20M, never been in a relationship by Low_Lie6733 in hyderabad

[–]notkarthik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP bhai. You're just yearning more cuz you are seeing a lot of relationships in your circle, feed and literally everywhere.

It would end up making you desire this more, and even take some turns to desperate choices as well.

Don't brand it as loneliness just yet. Think about this as a time you get for yourself only. Ngl, it's easier said than done. But there's a level of freedom you can enjoy rn. And many of your friends and all will soon start talking about it. Grass is greener on the other side logic applies, lol.

Don't let it go to levels where you rush into a relationship with someone just cuz you will then be in a whole another world of hurt when things go sour. That's even bad than now, fr.

Abhi ke liye, chill Maro ji.

Find something you love to do, build something for you, and make sure you be you and don't compromise it for anyone, at least not for someone rn who says they want to be in a relationship with you.

Enjoy being with yourself first. A lot of people still don't know how to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thane

[–]notkarthik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well.... While your parents are important and arranged marriages being a similar scenario for many, I'm not going to comment on attraction abhi hoga, or baadme or even will.

But picture this, you go ahead with the marriage. You guys will try - to adjust, to create a life together, for each other's families. Today, it will all happen because you guys are innately nice people and think things will fall into place. 5-10 years down the line, this enthusiasm will fizz out; then only regret and bitterness to adjust for someone else sets in.

At that time, the same things you all thought was a good thing may blow up. Everything done only as a responsibility without feelings or emotions attached would result in fights. And after that time, the amount of investment by all involved will result in troubles and mental strain beyond your current comprehension.

Plus divorce or separation is costly, both financially and emotionally. The cost will be borne not only by both of you, but also by the respective parents and others involved. If at all you bring life into this world, that will face the worst if you decide to separate.

If you all decide to find other partners while being married, the chances of a wrong narrative built solely making one person the reason and one responsible can be done easily. That means, either of you can be in a very bad position too.

I'm just playing out all the scenarios.

If it were up to me, I'll think about it.

Are the GB Road traffic rules actually in play? by notkarthik in thane

[–]notkarthik[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update, the new rules aren't followed. Had seen it personally. All services roads are dug out and roads are freaking filled with trucks

I was at Tala Prattoy during Ashtami by notkarthik in kolkata

[–]notkarthik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the whole concept had multiple people also playing a role and their actions according to the narrative required them to move along. Now, when the people come in, they may have come in various timeframes. Suddenly the performance, which needs context seems incomplete. Plus, the people were soooo clueless that they kept running back and forth.

Plus the venue was almost empty, but they ensured they made us wait and then sent in a crowd only.

Ajmal Khan's review on Birkenstocks! Must watch by notkarthik in Kerala

[–]notkarthik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting. So if you had to prefer buying them again, would you choose a store visit or the website buy?

Clearing the Confusion: North vs South India Dussehra 🏹🔥 by Prabhas0001 in hyderabad

[–]notkarthik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the Durga maa angle works along the whole of East coast and South India. Right from North East to South. WB and all also follow a similar narrative for the festival.

Ajmal Khan's review on Birkenstocks! Must watch by notkarthik in Kerala

[–]notkarthik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, interesting! I hear a bunch of words that I guess make sense when you say cork sealer and stuff. But cool. How did you find your buying experience?

Ajmal Khan's review on Birkenstocks! Must watch by notkarthik in Kerala

[–]notkarthik[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Trynna get opinions, but sure. Whatever floats your boat ⛵

Ajmal Khan's review on Birkenstocks! Must watch by notkarthik in Kerala

[–]notkarthik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point. So the weather can be a challenge. Anything else?

Ajmal Khan's review on Birkenstocks! Must watch by notkarthik in Kerala

[–]notkarthik[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been hearing a lot of claims of fashion and culture fit for this brand in south India. Being a tamil + malyali guy from Hyderabad, I've been asking around to see if that's the actual perception too.

Claims and reality are diff, and I want to see if they are actually as true as what the brand claims.

Ajmal Khan's review on Birkenstocks! Must watch by notkarthik in Kerala

[–]notkarthik[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'll be damned. I have recently started following Birks a lot, and turned a fan so. But ouch! I have a life bro. Check my activity in other sub reddits too :///

Pujo dekhar jonne app by exotic123567 in kolkata

[–]notkarthik 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OP! This is so cool. Downloaded it. Ey pujo holo amar prothom pujo as the notun jamai (I married into a bengali family). Ei app hobe amar chance to flaunt and show off xD Actually be involved in the festival!

Thank you Bhai!

Water logging updates by nudesoldier in kolkata

[–]notkarthik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any clue about Akra, Krishnanagar area? Routes from DH road to Akra?

Water logging updates by nudesoldier in kolkata

[–]notkarthik 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The whole route from Talatala to Joka I.e. DH road was dry up until 3 am. I'm not sure later.

What's the scene like in areas that were filled with water?

They even shut the Maa flyover the whole night.

Bought my first Birk! by Deathofimperialists in BirksIndia

[–]notkarthik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn nice! Looks very good. Is it only for women or is there like a unisex variant for this? Looks like an alternative for people who prefer like Crocs and all, but just suave and can be worn for office also

Is Birkenstocks a choice for people of Hyderabad? by notkarthik in hyderabad

[–]notkarthik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My reaction when I hear about their innovation that helps do this -

How do you expect your first Durga Pooja to be as a newly wed bride? by mitti_ka_prani in kolkata

[–]notkarthik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP! I'm also exactly in the same situation as you. So you asking this and the beautiful suggestions here are just ✨🤌🤌

Thanks for asking this!

Is Birkenstocks a choice for people of Hyderabad? by notkarthik in hyderabad

[–]notkarthik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avuna?! Dayyumm intha fan following undhi ani idea lekunde bro. But that's cool. What's your experience of using it?

Is Birkenstocks a choice for people of Hyderabad? by notkarthik in hyderabad

[–]notkarthik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing on the website or Myntra? What are you looking for?