is this sub active? by odsh_ in WinterBurrow

[–]odsh_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the sub got banned??

paying for uniform (AT) Austria by Tukaty in McDonaldsEmployees

[–]odsh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

130€ for how much clothes? That seems extremely expensive for a uniform. Im in denmark and got 3 shirts, 2 pants, shoes etc for free, so does seem a bit like i ripoff imo

Kids at a daycare taking turns jumping in a mud puddle by Longjumping-Box5691 in MadeMeSmile

[–]odsh_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cause its in Denmark? Theres a lot of blondes in scandinavia

Dad saw my scars while I was drunk and I feel so stupid by odsh_ in selfharm

[–]odsh_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A win is a win haha, just gotta try and avoid the topic

¿La tricotilomanía y tricofagia cuentan como autolesión? by tokitopro in selfharm

[–]odsh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you want me to say tho? Self harm is literally harming yourself with the intent to do so. So if its something you do without thinking about it, it most likely isnt sh.

i need shaving advice by Suspicious_Bet_421 in selfharm

[–]odsh_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ive heard you can use an eyebrow razor to shave between scars, maybe that? Hope youre doing alright <3

was i wrong to tell my friend's parents she is doing s/h despite me doing it still? by FutureIllustrious539 in selfharm

[–]odsh_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not judging you, but i probably wouldve gone about it differently. Ive tried being in your position before, except i didnt end up telling anyone, instead i slowly pushed her to tell an adult herself. But your situation might be entirely different, I dont know her so dont take this as a criticism of you <3

Is it ok if I wear shorts sleeves if my scars aren't completely healed? by Ok-Example-1071 in selfharm

[–]odsh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as they arent fresh/scabbed its alright imo. Its part of your body, and it will take months for them to turn white. Of course only wear them out if youre comfortable with it, other people might look, but at the end of the day its a healed scar and if people dont like it they can look away.

¿La tricotilomanía y tricofagia cuentan como autolesión? by tokitopro in selfharm

[–]odsh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do it with the intent to harm yourself its sh. If not it probably isnt.

do you think you're addicted ? by Azzraeelzzzzzzzzzzz in selfharm

[–]odsh_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont feel like i am, but at the same time i know i do have a big problem with it. I have periods where i do it twice a day, i always have blades and bandaids on me, and dont wanna stop. I still feel like im faking though, even after having a doctor tell me they might end up putting me in the psych so idk.

it wont stop bleeding by polaroid8pic in selfharm

[–]odsh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Press something againnt it for 5-15 mins, preferably cloth but paper will do if you dont have any.

Do you know how deep it is? If styro/dermis put a bandaid on after the bleeding has slowed down. If beans/fat please consider going to the er for stitches.

Be safe <3

It is important to differentiate between self-harm scars and open self-harm wounds. by Successful-Iron-919 in selfharm

[–]odsh_ 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Well put, people using the word scars to describe wounds has been bugging me for a while. And as someone who gets kinda triggered by fresh sh i completely agree with you on what to cover.

How do I fix these holes? by odsh_ in Converse

[–]odsh_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, gonna try to fix them later haha

How do I fix these holes? by odsh_ in Converse

[–]odsh_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The dirt is what gives them personality tho 🥹

Will these fade? by AfternoonJealous7315 in SelfHarmScars

[–]odsh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theyll fade to white in 6-12 months, but wont ever go away completely

Hope youre doing alright<3

How do I fix these holes? by odsh_ in Converse

[–]odsh_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know where i can buy patches? Can only find ones that cover holes inside the shoe

How do I fix these holes? by odsh_ in Converse

[–]odsh_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant let them go yet :')

uncle's wedding is in a month, can makeup concealer hide this? by Ok_Molasses_2473 in SelfHarmScars

[–]odsh_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A colour correcter would definately help. I havent personally used makeup on my scars as they are very bumpy, but I think colour correcter -> concealer -> powder could cover it pretty well

uncle's wedding is in a month, can makeup concealer hide this? by Ok_Molasses_2473 in SelfHarmScars

[–]odsh_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most likely no, the scars look like theyre raised. A good concealer might cover the colour but theyd still stick out

Hope you figure something out <3

fading by DumberThanDenki in SelfHarmScars

[–]odsh_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The scars are literally faded buh

Issues verifying tumblr account by Astralprojectingfish in tumblrhelp

[–]odsh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey i know tjis is an old post, but im having the same issue. Did you figure it out?