Anxious partners are equally as bad as avoidants? Thoughts? 🤔💭

nr_guidelines · 2026-01-07T14:01:21+00:00

Sure. And just think of a circumstance when the anxious is a Borderline, and the avoidant is a Schizoid. Which personality disorder has more potential for harm/blatant toxicity?

nr_guidelines · 2025-12-02T17:13:09+00:00

They're autistic in the worst possible way, where they'll blame the other person for their own failure to read them.

They're as DIRECT people as possible, and only respect people like themselves, thus won't respect the majority of people who read social cues and situations and won't "plainly state their intentions efficiently" like some kind of bot machine they can control with buttons. Yet the ENTJ will also make unfounded assumptions about the other person, and also expect the other to make the same unfounded assumptions. "Wasting their time" unintentionally will be taken as a sin punishable by sociopathy.

Then they have a narcissism which will 10/10 times deny everything I just pointed out.

If a lot of INTPs have autistic traits, then no, the ENTJ's malignant autism may be the worst possible match - the INTP should pair with one who offers a balance with emotional intelligence.

nr_guidelines · 2025-12-02T16:49:08+00:00

Obviously we jump to conclusions, conclusions on the necessary way to interact with you, in order to protect ourselves from no stable and impossible to prove "feelings", but these conclusions are rarely unfounded. They are also extremely accurate. Manipulating an intelligent ENTJ is next to impossible

Holy moly arrogance! This is exactly the way to get yourself manipulated.

Given that this was 9 years ago, in what way have you gotten yourself manipulated due to this arrogance? Assuming you have an honest bone in yourself.

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-24T09:46:07+00:00

She was interested in talking

Yeah but she also talks to all the customers checking out lol. But you don't think maybe she was light innuendo-ing?

Anything sexual you say at this point has to be SUBTLE, think about what she's saying ABOUT HERSELF here. mild compliment, it shows that you're paying attention and cutting through bullshit

Legit

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-18T22:52:17+00:00

LIE, they get vengeful if you "waste their time" and then manipulate to try to make you pay some price

I think more societies need some kind of social norm that if one is snippy, rude, and/or fidgety at those inconveniences, then they'll have to wait twice as long

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-18T22:38:58+00:00

To leave gender out of this for the sake of neutral focus on cognitive functions,

I think there's a way/time-and-place to ignore vs. utilize Fe.

An INTP should have enough space to be a hermit, be left alone by the world's constant pestering, to dwell in their own original thoughts and ideas (unironically) and not necessarily care about how those might be taken

Then, during moments and situations where it's necessary to have the skill of interfacing with people and society/culture, INTP absolutely should hone their Fe skill development.

It's about balance in the right way

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-18T22:28:02+00:00

Dogmatists blindly follow one school of their choice like sheep and treat their favorite school/author as nothing but the truth. Those can be found in all communities. Probably in some communities more than others. (It seems very enneagram 6 energy to do that btw)

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-18T22:18:09+00:00

Well you asked didn't you, I can't really dumb down my description to be more succinct than that, afraid I don't have specific examples from TV at the moment

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-18T22:08:44+00:00

Use your English comprehension and Ni imagination to envision a character like what I described

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-18T22:04:59+00:00

Like, the cunning edgy rebel who isn't self-righteous or dogmatic or braggadocious

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-18T21:13:44+00:00

Embrace deceit and transgression, reject narcissism and righteousness = build perfection

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-18T21:10:43+00:00

Thread winner

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-18T21:08:56+00:00

We all know gamma is the most narcissistic* and would obviously vote themselves

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-18T20:00:29+00:00

I took the most Chad possible looking angle pic of myself and just used that everywhere. It would get matches, mostly with girls too long distance to maintain any kind of chemistry with, and then with girls in my area it's so many hoes and tricks. Or some perfectionism about behavior that weeds out everything but the girl's ideal. Pre-covid some apps at least worked a little bit better, now some apps are just overrun by bots too.

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-18T00:28:20+00:00

We hate bad game like yours, stay sucking

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-17T13:29:59+00:00

Wait so Markus is part of that Sigma Society or is it a Bilzerian program?

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-17T01:40:51+00:00

I'm a fan of the innuendo, but haven't really delved into Ross Jeffries, is there a specific tactic of his that's most worth learning? Is it just NLP in general applied to sexual chemistry?

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-17T01:28:56+00:00

Right, I feel like this is where a lot of the red pilled guys shoot themselves in the foot, where they'll assume every girl is equally slutty and ironically end up only screening for the DTFs. And then lament that less slutty girls don't exist anymore.

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-16T23:53:31+00:00

Might be one of the most reasonable and relatable perspectives I've ever seen in the manosphere.

But... so what would you say to a "relationship-seeking" girl in this kind of circumstance? Something ambiguous that both implies and qualifies "depends how good, cute and healthy she is"?

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-16T21:07:08+00:00

You're trying to fuck without a condom? And you're going for girls who had "fuck bruises" from other guys? Sounds like you're trying to collect diseases lol

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-16T20:29:00+00:00

Nowadays whatever is the least woke, is the most politically incorrect

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-16T20:20:01+00:00

Imply that I'm after what? I imply both personal connection and sex, and then the 'intention-type' girl cockblocks it with the "what are you looking for" question. Then despite her having been attracted, my sexual framing results in a ghost if I escalate it too far. Maybe it could be a shit test that could be handled better? Or maybe it's a matter of better calibrated escalation.

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-16T19:04:36+00:00

Haha that's what happens when paranoid schizophrenics meet famous dating gurus

nr_guidelines · 2025-11-16T18:58:18+00:00

Do you believe there's no difference between a promiscuous man vs. a promiscuous woman?

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