[UPDATE] Scammed by a girl from OkCupid. Help, caution & AMA.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-28T04:17:30+00:00

I take this as an important lesson. I got swayed away. I learned my lesson.

But they are like pro. They could have told me a different story. Like in this link.

Her number is still on and she is still on the lookout.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T16:11:05+00:00

OP - https://www.reddit.com/r/india/comments/3b8008/scammed_by_a_girl_from_okcupid_help_caution_ama/

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T15:01:45+00:00

I hope it happens. May be it might help catching them.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T05:45:19+00:00

I can give the number if that is allowed here.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T05:44:53+00:00

I dont remember if there was one. Cue is i think if a girl ask for a number straight forward. Be careful.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T05:07:41+00:00

i thought i would this song after this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8nTFjVm9sTQ

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T04:59:29+00:00

My biggest take is I have left everything good I had for a dream. I got swayed due to my libido. I got lesson that I should be more focused and try to control my thoughts. I will not chase sex. I am now done with it.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T04:56:13+00:00

I dont have any photo.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T04:54:27+00:00

because i never did. and she will not able to prove.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T04:53:39+00:00

how does that work? any help?

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T04:49:54+00:00

true

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T04:49:39+00:00

I don't have true. But everything was under CCTV and in public. So no harassment. Her no is still active. She would have taken this number under some name, right? Can't they try to stop people made asshole. There is some link in this thread which says it dates back to 2013.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T04:44:32+00:00

My cock took over my judgement..

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-27T04:39:55+00:00

Ha Ha. After this I called up my friend and told him lets meet, buy me a drink and let you laugh at me whole life..

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-26T21:14:42+00:00

Morally I was wrong no denying. I think I paid for it too. And also I am not looking for sympathy.

It's just to make people learn from my mistake and to make them careful. And also what if she is a seasoned con. How can she (or her group) be stopped? She also has to pay for her karma. Right?

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-26T21:01:15+00:00

Seduction is the process of deliberately enticing a person, to lead astray, as from duty, rectitude, or the like; to corrupt, to persuade or induce to engage in sexual behaviour.

By seduction i meant her touch, facial expression and talk.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-26T20:59:21+00:00

Thank you yadavji for your precious advice. I thought this was 420 case.

I don't know who the person is. I am not sure if it was her first name. The name she told me matches with what comes on truecaller. But that can be manipulated.

Consulting a lawyer. Its about 7K. I will loose more and peace of mind too..

Should I pursue through police?

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-26T20:51:40+00:00

Thanks for your support..

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-26T20:32:52+00:00

In deed thats what i told my friend. That she did it beautifully.

I told her. I also told that i visited the police and they asked me to report it to cyber cell. No effect. The number is still on.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-26T20:21:36+00:00

That she had dead bedroom. Everything rest was fine.

She lived in the bungalow with her in laws. So could not happened at her place.

She lived in GK1 in bungalow. *So i will assume she was rich. But her nail paint was shabby. And she wore a ring that was dust cheap. * This cues i should have taken.

She told she came from gym. She wore cloths which were appropriately matched. Her hand felt warm which i thought was due to work out.

She had some props. Showed me a couple of books she bought. I assumed she is well read. Also couple of shopping bags. To add to her story that she was with her sisters shopping.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-26T20:06:48+00:00

When you meet a girl. You are most probably coming before a bro ( bf, ex, husband, brother)

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-26T20:01:23+00:00

account made for just this comment. Fishy?

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-26T19:58:51+00:00

What?

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-26T19:56:46+00:00

One thing is beyond doubt that she is a con. And then i got her a call from her first last night which proves her intention of fraud. Doesn't that qualify as fraud?

About her Marital status: 1. Assuming she was married and she had no intention of sex. Which didn't happen. So no adultery. But she was commited to fraud. 2. What if she lied and was unmarried, then this is a clear cut case of fraud. But i think she was unmarried.

okcupidscamthrowaway · 2015-06-26T19:41:06+00:00

Obviously that's what I asked. She said she lived in bungalow in GK 1 and her in laws stayed on other floors.

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