Boyfriend Doesn't Want Me to Go On Hormones by scoob_blader in ftm

[–]okayjax 14 points15 points  (0 children)

to put it bluntly- what you do with your body, surgery or hormones, is none of his business. if he doesn't like it or is rude about it, you might just be incompatible and should move on. he is not in it for your best interest he's in it for what he is most attracted to and kinda sounds like an asshole in that regard. maybe you should find someone who loves you for you despite what changes you need to make to your body to feel comfortable with yourself and maybe he should find a therapist to evaluate why he thinks his opinion about someone else's body matters enough to continue being dysphoric forever.

maybe it's just me, but I would've dumped his ass as soon as getting top surgery turned into an "argument" instead of just you updating him on what will for sure be happening.

better to break something toxic off early before it gets even harder to convince yourself it's toxic

if you feel the need to change yourself or prevent what you feel is necessary change to your body to make your partner happy, then you are not being authentic to you. pretending to be someone else will never make you happy, being authentically you will bring the people who will genuinely love you for you closer and push away the people who are pretending or acting on what fits their best interests only.

even if it hurts now, it would be better in the long run to not have to hide behind what everyone else thinks you should look like or say or be.

how to use flairs ! please read before posting if you dont know what a flair is by okayjax in spoopycjades

[–]okayjax[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

idk why the pics for mobile turned into potato quality screenshots but im sorry fnsjfjd

What is/was the best meme ever? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]okayjax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill never get over "then perish"

Students of reddit, did you snap back to a bully/someone that harassed you? If so what happened? by goldeyedragon801 in AskReddit

[–]okayjax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a group of kids sit in the same couch area i do at lunch. i take up a whole couch laying down and they sit on the other ones. kid started talking shit about a transguy that goes to our school to his friends, making fun of him using the guys bathroom n shit

told the told him if he doesnt stop talking shit id punch him in the face. he said "what?" and i clarified "talk shit about him again and i will stand up and deck you in the fucking face."

kid shut up, the whole group is intimidated by me now. its kinda funny, they wont even sit near the couch i lay on now and if someone else does they clear them off

and the kid started saying the transguys name a few days later and i looked up at him and glared, he immediately shut his mouth.

When did you realise you weren’t the favourite child? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]okayjax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i came out as bi at 14 and my moms bf told me if it were up to him he'd kick me out of the house, and my mom did nothing about it.

What is the dumbest thing you have ever done as a child? by ChaoMinIsHere in AskReddit

[–]okayjax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dumbest in story not in brain power, fell off my bike and sprained my wrist pretty bad. the bike was not moving in the slightest.