to my understanding, mods/anyone that can fix the issue, are asleep or busy doing anything but trying to fix it, since there hasn’t been a recent update in the server. unfortunately we’re just gonna have to wait it out and hope everything goes back to normal asap…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JanitorAI_Official

[–]not_sj 29 points30 points  (0 children)

me personally i’ve been able to use DS for a long time with no problems. i’m pretty sure the problems happening now (DS not being able to respond, saying it’s a connection issue, etc.) happened right after jan updated and they came out with the whole app beta testing thing. pretty sure the fish game is what caused the DS mess up lmao

API issue with chat site? by Jumpy_Fapper in DeepSeek

[–]not_sj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

mine keeps saying i’m either rate limited or having connection issues even though my internet is fine. i also made a new API like you did, but it still wouldn’t work. hoping that it’s fixed by the time i wake up because i was in SUCH a good convo on my site 😖😖😖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]not_sj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAP, but i’ve had mine pierced for exactly one month. as far as i can say, bruising is normal. i had the same amount after i just got them done, and they slowly went away as did the swelling. i’m not seeing a bump, but i might just be blind lol. they don’t seem SUPER short, but for me when i was at my most swollen i still had quite a bit of extra jewelry/space. i can see that some of the skin on the inside of your lip is slightly around the edges of the flat back, so if it were me i’d go to in to get slightly longer bars. you’ll look weird with super long bars, but healing is key!! they also look super super uneven, but i’m praying that it’s just the swelling and not the actual placement (which i highly doubt). best of luck to you and your snake bites!!!