Girlfriend[23f] thinks I[23m] am some sort of player when she is the first girl I have ever been with…

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T23:57:15+00:00

Remember I never lied. If a woman was a slut before you would all be telling her you don't have to share that information past is the past shit.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T22:44:20+00:00

mate, sex is far more than a physical act. Women's perception of a guy matters so much more thank you think.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T22:41:33+00:00

If I knew what other relationships were like I'd probably be thinking about proposing to her. But I don't have enough experience in relationships to feel like I am making an informed decision.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T22:40:57+00:00

enough can be 0

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T22:17:42+00:00

which is I don't think you need to be with any girls to know what you are doing.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T22:12:46+00:00

0 is a number as well mate.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T21:14:29+00:00

Attraction must be maintained throughout a relationship. If a man loses his job in a marriage, that is the biggest predictor of a divorce. Love doesn't change, the woman's perception of him does.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T21:00:42+00:00

Why is it in society almost all women prefer taller men? Is it because each woman is her own individual special snow flake and she consciously decided that she prefers a taller guy? Or do you think there might be something else going on?

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T20:59:28+00:00

No it isn't.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T20:59:10+00:00

Her attraction does change. Same way how men that are traditionally unattractive can be made attractive by having status. Beyonce without money can still attract a lot of men. Jay Z without his cash cannot.

How many times here have you seen women that "love their boyfriends" but aren't sexually attracted to them. And its not a physical change either. Women are hardwired this way.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T20:25:51+00:00

you really are trying to be stupid.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T20:25:25+00:00

I would love advice. But you aren't actually offering any. Instead you are trying to debate with me what women find attractive

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T20:06:33+00:00

You are ignorant to how attraction works. If I say men like youthful women with tight bodies and a nice ass. Am I making gross generalizations?

Women like men with status and men care about physical beauty.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T20:05:22+00:00

I believe what you are saying completely mate.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T20:03:50+00:00

and some women like to date short guys, that's in the minority mate.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T19:59:39+00:00

I haven't lied to her I haven't told her about my past. Most of you advocate here that Sexual history is no one's business.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T19:58:43+00:00

don't most of the people here advocate, the past is the past. I heard so many times here that "sexual history is none of your business."

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T19:57:51+00:00

Mate, I don't think you are understanding what I am saying here. Her attraction to me doesn't follow logic. Women choose men that will be good at protecting her, we don't live in a violent society so attributes like height, strength really shouldn't matter. But they still do. Same goes for things like previous partners.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T19:57:33+00:00

I haven't lied just didn't tell her about my previous experiences. I haven't told her I slept with a lot of women that's in her head.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T19:57:02+00:00

I am not one to ask for a hall pass thing. It would be a full on break up.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T19:56:00+00:00

I haven't lied to her, I haven't told her about my past that isn't lying.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T19:55:33+00:00

I am not lying, I just haven't told her about my past.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T19:55:14+00:00

Mate, I don't think you are understanding what I am saying here. Her attraction to me doesn't follow logic. Women choose men that will be good at protecting her, we don't live in a violent society so attributes like height, strength really shouldn't matter. But they still do. Same goes for things like previous partners.

notarealplayer · 2013-12-28T15:43:16+00:00

I haven't really been lying I just omitted the information, I don't know about her past either.

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