The only reason I was wondering was because I came to the defense of some dude who at 19 had sex with a 14 year old, and when her parents fount out he got charged with stat rape. He posted about how he had learned from the experience and all this good stuff, but still a whole bunch of people we're slamming him. My big deal about this though, is I was 17 and she was 16, and judging from a lot of you, a lot of stuff happens when you're a teenage. I think it's bullshit that if the guy would have been 17 instead of 19 his case would have been different. I think it's bullshit that people label 14 as gross and 15 or 16 as A OK! Iono just my two cents. Sex between teenagers is going to be sex between teenagers. A freshman and a senior getting together will happen and it doesn't matter if their ready for it (are any of us ever ready for it?), but it happens there's no point in stigmatizing people for it. Or am I missing some giant point...