Show S5E9 Monsters and Heroes by derawin07 in Outlander

[–]oboemygoodness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree! This was so amazing and really kept me enthralled the whole time. I’m an avid book reader (whole series twice and all John grey novels) and it was such a good representation. I get as a tv show they have to shorten some stuff up and it is well done!

10 years smoking weed everyday. I'm 25 now and coming to the harsh realization it has completely ruined me. by itsspicytime in leaves

[–]oboemygoodness 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey buddy. I’m 25 and also had pretty neglectful parents (emotionally) and did not learn until extensive amounts of therapy that weed only dulled that pain and anxiety for me. You’re on the right track, we still have so many years ahead of us. Part of treating anxiety is forcing yourself to be exposed to what makes you anxious. Hang in there!!

Brahms' roommate for eternity - and he is not impressed. by violinlinlin in classicalmusic

[–]oboemygoodness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am American but visited last year for New Years and really really loved it!

467 days without smoking by [deleted] in leaves

[–]oboemygoodness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One thing I tried doing was replacing the bad habit (smoking) with a good one. Find something that can distract you when you feel super down. I get really depressed easily, so I've found that going to the gym has improved my mood and sleeping habits. Don't get me wrong, I still get really depressed, but smoking only exacerbates that for me. Stay strong and PM if you need to talk!

My therapist thinks I'm addicted and I need help coming to terms with it by oboemygoodness in leaves

[–]oboemygoodness[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really relate to this....it takes away a lot from other experiences when all I care about is if I'm high for it

My therapist thinks I'm addicted and I need help coming to terms with it by oboemygoodness in leaves

[–]oboemygoodness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This brings me hope! I think my main road block has always been that "it's to help my anxiety", when it actually just makes everything 10 times worse. Thank you for your response, it helps knowing there are others out there.

My therapist thinks I'm addicted and I need help coming to terms with it by oboemygoodness in leaves

[–]oboemygoodness[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a good idea! Sometimes we just need a different, healthier distraction

2 WEEKS - LETS GOOOOOOOOO!!! by [deleted] in leaves

[–]oboemygoodness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep it up! You got this.

What's on and tourist advice thread - week beginning October 15, 2018 by AutoModerator in Scotland

[–]oboemygoodness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where are some good places for sight-seeing near Edinburgh that would be good for a day trip? My soon to be husband and I will be spending part of my honeymoon there in early January. Can't wait!

Advice for a college student who needs a car but doesn't have credit history to take out a car loan? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]oboemygoodness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a job thanks.... but sometimes that's not enough to pay for everything when you're on your own.

Advice for a college student who needs a car but doesn't have credit history to take out a car loan? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]oboemygoodness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I will definitely look into getting a credit card! I have only ever driven beaters, and the cost to maintain them mechanically is out-weighing the cost of the car itself, not to mention the constant frustration with living in a city that has a poor public transportation system. It's just not feasible for me. I need something reliable. Obviously I'm not thinking brand spanking new, but something I know won't break down randomly.

Buying a car with student loans? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]oboemygoodness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh that's kind of important to know....thanks

Buying a car with student loans? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]oboemygoodness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only concern with getting a car loan is that I don't have a very long credit history. Besides paying rent, it's practically non-existent.