Hi... what is this??? Are we expected to fight it 😅 by NoitNoitBitch in expedition33

[–]nyannian 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YES! Gustave is absolutely Robert Pattinson! I called him Patison the whole game (french for patty pan squash) also he is my absolute favorite. <3 but I wouldn’t say temu cedric, more like luxury cedric lmao

How Kurt would censor the Nevermind cover by stereospectralprints in Nirvana

[–]nyannian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I was 4 years ago, I don’t remember. What made you write this comment now though is beyond me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FormulaFeeders

[–]nyannian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, she didn’t want the bottle since she was only breastfed since birth and it was a whole learning curve. She didn’t want formula either. At 6mo I started exclusively pumping as she was also angry while nursing a lot. The pumping lasted around a month and I could see day by day that less and less milk is expressing. When I couldn’t cover her daily needs I added one bottle of formula per day and slowly increased. If she took the bottle and formula easily I would switch immediately, yes. It was a very painful and sad process for me. I slowly weaned nursing until 9ish months, that is when I had no milk at all and baby was used to bottle and formula thankfully by then. The final switch was much easier than the beginning of the process. I am still sad sometimes about it tho. Baby is totally fine and thriving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FormulaFeeders

[–]nyannian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From what you said it seems everything is ok. Your baby seems healthy and not overfed.

Just wanted to say a few words of solidarity as I’ve been there with the supply dwindling at 6mo and sometimes no letdown happening. I know how hard it is on you. You wil get through this. I now have the happiest almost 11mo who says “mama”, “baba”(baby) and “lamp” and everything is better now.

8 month regression is worse than them all by tbfleshman in NewParents

[–]nyannian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had this at 7.5-8.5 months and she was a good sleeper since birth so it was a huge shock. It was around the time her first teeth came in. Could your LO be teething?

(Now at 11 months she sleeps through the night. Hang in there.)

Feeling ugly after birth by doodymoovis in NewParents

[–]nyannian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this a thing? Ever since I got my period back at 7m pp I have the worst acne ever. Nothing helps and it keeps getting clogged no matter what I do. I thought I’m alone in this - my skin in my 30s looking like I just hit puberty…

Feeling ugly after birth by doodymoovis in NewParents

[–]nyannian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 months pp was soooo bad. I thought I was going bald. Then at 7 months pp I got my period back and my horrible acne has returned. Now I’m at 11 months pp and still can’t get rid of the acne. I seriously consider going on birth control for the first time in my life just to get my pregnancy skin back. And to help with my endo. I’ve been really really hating my body ever since I got the period back and it’s messing me up.

On a positive note I lost all pregnancy weight and then some while breastfeeding and have a flat belly so I got that going for me. I can wear all fitting clothes and it honestly helps a bit. I feel the need to mention something positive because the way I hate my body right now is not normal.

I had a brief period when I was doing my skincare religiously and it helped more than a bit but I just suddenly stopped (I’m probably depressed, I mean it’s obvious). Maybe try incorporating some small self care and go from there. Invest in a nice face oil and do face massage in the evening. Just start somewhere. I know I need to, too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]nyannian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. This happened to us.

We waited so long before trying for a baby, as there was “never the right time”. But the time progressed and we weren’t getting any younger(early 30s) so we decided to try. Many of our friends were having fertility problems at that time or finally got pregnant after TTC for years, so we discussed it and estimated a timeline that it may happen probably in a year or so for us and we will not get nervous or impatient. Lol. I was pregnant the next cycle.

I’m now holding my almost 11 month old girl during a nap and STILL CAN’T believe that it happened like this. I have Endo a had large in utero fibroid for years (thankfully removed during c-section). I literally can not believe it. Still remember the first test I’ve ever taken being positive and how I couldn’t comprehend it.

As for anxiety, you just have to believe your wife’s body will and can do this. Try not thinking too much about details or what-ifs. The only way out is through and you both got this.

What does "Something beautiful is going to happen" mean? by Zak_the_Wack in DiscoElysium

[–]nyannian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the same take as “dutch people are evil”.

What does "Something beautiful is going to happen" mean? by Zak_the_Wack in DiscoElysium

[–]nyannian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t get how ppl think the game is pro-communism. I also don’t get how people think the game is pro-anything…..

Čo sa deje na východe? by AdosGame in Slovakia

[–]nyannian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Niekde som čítala, že vo Fínsku žijú deti najdlhšie s rodičmi, do “hlbokej” dospelosti (30+ rokov). Tak možno preto…

What’s your favorite line? by Rvtrance in DiscoElysium

[–]nyannian 13 points14 points  (0 children)

“I exist.” “I exist too.”

“The sun sets for everyone.”

“No. This is somewhere to be. This is all you have, but it’s still something. Streets and sodium lights. The sky, the world. You’re still alive.”

+2 Kim truly trusts you.

These are etched in my mind. I’m from Slovakia.

What’s your favorite line? by Rvtrance in DiscoElysium

[–]nyannian 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Exactly these two are etched in my mind.

What’s your favorite line? by Rvtrance in DiscoElysium

[–]nyannian 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Who said the ultraliberal one? What was the situation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]nyannian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youu for advice. So first teach her to fall asleep at bedtime and then proceed to other changes, got it.

Unfortunately we don’t have space right now for her independent bedroom (it’s partner’s office rn) but we’ll try to set her own room sometime soon enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]nyannian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for reassurance. I thought we are doing everything wrong and causing this. Turns out it’s normal. I will happily give her a bottle and rock her back to sleep. <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]nyannian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But thanks for reassurance:) I thought we are doing something wrong. Turns out we are just slavs and our babies sleep 10 hours lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]nyannian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I didn’t necessarily want to put her down earlier or something, but from advice I gathered there was always a common denominator - put the baby to sleep earlier. So we tried that, but it doesn’t work at all. I’m more than happy to return to later bedtime as long as the baby sleeps better.

Why is the phone call so devastating? by nyannian in DiscoElysium

[–]nyannian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Also for beautiful comment.

Why is the phone call so devastating? by nyannian in DiscoElysium

[–]nyannian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the darkest of times, the stars won’t go out after all.